Change Is Hard

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Reevaluating assumptions

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Last night at the library I was struck by a learning moment…for me. A young man, perhaps 9 or 10, stopped by the desk, and in a soft voice asked me if we had Beethoven. I started looking through the catalog for the movie about the big dog. Not seeing it, I asked the other librarian if she had seen it, totally ignoring the soft voice saying he wanted Beethoven on a CD. Eventually (and I have to say a bit ashamedly not quickly) his voice wound its way into my brain. He wanted a CD. Music, not the movie. He wanted Beethoven music.

He had been listening to some Beethoven on one of our computers and he wanted to know if we had the CD.  While we searched the CD shelves I asked if he played an instrument. He said no. I asked if he was was working on a project about Beethoven at school. He said no. Turns out he just likes listening to it. He left with one CD and ordered three more to be sent from another branch. Mostly piano concertos, a couple done with violin.

After he left I sat myself down and knocked myself up the side of the head. Because of his age I had leaped to the assumption that he wanted a movie about a dog. Even with added evidence, him softly clarifying that he wanted a CD not a DVD, I stayed with what I thought was the truth far beyond when I should have been listening to him. It’s a lesson I’ve had to learn before, and apparently I needed to learn once again. You can’t tell what a person is interested in based on the way they look.

Really.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

6 thoughts on “Reevaluating assumptions

  1. Isn’t it amazing how many lessons are like that, in needing to be frequently relearned? Happens to me a lot, anyway…

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  2. P.S. – How wonderful to hear of a 9-year-old liking Beethoven’s music – and knowing to look for it in the library! I wonder if he listens to public radio?

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  3. What a great story. I remember being in my classroom a few years ago when a student’s cell phone rang. How shocked I was when his ringtone was a Beethoven song. It seemed so out of character for this kid, who seemed more a fan of rap, than classical music. I laughed, and told him “nice ringtone”, before I told him to turn the cellphone off.

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  4. I love when people suprise me. 🙂 Sounds like a great kid. I’m so jealous of you working in a library!
    ~Dee (Ludo’s mum)

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  5. Tis possible there is a latent talent waiting for the inspiration to be triggered….and he found what he is looking for. How knows where it will take him.

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  6. Since my mom and dad are symphony musicians, they were really glad to hear your story and to know that some kids like classical music – maybe there is still hope for the arts in the US.

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