Change Is Hard

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Melon memories

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I bought a melon with my Mom yesterday.  Not literally you understand, as she’s been gone six years now.  But she was right there.

Mom told me years ago when I was a teenager that you could tell a ripe honeydew melon by feeling the rind.  The ripe melons have a softer, more velvety feel, rather than the slicker skin of an immature melon.

I’ve never tried to buy a honeydew before, but somehow when I saw that stack of melons displayed at the store yesterday I reached out to touch.  And I found one, just one, that had that velvety texture.

I smiled, along with Mom, as we rearranged the display to take home that one melon, way at the bottom of the pile, that we both knew would be just perfect.

Moms.  Always there.  Always right.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

6 thoughts on “Melon memories

  1. that post made me smile……

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  2. Isn’t it funny how some lessons seem to stick with you forever?

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  3. Moms have a lot to teach their kids. Then the kids have to remember what mom taught them. And sometimes, it works out that way and in some way life is a little bit easier.

    Picking out melons is always a problem for me, but I often get lucky. Which is good, because I love melons of all kinds.

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  4. I am lucky enough to still have both my mom and my dad and I cherish the time I have with them. I do hear their voices in my head often though when I make a decision and that is something I hope I never lose. It made me smile, too, to picture you and your mom buying that melon.

    Chris

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  5. I think she really was there with you, I believe our loved ones who are gone are always with us too and every now and then something happens that makes you suddenly remember a moment with them.

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  6. How sweet. I can just see your mom smiling down from heaven reaching out to touch that honeydew with you. Trying to image the difference in honeydew textures. Going to test it out the next visit to the grocery store.

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