Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.


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Katie got a little lamb!

Katie 2403 Today was Katie’s first ever Rally trial…Novice A, which means we don’t know what we’re doing!  Seriously!  This morning started out with snow, and it was still snowing when we left for the one hour trip down to the trial venue.  We left early because we figured the roads would slow us up, but we arrived right around 11:00 when the trial began.  They were doing Excellent A & B, then Advanced A & B and finally Novice A & B.  So getting there at 11 when they were just starting Excellent wasn’t such a good idea.  It meant LOTS of waiting for Katie and me.  Lucky thing I bought her a little crate, so we didn’t have to walk around for the entire 5 hours!

I was curious how she’d do waiting around for that long.  She’s never done that before.  Usually we go to school and we get right to work! Go go go is Katie’s mantra.  But she seemed fine with it, wasn’t nervous about the building or the other dogs.  Even did bathroom without balking, so I knew we were good to go.  If we ever got to actually go.

Finally about 3:30 it was time for the Novice walk through.  I was anxious because by this time, after waiting around for 4 1/2 hours, she had begun shutting down emotionally and wasn’t taking any treats anymore so I was somewhat worried about her attitude in the ring.  But nothing could be done about that now.  So I walked the course three times and thought I had a pretty good handle on it, and where she might have issues.

We were the last of the nine Novice A’s so I got to watch everyone before me, and that was mostly helpful.  And I got Katie a bit more excited by bringing out the EXTRA SPECIAL treats as we were waiting in line.  Way better than cheese apparently.  So when we finally got in the ring she was looking expectantly at me and we set off.  She was slow on a couple of sits, and I had to ask her to go DOWN! twice at one station.  She just didn’t feel like it I guess.  Then just three stations before the finish we had to do an about turn heading into a wall, and she decided she needed to smell (for what seemed like a really long time) something on the wall before she’d about turn with me.  GEEZE.  That wasn’t even one of my expected problem places!

All in all though the judge was lenient and we got 98 out of 100 points!  And fourth place because there were 3 people that got 100 points.  So Katie actually placed, and won a stuffed lamb.  When we got home I gave it to her before I took the tag off and she took off running with it.    She’s very excited about having a new toy.

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I’m happy with her and excited for her too.  But I hope she takes a nap soon.  I’m exhausted!

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Hope they wear flip-flops

While driving to a job interview yesterday I heard some interview “advice”  on the radio.   How relevant!   Turns out someone had surveyed a bunch of hiring employers and 50% of them said that many people were not dressing professionally when they came in for interviews.  You’d think in these times of high unemployment and few job openings people would try to do their best to impress, yet some people were actually going to the interview wearing flip-flops with their business suits!  As I was laughing at the visual I sent up a quick prayer that anyone else interviewing for the Librarian position I am trying to get shows up inappropriately dressed.  Even in flip-flops.

A girl can hope!

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Just another day in February

Copying an entry from Marie’s blog  Katie and I woke up to this:

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After several days (well, maybe two) of sunshine and temps in the 30’s the snow was beginning to disappear, bits of grass along the driveway almost looked green, robins were flying around, other birds were singing in the tops of trees.  We felt a bit of hope that maybe this winter was on the way out.  We do this every year.  We are foolish.

It began to snow last night sometime after midnight.  Early this morning we have maybe an inch or two on the ground which isn’t that bad.  But it’s supposed to snow all day.   We might get as much as 8 inches.  I hope not, though really these are just old time worn feelings in me, automatic responses honed over years and years and years of having to drive to work in this kind of weather.  I remind myself that I don’t have a job and this kind of morning is why not having a job can be a good thing.  I don’t have any reason to drive on this stuff if I don’t want to.  And I don’t want to.

So with the light still dim Katie and I ventured out to do her thing.  SHE always has a reason to go out no matter what the weather.  And as I am attached to her at the other end of the leash, well, I have reason to go out too.  I suppose.

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Eventually Katie got tired of all this picture taking.  After all, she had a serious job to do and I was getting in the way.  So I put the camera away.  Can’t risk the wrath of a sheltie-girl.  No siree.

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Who's economy is recovering? Not ours.

funky art 078 There’s a mall nearby that is closing.  All the interior stores have closed and only a couple of the big stores on the ends remain open.  There has been talk for years about what could be done to make the property more viable but it’s always seemed inevitable to me that the mall would fail.  Three or four years ago I did all my Christmas shopping there because it was never crowded.  Not even just before the holiday.

They were advertising wonderful sales at Macy’s; 50% off already marked down stuff.  Husband and I decided to go see what was available.  It was oddly sad.  Most of the store was blocked off, and merchandise was piled and hung in clumps, thoroughly picked over, like an overpriced garage sale.

funky art 081 But for me the saddest things were in the basement where they were selling fixtures; shelving, file cabinets, decorations, mirrors, tables and manikins.  The naked manikins, standing in groups, lined up or hanging in rows were somehow disheartening.  Like children not picked to play on a team in middle school gym class, they seem lonely.  And a little bit embarrassed at being unclothed.  Yet the symmetry of their body parts was intriguing as well.  The way they were grouped together, either as members of a marching army, or guests at a cocktail party seemed to inspire a story.  One without a happy ending.

Which is why I went back a day or two later with my camera.  To capture the end of an era.

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Valentine's Day Conspiricy Update

I thought you’d all like to know how the Valentine’s Day caper turned out.  I received a phone call from the 94 year old Aunt V. on Saturday evening.  Her voice was much stronger, louder and even higher pitched than normal.  She was excited.  Why?  She said she had received  twelve Valentine’s Day cards!  She couldn’t remember a Valentine’s Day so wonderful since she was a little girl.  She hadn’t sent any out so she didn’t understand why she was getting so many, but “this is a Valentine’s Day I’m never going to forget!”  She started rattling off who had sent her what cards, describing them, and the photos of families and children that were included in several.  I couldn’t get a word in edgewise, but that’s the way it was supposed to be.

Monday was Presidents’ Day, so no mail.  I stopped over to visit her on Tuesday and she was all aglow.  She had a total of SIXTEEN Valentines by then and she was still excited.  She has them in a stack on the table next to the chair she sits in most of the day.  She gave them to me to see, one by one, while she told me who it was from and how long it had been since she’d seen some of the people.  She pointed out the faces of little children in the photos and told me who was who (even though I knew) and read me bits of the notes people had written inside.

Then she tucked them all back into their pile and placed them gently back on the table.  “I like to take them out and just look at them.” she said.

It was a small thing for each of us to do.  The result?  Priceless.

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Progress!

Katie 2338 Katie, her dad and I went to agility tonight.   I was eager to see if the success we experienced last week when she finally connected with the A-frame would transfer to tonight.  And I was wondering if she’d get comfortable on the tall dogwalk tonight as well  given she only ran it once last week on her own, then got scared.  We’ve done a little bit of dogwalk in the driveway this week, but the weather has really limited the amount of time we had to practice out there.

We arrived early, just as the instructor was beginning to set stuff up.  Katie and I went off to another ring to do a little warming up.  I use heeling and other obedience stuff as a way to get her focused on me so that we don’t waste class time remembering that we’re there to work.  It doesn’t take Katie long to figure out she’s back in school and there are TREATS available if she pays attention.  In fact this evening about half an hour before we  we would normally leave home for school we asked her if she wanted to go to SCHOOL! and she got so excited we had to leave the house early to get her to stop whining at the front door. 🙂  (Can you tell who rules at our house?)

As my husband was helping the instructor get the agility ring set up  Katie and I watched impatiently.  I was so excited to see if she’d run the A-Frame;  husband hadn’t seen her do that yet.  Once it was up and locked I walked her into the ring to sniff it.  She sniffed once, looked up at me and ran up and over it!  She caught me by surprise and I had to sort of trot along after her as we were attached by the leash!  Of course husband had his back to us and missed it.  No problem.  As soon as she got down the other side she grinned, turned around and ran over it again!  He saw that one and we all cheered for her.  The instructor (who had never seen her successfully run it before either) said “Well look at YOU!” and then asked me how she was on the dogwalk.  I didn’t really know as she’d only run it once the week before and then balked.  So Katie and I walked over to it and she sniffed it.  She wasn’t too keen about walking up the ramp until I picked her up and put all four feet on the yellow, held her tummy with one hand and started walking her up.  “OH!” she said…”WALK IT”  I remember THAT!” And she started trotting, went up and across and down the other side without me touching her.  And then turned around and RAN back across it on her own! “No sweat Mom!”

Katie 2341 Class started with dogwalk, and all the dogs trotted right over without problem.  Now we’re focusing on getting them to do the 202o at the end.  Even Katie stopped when I told her to TOUCH!  Then we added the tire to the dogwalk.  No problem.  After that we did a series of 3 jumps and then tunnel; we were practicing pushing and pulling the dog, sending them to the correct entrance of the tunnel which was shaped in a tight U.  Katie loved the jumps, but had difficulty doing tunnel.  There was no room for me to run past the entrance, so each time I slowed or stopped she’d pop back out.  That was frustrating.  She was successful eventually but it wasn’t a sure thing.   The first time she successfully jumped then ran through the tunnel she ran out the other end, and while I was fumbling for a treat to reward her, she spotted the dogwalk across the room and ran straight for it and was up and over it before I had time to react!  We all laughed.   Silly shy little pup, afraid of everything, was choosing her own agility course now!

We also did a combination of table and chute.  She hadn’t seen chute in a long time and the first attempt she ran back out the entrance.  But after that she was fine with the chute and I was always there to reward her when she successfully popped out at the other end.  I was really pleased she didn’t have any real issues with it.  Our only problem was with the teeter.  She’ll run up it, then jump off at the midpoint.  Even when it’s not moving.  I asked the instructor why she was doing that, and the instructor said “Because she’s a smart dog.  She knows it’s going to move!”  So we have work to do on that obstacle, I think it will be our most challenging one of all.

Our last run of the night was tire, dogwalk, A-frame, table with a down,  and chute.  Katie loved every second of it.  This is our next to last class.  I’m going to miss it after it’s finished.  I think Katie will too.  We’re already investigating plans to build some jumps and a dogwalk for her.  Maybe if we’re ambitious we’ll build her a teeter. Looks like this summer is going to be a lot of fun!

If we can just get this darn snow to melt!

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Extra extra…read all about it!

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Last night Katie, her dad and I went to agility.  She missed last week because she was sick, but we’ve been working almost every day on her makeshift dog walk in the driveway.  I was anxious to see if the fact that she’d run back and forth, up and down her home grown dogwalk would translate to running on the dogwalk at school.  I got a bit anxious as I realized they were setting up for school with the full size, high up in the air, dog walk.  She’s never walked on anything that high before.

Then class began and the instructor announced we were starting with teeter.  Great.  Katie hasn’t practiced teeter!  I didn’t want her to get all weirded out right at the beginning of class.  So I was hesitant the first time we approached it, and Katie picked up on that.  They had one end of the teeter propped up on the table, and they were lowering the teeter as the dog walked across it.  Katie has never walked across it in class.  Ever.  So she jumps up on the table right away, then balks at the board.  Nothing doing.  We gave up and went back to the line.  Husband says, “Just run her like it’s her board at home; get excited.”    Good point.  So when it was our turn again I ask Katie….”are you READY?!”  Then we take off at a dead run, I yell “TABLE!”  and she jumps on it, and I’m already yelling “WALK IT!  WALK IT! WALK IT!” and she just runs down the teeter board like it’s nothing and surprises the instructor so much they never lower the board and Katie jumps off the board and laughs at all of us.  Everyone cheers.  We get back in line and I’m hugging her and giving her treats and she’s loving it.  So after that she had no trouble with the teeter, though she’s not thrilled when they lower it.

Next we’re going to do dogwalk, then tunnel, then jump then table.  Sigh.  I have no idea how she’s going to respond to the tall dogwalk.  Turns out she’s not going up there.  No way.  No how.  Not happening.  So they got out a piece of dogwalk and laid it flat on the floor.  Katie was not the only dog not doing the dogwalk, there as a big ole 10 month old lab that wasn’t ready to climb it either.  Katie had no problem with the flat on the floor dogwalk, and successful flew full tilt down the flat dogwalk, ran through the tunnel, did the jump and landed on the table with a flourish every time.  Husband said she looked beautiful.  I don’t  know, I never actually saw her jump I was always calling the next obstacle and running toward the next thing!

Katie 2365 Quick break and then the instructor added A-frame and a jump to the dogwalk, then tunnel, then jump then table.  Sigh again.  She HATES the A-frame.  She won’t do more than put her front feet on it…and streeeeetch out for a treat.  So after some of that I ask if it’s OK to pick her up and put her on the frame.  They said OK, so I did that all evening.  Putting her about 2/3 of the way up and she runs over the top and creeeeeps down the other side, then springs over the jump, races over the flat dogwalk, flings herself through the tunnel, does the jump and lands triumphantly on the table grinning the whole way.  Over the evening we added more jumps before the Aframe, including the tire, and she did everything except run the Aframe and the tall dogwalk.  I was really pleased.

This morning she and I had a Rally class at the same place and the agility stuff was still up in one of the rings.  So I got there early and we worked on A-frame.  A little bit of treat when she stretched up for it…picking her up and helping her walk up the A-frame, then she was over the top and trotting down.  Then putting her a little further down, helping her walk up it and then she was running down.  Then suddenly, after about three attempts I put her on the yellow at the bottom of one side and she raced up and over!  Then the next time we ran toward the A-frame and she just went up and over, then turned right around and went up and over it again on her own!  SUCCESS! You go Katie girl!  She started laughing and running back and forth over it even without treats!

Of course she was a bit wild for Rally class after all that excitement.  But I was so proud of her I didn’t care.  After Rally we went back to the agility ring just to see if she still felt good about it.  I took off her leash and she RAN over to the A-frame and up and over it on her own!  Well!  I said enough of this, let’s work on the high dog walk.  With me putting her low on the walk and holding her until she reached the top she was fine.  She trotted across the top and down the other side, raced to the tunnel, took a jump and landed on the table.  Silly girl.  Eventually she ran up the dog walk, across and down it by herself.  Only once, then she got a bit scared, so we quit and did a few tunnels and jumps just for fun.  I gave her lots of treats and hugs and we went home to tell Dad all about it!

I hope she remembers how fun this was when we go back to class next Wednesday.  I think she will, she really seemed to enjoy running full tilt.  That’s something that is surprising everyone, but not me.  Once she gets something she goes full speed.  I have a hard time keeping up with her now that she’s running full out.  Husband says she’s definitely looking at me for instruction, though I’m too busy to notice WHERE she’s looking.  Such a girl.  Who knew?

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