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Newberry Medal winners…a comparison

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I was working in a children’s library the other day and happened to notice a list of books that had received the Newberry Medal.  At the top of the list was this description:  “The Newberry is awarded each year to the author whose new book makes the most distinguished contribution to American literature for children.”  The list went way back to the early 1900’s.  I decided I’d read the book that won the award the year I was born and the most recent award winner to see what kinds of differences had occurred during my lifetime.  And no, I wasn’t born in the early 1900’s; I’m more a mid-century kind of girl.

I kind of expected the older book to read older, maybe more stuffy, less fun, less adventurous.  But no!  I really enjoyed “Carry On, Mr. Bowditch” which was written by Jean Lee Latham in 1955 and won the award in 1956.  It’s the story of a young boy who arrived in Salem MA in 1779 with his family to begin a new life after his father, a ship’s captain, lost his ship at sea.  The book tells his story right through adulthood, when he goes to sea himself.  It’s an intriguing tale and one I couldn’t put down.

The book that won the 2008 award is “Good Masters!  Sweet Ladies!  Voices from a Medieval Village” written in 2007 by Laura Amy Schlitz.  It’s a series of poems written about individuals that live within a medieval village.  There are little snippets of information about  farming  and town life, but the majority is poems that tell stories told by individuals; the shepherd, the knight’s son, the glassblower’s daughter etc.  I have to admit, I found this format less compelling, but I think that has more to do with my reading style and that I’m less of a poetry fan than a narrative reader.

Both books add a huge amount of knowledge about another place in time for any young (or old) reader and I’m glad I spent a bit of time reading outside my box.

What’s Katie got to do with this story?  Well, as soon as I put the books on the floor to photograph them she plopped down too and looked at me expectantly.  She’s a photo-hog.

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Experiencing the rural library

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Sometimes I work at urban libraries and sometimes I work at libraries in rural communities; that diversity is one of the good things about my job.  Driving home from work the other day though, I realized for sure that at heart I’m a rural librarian.  There’s such a sense of community in small towns, and the library is such a big part of that community.  Plus I get to enjoy great commutes, far away from freeways and traffic jams!

Here’s a few snippets of conversation and questions from a day at a rural library:

A father and son  stop in, they are regulars each week – sometimes several times a week.  Usually they pick up a few books and a couple movies;  the books  for the son, the movies for Dad.  This morning a book the Dad had ordered was ready for pickup.  As I scanned his library card to check out his movies the message popped up that he had a book on the reserve shelf.  I reached around for it, and Dad’s eyes lit up.  Then he whooped for joy, which caused his son to jump in surprise.  Seems he had forgotten about the book, and now he was excited to see that it had finally arrived.  The bookworm son looked at his Dad in a new light.   They were both talking excitedly about books as they left.

Someone else came in looking for a book they’d heard about on public radio.  Didn’t know the author, or the title, just had a few hints of what it might be.  “But it sounded really interesting!”

A wife came in to find World War II movies “or anything with Nicole Kidman in it” for a husband who was ill at home.  Usually he came to the library and picked up her reserved books, now it was her turn to find things he might enjoy.  We searched all the available movies and found several for her, some classics, some more recent.  The husband is looking at a long convalescence so she’ll be back.

A youngster came by and asked me “Does your chair have shock absorbers?”  I thought a moment and then said that I thought it probably did.  He proceeded to explain to me just how shock absorbers worked and I thanked him for the information.  Librarians can never have too much information.

A patron, new to the community, ventured into the library.  After receiving her card she wandered off exclaiming that it had been a long time since she’d had the chance to explore a new library.  She was so excited, it was fun to watch her discover the fiction and become instantly absorbed.

Someone wanted information on fibromyalgia, another needed a mapquest directions to a wedding way down in a big city far far away, a third was looking for a childhood friend and wanted help with the internet.  You just never know what people are going to ask of you.

At the end of the day one of the last patrons picked up a brightly colored flier that advertised the local farmer’s market.  It was bright yellow, and in John Deer green declared across the top:  “FARMER’S MARKET on THURSDAYS.”  She turned and asked me–“What day is the Farmer’s Market?”  Sigh.  Sometimes you don’t really need an advanced degree for the job.  Sometimes you just need to be able to smile.  And read.

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Back to the future

Earlier this week I had a day off and I didn’t have any other appointments or commitments.  A whole day to myself!  It was rainy and cold, but still, a whole day off to myself.  I have a number of “things to do” on a list I keep in the back of my mind for just such a day.  Most of them would be more fun on a sunny warm day, but you take what you can get.  So I headed off to Hidden Lake Gardens, about two hours south of me and just north of a town I lived in when I was a little girl.  My folks used to take all four of us there on occasion; I can remember a narrow road and big willow trees near a pond which held the best thing of all:  swans.

Back then there was no such thing as the internet, heck we still had rotary phones, but today I can share the gardens with you by providing this link:

http://hiddenlakegardens.msu.edu/

And these pictures I took on my dark and dreary cold rainy afternoon trip.  Which was, by the way, a blast from the past. (You can click on the first picture to make it bigger, and then move through them by clicking on the “next.”)

Sadly there were no swans at the small pond, but the willow trees were there.  And the winding drive through the woods was really fun.  I could just image Dad maneuvering our big station wagon full of kids around the hairpin curves, the rear view mirrors just fitting between the trees.

At the rare conifer garden it began to rain in earnest, so I packed it in and drove the rest of the way to the town I lived in until I was ten.  Nothing much looked familiar as I drove into town.  But I just stopped thinking and let my heart drive the car and low and behold, with only one missed corner, there I was in front of the house we all lived in way back in the 60’s!

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I sat in front of the house long enough that someone finally came and looked out the window.  I moved along then, not wanting to appear to be a stalker!  When we lived there the house was gray with either white or black shutters.  I say black, my Mom always said they were white.  She was probably right.  The house next to the one I lived in is for sale.  I went online later to see what the values are on that street and was amused to see they are just a little over 10 times what my parents paid for the house back in 1961.

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Driving around the neighborhood memories popped into my head, along with the names of  friends who had lived in some of the houses I passed.  I even found the first little house we lived in initially when we  moved to town; the house my two brothers were brought home to from the hospital when they were born, almost 50 years ago.

Hidden Lake Gardens and Adrian Aug 2009 081 The only way I could find my elementary school was to drive along the route I walked way back when I was five.  I remembered my Mom saying I had to cross two “big” streets, so again I just let my brain follow my heart, and there was the school.  Funny how much you can remember when you stop trying.

On my way out of town I stopped at the public library where I first discovered my love of reading.  It looks like a castle, doesn’t it?  It’s a museum now, but when I was a little girl we came to this building once a week;  we were all allowed to pick out books for Dad and Mom to read to us, and later, for us to read aloud to them.

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In front of the library is a sculpture of a little boy in glasses, reading a book, sitting on top of the world.  That wasn’t there when I was a kid, but it sure is cute!

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I stopped at a diner for some supper before leaving town, read the local paper and remembered.  Everything here was the same but not.  Since I had been so young when we left, I didn’t have clear memories of much of the town, so changes didn’t feel like changes to me.  The main buildings of my youth— my homes, my school and my library were still there, still largely unchanged,  a time capsule waiting for my discovery.

This place was the beginning of who I am today. The preamble to the now.  It’s nice to know that it’s still out there.

On the way home, listening to a country station I realized through the haze of my musings that someone was singing the chorus to a song:  “There’s too many memories for one heart to hold.”   True.

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Another sweet picture book about a dog

Here’s another picture book that came across my desk this week.  It’s called “Always” and it’s written by Alison McGhee and illustrated by Pascal Lemaitre.  It’s the story of a little dog that is “the keeper of the castle.”  The pup talks about the things he does to keep the castle safe, like taming squirrels, ambushing enemies and “protecting the blanket.”  It’s a sweet book, and would be enjoyed by anyone that has a dog, because that’s exactly what our dogs do.  They protect our castles.

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Tales from the library

Today was another great day at work in a tiny rural library.  It’s one of my favorite places to work because there is time to talk to patrons, to find out what they’re reading, to give suggestions and to receive some reading suggestions as well.  This location is primarily a readers library as opposed to one that is used like a video store and that makes working it a pleasure.  Here’s a few observations from the day:

A woman stopped by to drop off a book that was due.  She was actually reading the book as she walked in the door.  She slowed her walk as she approached the drop box, stalling until she had finished the last sentence.  Then she slipped the book into the return slot and walked right back out the door.  I’d never seen that before, and something about it seemed strange to me.  I think I’d have finished the book in the car, or outside the library.  On the other hand, it was fun to watch someone so engrossed in reading.

I had several kids stop by to record their reading for the summer reading program.  They enjoyed using the stamp to mark off minutes of reading and they liked getting the half-way there prize and the completion prize as well.  I like watching them get excited about reading.

Today I got to share a couple of authors with people who were looking for someone new to read.  And I got to talk about the books of one of my favorite authors at length with one patron.  Usually I don’t have time for that, so it was a real treat this morning.

One of my first patrons was about 5 or 6 years old.  She walked in with her Mom and they immediately went into a huddle, whispering frantically about something.  Eventually the little girl approached me, flopped a drawing down and said “HERE!  This is for YOU!”  I was somewhat surprised, as I’d never seen her before.  But I was enthusiastic about the picture which really was lovely.  I had her sign it and then I taped it up on the wall behind the desk.  I think the little girl  drew the picture for the regular librarian and was surprised when she saw me instead.  I made a note to the librarian who generally works there so that she can make sure to say thank you when the little girl comes in next time.  The little girl left all smiles.  I was smiling too.

An older patron showed up about noon with a long list of specific authors.  She needed the books RIGHT NOW because she was leaving on a vacation this afternoon!  We only had one of the authors on the shelf at our location.  Most of what she wanted happened to be at other locations or checked out.  I kept looking, while simultaneously wondering if she hadn’t known she was going on vacation until today?  With a little bit of advanced notice we could have provided her exactly what she wanted rather than ending up with the compromise of materials I found for her.

It was 12:30 before anyone checked a DVD out!  Everything taken out prior (and we opened at 9) were books!  How cool is that!

A young man came in and ended up checking out only one DVD; a story about the Holocaust.  He also asked for information about prison systems.  I wondered if there was a connection, but I didn’t ask.  It seemed an odd combination, especially for July when it was unlikely he was writing a paper.  I hoped he wasn’t needing to know how a prison system works for any personal reasons.

By the end of the day I recognized there are two types of readers.  One type puts numerous books on reserve and those books often come in at the same time.  They check out several, maybe up to a dozen at once, and then only have two weeks to get all these best sellers read.  They lug their books in and out in large bags.  I wonder if they are not isolated as much as the person who watches movies all day or spends too much time on the internet.  How can they read this much material each week and get anything else done?  Perhaps there is a down side to reading as there is to anything else.   The other extreme was the woman who turned in one book that she had not enjoyed, and checked out one book that she hoped she would like better.  I wondered why she might not check out more than one, say perhaps TWO, so that if she doesn’t like one she has another option?    But as my husband often tells me; “You can’t manage EVERYTHING” so I guess I’ll just leave people to use their library as they see fit.

It was a great day; a great way to spend time and earn a living at the same time.  I am so lucky!

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Observation

Working in a library gives me the opportunity to watch people interact, and I’m beginning to recognize different parenting styles.  There are parents who arrive at the library and totally disassociate with their children, as if they are relieved to be free of the responsibility.  There are others that hover anxiously while  aggressively choosing books and movies and offering them to their children for approval.  Still others hang out nearby  letting the children choose their own items, but effectively ignoring any attempts at discussion.  And then there are the parents that actually interact with their children as if they are intelligent beings; listening while their children talk, provide coherent, relevant responses to their children’s comments and questions.  Those are the ones I like to watch the most.

I’ve seen negligent parenting, hostile parenting, coaxing parenting, condescending parenting, and supportive, image building parenting.  I’m sure some of the differences between parents has something to do with differences in children, but I have to ask; which comes first, the pouting, recalcitrant tween or the domineering, manipulative parent?

So much of the behavior I see in children, from the tiny youngsters refusing to stay near their mom as they explore  to teenagers oblivious to any requests from their parents reminds me of Katie’s behavior.  And worse, the responses from the parents often remind me of ..well…me when I’m trying to get her to do something she doesn’t want to do.  The cajoling, the bribing, the short loud demands…I’ve done almost everything I see parents do to get my dog to do what I want which is so often wildly different than what she wants to do.  Sometimes, as I commiserate with the parents at the checkout desk I almost slip and tell them that I’ve got the same issues with my dog.  But I stop myself.  I’m pretty sure no parent wants to hear how their child reminds me of my dog.  But still…

I’m just glad Katie has her own edgy and stubborn personality. Even when I make parenting errors she bounces back and reminds me that she still loves me.  I wish all parents could be so lucky with their own kids.

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Age is but a number. But my number is bigger that I realized.

Lately I’ve begun to realize that I’m a lot older than I thought.   I think the fact that we never had children kept me, in an odd way, young.  I didn’t have a measuring stick of time going by, didn’t watch a child head off to kindergarten, graduate from high school, have kids of their own.  Somewhere in the back of my mind I’m still just out of school.  Ok.  Not just out of high school, but certainly just out of college.  Undergrad college, when the future was bright and all things were possible.  Forgotten is the fact that I graduated in the late 70’s when we were in a recession and there were no jobs.  Or that when I got out of grad school the first time with my MBA it was the late 80’s when there were no jobs.  And here I am again, a year out of grad school, working part time in a public library when everything is crazy, there are no jobs, funding is being cut and savings are being drained.  But I digress.

I’ve always thought that the future was endless, that all possibilities were open, that there was time to try everything I’ve ever been interested in.  Whenever something came along that sounded fun I’d add it to the list of things to do “some day.”  It’s only been recently that I’ve begun to realize that there are not infinite “some days” out there, and that possibly, just possibly I’m not going to get around to doing all the things on my wish list.  Oddly enough this realization is happening in part because I’m working at a library.

At the library I get to work with lots of people, all ages, and while I like working with such a wide variety of people, my favorite group has always been senior citizens.  Especially senior citizen readers.  What’s becoming clear to me is that some of these seniors are not much older than I am!  This is a shock and not one I’m adjusting to gracefully!  As I’m registering new patrons for library cards and entering their data into the system I’m beginning to notice birth dates.  And the most difficult thing for me to reconcile is that many of these adults are people that could have been my children!  They were born as I was graduating from college the first time.  And they have children of their own who could be my grandchildren!

I think in my prior life, when I didn’t have access to actual birth dates I went along thinking that everyone was pretty much my age, whatever age that was.   I had no proof that life was moving ahead, time was slipping away.  Now I do, and I’m going to have to figure out how to deal with it.  There are lots of things I still want to do and  I always figured I’d get to it all.  Now I think I may have to condense a few things or leave them off the list entirely.  Might never learn to fly that plane.  Might never live in a downtown loft,  out in a tiny cabin in the middle of my own 50 acres, or on the shores of a Great Lake.  Might not write that great American novel.  Might not bike from coast to coast, or hike to the bottom of the Grand Canyon. Might be that all the marathons I’ll run have already been run.  Maybe I won’t have time to learn another language, get that PhD, or start a nonprofit.  Maybe I won’t make a difference in one student’s life, put someone through college or get on-board recorders mandated on all big trucks.  Maybe not in this lifetime.

Then again.  Just might.

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Diversion

I have many more thoughts about our  forced retirement, but I thought you’d get a smile out of a short story from my library world instead.

A patron dropped off a bunch of books to be checked back into the library this evening.  I didn’t actually see the patron, just heard the thunk of  books landing inside the drop box.  Eventually I had a moment so I dug them out of the box and began scanning.   Here’s a list of titles:

125 Ways to Meet the Love of  Your Life

Dating Makes You Want to Die; but you have to do it anyway

You Didn’t Hear It From Us – Two Bartenders serve women the truth about men

Never Kiss a Frog – A girl’s guide to creatures from the dating swamp

How to Date Men

I started to giggle.  Softly of course, it is after all, a library.   My immediate thought was that if she wants to date more men she probably needs to get out of the library.  On the other hand, some of the nicest guys I’ve ever met go to a library regularly…so maybe she’s onto something!


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In common

What do northern pike, the electrical system of a Bunton lawnmower, Hawaiian monk seals, depression and suicide, JAVA and HTML have in common? If you think it has something to do with the library — you would be correct! These are a few of the things that patrons wanted help finding in the small town library where I worked yesterday. And you know what? We found everything except for the wiring chart for the lawn mower! We gave that patron the name and phone number of a dealer because we didn’t have any Bunton lawnmower manuals, and couldn’t find any free repair manuals online.  Just about everyone left happy,even the lawnmower man, except for the woman who needed the depression and suicide information. She left looking haunted and exhausted, the same way she looked coming in. Its so hard, sometimes, not to ask, not to try to get involved. Not to step over the line of librarianship.

On a pleasant  note, a young woman and a 9 or 10 year old adorable little girl were each checking out a pile of books.  When I got to the youngster’s pile of books the computer pulled up a warning regarding a $10 fine attached to her card:  two late fees and a damaged book to replace.  The young woman looked surprised.  The youngster looked down and shuffled her feet.  Apparently a water damaged book had been returned and now it was time to pay the piper..er library.  The young woman scrounged around in her purse and came up with $4.00; not enough to pay the fine down low enough for the youngster to be able to check out her books.  Out of nowhere, and I truly mean that I never saw where this lady came from or went after, a middle aged woman offered to pay the whole fine.   I gave the young woman her $4.00 back and accepted the $10 from the older woman, thinking that she must be the grandmother.  Turns out neither of my patrons knew the generous stranger.  It was just a random act of kindness.  As I’m checking out the young girl’s books we discuss the concept of “paying it forward.”  We decide that there are many things the young lady can do to repay this kindness, all that cost no money.  She could draw a picture for an elderly friend or relative, write someone a nice letter, help someone in their garden, be kind to another child at school, give her Mom hugs for a month…the list goes on and on.  The little girl left all smiles.

I was all smiles too.

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7 Things

Our doggie blogger friends Josh and Jessie from New Zealand (at http://oursheltie.blogspot.com/) have challenged Katie and I to come up with 7 things that we love. There’s a really cool graphic that is supposed to go with this challenge, but I’m not computer literate enough to figure out how to get it over to our blog here. So just image something pretty, a pink and green square or such thing!

So…let us think about this. Seven things that Katie loves. This shouldn’t be so hard…the difficulty might be in limiting it to only seven!

1.  First has to be us, her people parents.  She always wants to be nearby, in case we need anything…or are handing out anything.  Like TREATS!

2.  A close second would be supper!  Or anything that accidentally falls on the floor.  Especially TREATS!

3. The park ranks right up there.  Any park will do, but especially one which might have little kids playing softball.  She likes to watch them run around.  And of course there is the possibility of TREATS!

4.  Froggy,  her favorite toy.  Good for chewing, carrying around, fetching and dropping at the feet of her people parents to get attention.  Can be used to get TREATS!

5.  Her frisbee.  Because that means we’re going outside to RUN!  And there might be TREATS!

6.  Dozing in the sun, either by the front door, in order to keep track of passing traffic, or out in her pen under a tree.  She uses this time to store up energy the better to pester her people later for TREATS!

7.  Posing for pictures.  Cause often that is accompanied by…well…TREATS!

Now we’re supposed to tag seven doggie bloggers and have them come up with their own list of seven.  Hmmm…this will be hard.  But perhaps

Miley

Ricky

Oreo

Layla

Red

Morgan

and Ludo will want to give it a try?  I think Reilly has already been tagged, but I’m not sure.  If not…well…Reilly?

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