Change Is Hard

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A new beginning

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Over this past weekend my husband and I traveled to Southern Illinois to attend the wedding of the son of a friend of ours. It felt good, after the weeks of waiting for loss, to be witness to a new beginning. The young couple have so much of their lives ahead of them, are so happy and excited about their prospects, that it was contagious. We wish them all the best!

On the way down to the wedding we stopped in Springfield IL to see Lincoln’s tomb. We arrived after the cemetery was closed, so we stayed in a very strange Howard Johnson across the street. It didn’t have any windows in the front, sort of looked like a fort. It turned out to be OK, and really really quiet! In the morning we went over to Oak Ridge cemetery and visited the tomb. It’s worth the visit, the cemetery is beautiful, very old, and the story of how the Lincoln tomb was built is interesting. We wandered around some of the rest of the cemetery as well, then continued on to the small town where our friends live.

The family lives in farm country, with lush fields of tall corn, and beautiful dense green fields of soy beans. It’s a different kind of landscape for me, but very beautiful in it’s own way.

We were staying with the groom’s parents on their family farm, and I took the opportunity to run while I was there on the straight and FLAT county roads. I had, as my running companions, the farm dogs, Cooper the chocolate lab, and Lewie, the beagle. I have never run with dogs before and I have to say it was a lot of fun. Cooper ran in and out of the water filled ditch on the side of the road and kept me cool by shaking and flinging water all over me every chance he got. Lewie was off ahead of us, chasing some unknown prey in the soy bean fields. At one point Lewie took off down another road and I figured, “no problem, he knows where he lives” and kept running straight. After a bit I heard the clacking of toenails as he raced up from behind, tongue hanging out, a big grin on his face. We had a lot of fun, and Lewie was ready to go again when we got back to the house.

After my run I grabbed the camera to take pictures of my companions and the farm. A storm was coming in, and the sky was amazing.

After the wedding we headed home along a rain slicked highway. More storm clouds piled up, and I got this shot from the moving car. Later we heard about the bad weather in Chicago, but luckily this storm blew over us with no effect on our drive.

We had a good time on our little mini vacation. We affirmed again that we travel well together; it was a good break from our real lives, and we really appreciate the hospitality of our host!

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

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