Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.


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Portrait of an amazing woman

I’ve never tried portrait photography, though I’ve admired many photographic portraits over the years.  I especially love those of older people, whose faces show some of their history, whose eyes have become wise with time.  But I’m a shy photographer and asking someone to sit for me is difficult.  And of course I’m shooting with a point and shoot and never figured I had the right equipment for “real” art.

So when Kathy over at her blog Lake Superior Spirit mentioned that she had an photographic assignment from Scott at his blog Views Infinitum that required her to try portrait photography I was intrigued.  And I instantly knew who I wanted to photograph.

My husband has an Aunt who just celebrated her 95th birthday, though you wouldn’t know it to look at her.  She’s beautiful.  But she also, like most people, doesn’t feel she takes a good picture.  And I’m still shy.  So the photo I’m going to share with you was taken while she sat in her chair in her apartment looking at an ancient photo album filled with family pictures, some over 100 years old.  She was entranced enough that she didn’t notice me taking pictures.  I understand from reading that a real portrait would have her engaged with me.  We’ll work on that!

She’s sitting in her favorite chair, sunlight coming in from her left, wearing her reading glasses and telling us the names of family members in the photos.  I like that the shot includes her hand which has a character all its own.  This was taken with a point & shoot camera, on the automatic setting.  I darkened it up slightly in “post production.”

I think she might let me try again if I ask.  Now that I know there’s a “portrait” setting on my camera!


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Busy busy busy

Katie and I have had virtually no time to work on anything this week.  Well, that’s not entirely true.  Katie has had time.  Me?  Not so much.  So this week’s training challenge is being postponed to next week.  In it’s place I’ll share with you a bit of our weekend.

Saturday was Bruce’s Aunt V’s 95 birthday.  We arranged to take her to lunch, and several family members came along. She didn’t know that other people would be there and became more and more excited  each time another person arrived at our table in the restaurant.

After lunch and back at her apartment a great nephew shared a very old photo album he had inherited from his mother.  In it were photos of Aunt V’s family, including her mother and her aunts and uncles when they were young.  Aunt V spent a good amount of time pouring over those pictures, telling us who everyone was.

It was a tender moment and I was trying not to cry.

My husband and I  had a wedding to go to that evening.  It was in an outdoor venue quite close to where we live, so we hugged Aunt V goodbye, wished her a Happy Birthday again and headed over to the wedding.

They sky was getting dark as the wedding began.

but everything went well and they were married before the first rain drops fell.

All in all a lovely and celebratory kind of day.  And to top off the weekend my husband and I are going to Ann Arbor this evening to listen to the season opening performance of the symphony.

Life is good.


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Having a grownup dinner

For the past few years I’ve become  used to being the oldest person in the room.  Going back to grad school at 50 was fun and exciting and stressful and exhilarating all at the same time, but I was almost always the oldest person within sight, in study groups, in classrooms, sometimes even on the bus!  And while working in the library I was often older than the other employees.   And now, back in the mortgage industry I’m for sure the oldest person in my group.  It’s just something that I take for granted now after four years.

But last night I had dinner with a group of women to discuss a book and most of them were my age or slightly older.  It was a lovely evening, the discussion one I could relate to; talking about the things we’ve noticed about ourselves since we turned 50.  It was comforting to know that other women are going through the same things, noticing the ways our hands, hair and bodies are adjusting to five or more decades of life.

Not having to be hip or young or technically advanced, not to talk about the latest technical gadget or social networking site – that was all comforting.  Peaceful even.   Of course some of that warm fuzzy feeling came from the three or four bottles of wine we shared.

Giggle.


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Good news! Really!

I had a call from Reilly the Cow Spot Dog’s dad today.  You can check out Reilly’s blog here…but his Mom’s been really sick since last Christmas.  Today Reilly’s Dad called me and told me that Bree had surgery a few weeks ago and has been in ICU, but is now out and most everything is fixed.  She has a long way to go to get her strength back..but there is definitely hope that finally things are moving in the right direction!

She hasn’t been able to talk, what with tubes going down her throat…but today she whispered to her husband to call me because I’d be worried.  I have been worried.  I’ve been worried sick, and it was such a relief to hear she was hanging in there strong.

So for those of you out there that know her…know that’s she’s fighting and getting better!


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Rejoice! The recession is over!

Heard on the radio during my long commute home tonight that the recession was officially over back in June of 09.  Gee.  Guess they forgot to tell us that up here in Michigan.  What with our unemployment still over 15% we must not have noticed all the rejoicing in the streets back then.  I know I was still employed in a library, albeit part time.  And that I got laid off in October of 2009.

I’m pretty sure I heard that one group making this astounding announcement was a University of Michigan research group.  Huh.  That would be the same university that assured us that many librarians were retiring and that the job outlook for people with my degree looked promising.

Credibility is a bit lacking.  Just saying.


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Training Challenge #7

This week’s challenge for Katie was going for a long drive.   We are wondering how she’d travel, so we took her over to Michigan State University which is just over an hour away from us.

Next year, if I get the opportunity to drive down to Alabama, I’d like to take her with me rather than have her stay at a kennel.  But sometimes she gets feisty even coming home from her school, and I can’t envision a two day car trip with a sheltie barking at me!

But on this trip Katie settled in on her princess pillow in the back and seemed content to just nod her head sleepily.  Maybe because we did this last Sunday, after her Rally Trial, and she was exhausted.  LOL.  She wouldn’t put her head down, but her little eyese were closed and her head was bobbing up and down until she’d catch me watching her, then she’d try to look alert.

We were visiting the ornamental grass garden on campus.  It’s out near the farms, on the grounds of the sod farm where they experiment in making grass that golfers love.

Katie was really happy to get out of the car and explore.

The gardens were beautiful.  We had a nice time checking out the names of the grasses that we particularly liked, and considering where we might be able to add a few varieties to our own landscape.

Katie drank some water and peed on the pretty green lawn, just to make sure everyone knew she’d been there.  Then back into the car we went for the hour trip home.

She did great.  Maybe some weekend I’ll see if I can take her a little further from home.  Because two hours is not two days and I still don’t want to find myself somewhere in Tennessee with an unhappy girl.

Know what I mean?


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Mystery solved

You know the great mystery about where the socks go that come up missing after doing laundry?  Well here at our house we’ve solved it.

This morning I pulled laundry out of the dryer, specifically looking for a pair of socks I wanted to wear to work.  There was only one.   I knew I had put two socks in the dryer!  I looked back in the washer.  No sock.  I checked the dryer again.  No sock.  Disgusted I headed back toward the bedroom to find a different pair.

And found this.

So I’m thinking that if in your house you’re missing a bunch of individual socks…you just might want to check with the pupster.

Katie likes to steal underwear too.  But I’m not going to take any pictures of that!


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Falling off a bike

So you know that I started back to work at a new/old job this week.  It’s been over four years since I was there, and the economic world has changed.  Heck the whole world has changed.  Now there are many rules and procedures, all done online, that were never in place before.  Most of them make a lot of sense, but it’s still a lot to remember.

Several people that I knew from back “in the days” have stopped by my cube and asked how I was doing.  When I expressed a doubt about something they’d all say “It’s like riding a bike, you’ll remember.”  So far I’m replying that my bike feels like it has a flat.

You probably don’t know that I also rejoined the local community band. (It’s on my list of 101 things to do in 101 days.)  I belonged seven or eight years ago, but left because they were too small and didn’t play many concerts.  Over the years I’ve checked on them, and they seemed to be growing and playing more events.  So I signed up again.  At rehearsal last week there were only 4 clarinets.  Way too few.  I stubbornly held onto the 2nd clarinet folder of music, refusing to play first.  After all it has been at least 6 years since I’ve played anything.  This week at rehearsal there were four clarinets, but not the same ones as last week.  Again I was asked if I could play the 1st part.  I told them the last time I played 1st clarinet was in1978 and I’d rather stick to 2nd.  And the director said….”It’s like riding a bike.”

Lately my world is all about getting back on that bike.  But I think I need to get the tires re-inflated first.