Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

Survivablity

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We watched the news coming out of Tucson yesterday with horror.  That an elected official could be doing her job, making herself accessible to the people in her district and yet be in such danger is something I’d not wanted to think about.

But it needs to be thought about.

Did last years bitterly fought health care debates where ludicrous concepts were thrown about as truth fuel the gunman’s hate?  Maybe it was Arizona’s difficult  discussions about immigration or the acrimonious November elections?  Perhaps the 24/7 talking heads on television incited his rage.

Or maybe this young man is mentally ill.   Maybe he would have behaved the same whether or not our country was arguing so vehemently among itself.  Right now, so early in the investigation it’s impossible to know.

We do know this: Though U.S. Rep. Gabrielle Giffords is likely to survive this assignation attempt, survivability is different than recovery.  And even as our hearts lifted at news she was following commands after surgery the reality is that her life has been changed forever.

And perhaps ours should change as well.  Maybe we should be less naive.  Maybe America can’t be as free as we’d like.  Maybe elected officials have to maintain more space, be more protected from regular folks.  Maybe they will have to ride around in  pope-mobiles, wave from distant windows, talk to us only from our TV.

I hope not; I want to be able to talk face-to-face with decision makers.  That’s who we Americans are, why this country is different from so many other places in the world.  But still.  Would a little more defensive protection have prevented the gunman from harming Gabrielle Giffords and the other 17 people killed or injured?  Would a security detail have been enough to save the  nine year old girl,  the federal judge, or the others  who died?  How much security is enough?  Or too much?

It’s obvious we have to change.  This is going to take much thought and debate and I hope it doesn’t turn into a partisan fight.  Meanwhile the best that we can offer today is our hopes and prayers that all the survivors make full recoveries.  And send deeply sad condolences to the families of those that did not.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

8 thoughts on “Survivablity

  1. This is a very disturbing event. I can’t imagine the horror those people must have felt.

    What should be a mere difference of opinions has evolved into a strong hate. I hope, as a result of this tragedy, politics takes a turn for the better.

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  2. really so sad….like you said on so many levels…..

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  3. You write so eloquently about this terrible tragedy . What is wrong with people? And why is everyone allowed to own a gun?

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  4. Beautifully phrased. I don’t know the answer. Certainly we can’t have metal detectors at every doorway to every building. Why so much anger? Why is shooting always the answer? I would argue against everyone having guns too, but the response I get back is not incorrect: those that use them in a harmful manner would still get them. Just as addicts get drugs, even though they’re illegal. It is a sad sad commentary on what we have become.

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  5. Trudy also gets fed twice a day, 1/3 or 1/4 cup, I can’t remember which right now, and if I went to the kitchen to open her food bin at 2:30 AM….well, you know what kinds of things happen when they hear those sounds. Anyway, I’m trying to keep her under 20 pounds as the arthritis in her left front leg can flare up if she weighs much more than that. She is currently on Wellness for seniors. I also try to keep baby carrots around and give her 2-3 of those with each meal. I also feed her 2 chicken strips/day that have glucosamine & condroitin, again to help with her arthritis.

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  6. Folks, I’m sorry for the food posting on this topic. I had to close Dawn’s blog for a little while as it wasn’t accepting my post, and when I came back to the blog, I just pasted my comment into the blank, silly me, thinking it was still the same topic. If I knew how to delete it and move it to the right place, I would.

    Cheri

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  7. Such a sad situation. I just read that Rep. Giffords is finally breathing on her own. Thank goodness.

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  8. Dog Dad is worried about this too. He believes we are starting to see a bad shift as a result of both sides deamonizing the other. There has been a loss of civility, a loss of being able to speak the truth without being condemned, an unwilligness to try and see both sides, a lack of personal accontability. The polarization that has occurred the last twenty years has been bad for this country.

    I pray that our leaders learn to work together.

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