Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

People ask me why

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When some people hear that I work on truck safety issues they ask me why.  I have several reasons, most of which you’re heard here before.

I talk to people, write about issues, call, visit and email my government representatives, attend meetings and travel because all of that gives me something to do with my anger and my grief.  Even after six years the pain is just below the surface and still surprises me by its intensity.

I also do it to honor my Dad who was always there for all of us.  I do it because unlike government he wouldn’t spend years studying and talking about safety, he’d just fix stuff.  One of the last things he did the week before he was killed by a tired trucker that December was to add handrails to unsafe places in his church.  Because he saw a safety hazard and he knew he could fix it.  So he did.

Just last night, on my way to bed I heard on the nightly news about a pregnant couple, driving to visit his parents with her parents in the car, who stopped on the freeway this past snowy Saturday afternoon because there was an accident up ahead.  A semi hit them from behind.  The pregnant mother is dead, the baby born without a heartbeat is on life support.  Another family is spun deeply into mourning.

And that’s why I do it.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

10 thoughts on “People ask me why

  1. I read a comment from a NYS DOT spokesperson recently. He said that an intersection isn’t considered dangerous until 3 people die there, and until 3 people die, they don’t investigate ways to make it safer, even if residents are concerned about the area’s safety.

    Sad, huh?

    You do good work Dawn.

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  2. Another sad and senseless death. I agree with Sara – you do very good work.

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  3. So sorry to hear about the latest tragedy! Your commitment is what makes your caring real, Dawn. You are your father’s daughter, and I know he is proud of you. I’m surprised that anyone would ask why you do it.

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  4. It is one of the things I don’t understand about this country, deaths from accidents, drug overdoses, murders and soldiers happen daily to everyday folks and you hardly hear anything about them apart from a quick few seconds on the news. But if someone “famous” is shot or killed they spend weeks covering it. You keep fighting for the everyday folks Dawn, we need you more then you know.

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  5. You did a good work, Dawn.
    There are too many road tragedies here too. It seems it happens everywhere and most of them are caused by reckless driving. One of my friend’s son who just went to Australia a month ago to further his tertiary studies was killed while he was cycling to school. He was killed by a speedy young driver who just got his driving license!

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  6. I worked in a hospital and it always drove me crazy that nothing was considered a problem until people were hurt, and lives were so badly impacted, and I just really do not understand WHY there is not more just doing and fixing a problem before people have to be hurt. Like your dad I feel that you see a potential hazard, just get on it and do the commen sense thing and fix it BEFORE one person is really hurt-and by extension their friends, family, the community is hurt.

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  7. So much senseless pain, so many senseless deaths, so many families torn apart. All in life is not fair or just, but kudos to you for trying to make it moreso.

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  8. Some of the most important changes made have been through the willingness of others to put there grief in motion and make a difference. I’m certain your dad is very proud of his daughters efforts to, “fix it” and I’m so sorry you have to.

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  9. I was thinking about you and your work and your dad last night while driving home and heard this on the radio:

    http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/02/08/killed-injured-mississippi-school-bus-accident/

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  10. Here’s a better link. I had heard that it had side-swiped another bus first; this article says maybe the semi driver had a heart attack (before he was killed in the crash). http://www.wkrg.com/alabama/article/deadly-school-bus-crash/1204609/Feb-08-2011_11-02-pm/.

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