Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

And the decision is….

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You can see that the blog is looking traditional again.  I lived with the big formating changes for a couple of days, but looking at it made me feel sort of frenetic, less peaceful and even slightly stressed.  So I changed it back. Thanks, Spike, for making me consider something outside the box!

Partly I changed it back because I liked the idea of putting my own photo at the top.  This one is a photo I took from the boat of the mountain where we put my parents’ ashes.  It’s a beautiful place and I think I’ll enjoy looking at the photo each day.  Eventually I’ll change it to something else, probably just as pretty!

The good news in all this is that I was able to change it back all by myself!    WHOOOOHOOO!  If you really know me (Susie, Spike, Erin etc) you’d know how this computer stuff has been elusive for me; it’s all a bit of magic black box hocus pocus and not something that is intuitive.  So it took a lot for me to even try to change something – to poke around at what was admittedly a pretty easy formatting software site to add specific widgets in order  to make this blog a reflection of me.

So much of the time our fears are truly just that – ours.  Things that seem insurmountable can actually be handled by just trying to make one decision at a time.  Or a piece of one decision.  Or the decision to just try to make a piece of a decision.  If we don’t give up, if we don’t allow ourselves to be overwhelmed by the big picture – which I agree is often REALLY big and scary – if we just move one foot in front of the other…well…eventually we can all get to where we want to be.

And if we pay attention, we’ll learn a little bit about the world and ourselves along the way.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

10 thoughts on “And the decision is….

  1. I’m glad you left the pig favicon! It inspired me to create one of Oreo. And I love your header photo. I can hear the water lapping against the shore.

    I’ll miss trying to score a pink comment box though 😦

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  2. Have to admit the favicon is Spike’s idea…and that I don’t have a clue what a favicon is. Sorry about the pink thing. Maybe there’s a way I can incorporate that still…

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  3. I do like this one better. Mountains and water – aren’t they the world’s best things? Things being the key word here – which category does not include anythings living and breathing.

    When it comes to anything computer related, if it has an “undo” button, I’ll try it.

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  4. Hi Dawn. I always see your comments left on Ricky and Sara’s blog but didn’t really notice you had a sheltie 🙂 Anyway, it’s nice to meet you!

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  5. But…but…it still doesn’t look like the “old” blog, does it? I like this. Like your pic on the top. You’ll come up with something you love. 🙂

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  6. I like this one better too! It is so clean and neat and I love the header photo! What you say about things seeming to be insurmountable and then just making a little bit of a
    decision and then another one, etc. is so true!

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  7. Dawn, I have nominated you as “Versatile Blogger”, because I think you are just that. If you wish to accept this award, please see my blog, Wanderings of an Elusive Mind, at www. mysiteontheweb.com, and follow the bouncing ball!

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  8. hi dawn, since I never saw the other layout I guess I like this one!LOL I do like the sentiment of not getting overwhelmed by change, since I almost always am!
    And I can sympathize with technical difficulties since I am *still* working out the kinks on the new Lessons From and For 4 Legs. We linked to you from Ricky’s challenge, Maizey, Meeka and I are trying it too. Can’t wait to hear you stories!

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  9. Hello everyone, glad you like the new format! Nice to meet all of you that haven’t stopped before!

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  10. I like the new look and so true, one step at a time.

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