It rained last night. A lot. Sometimes there was thunder which is something that always gets little Katie going. Where Bonnie (the sister sheltie Katie never met) would tremble and cry, then curl up in the smallest possible ball and wait a storm out, Katie takes it on. She squares her shoulders, plants her feet and barks hysterically at the ceiling or the window, wherever she feels the danger might be coming from because she’s got a family to protect! Nobody in this family got a lot of sleep last night.
This morning Katie and I did a bit of walking around the yard. We got completely drenched. Katie’s fur does the prettiest thing when it gets wet. It gets curly! (click on the picture to make it bigger so you can see her curly fur!) This is the closest she wants to get to a bath!
But what I really wanted to talk about was a different kind of ‘coming clean.’ The one where you’re honest about what’s really happening. I need to tell you how it’s going with two commitments I’ve made; one is to do 30 minutes of exercise for 30 days, and the other is to write at least one letter a week every week from sometime in March (I can’t remember the exact date) until Memorial Day.
I’m happy to say the letter writing campaign is still going, though it’s become more difficult to find people to write to as the weeks go by. I still have some ideas though and should be able to finish this challenge. If I get a letter out today that is. I made Wednesdays my letter writing days…but recently it’s suddenly been Saturday and I realize I have to write to someone RIGHT NOW! Still it’s been fun. And I’ve been using some lovely cards that Bree at “Wipe Your Paws” made for me. They are one of a kind and I’m sure people love to receive them!
The 30 minutes for 30 days commitment? Not going as well. For the first 10 days I managed to get myself outside to walk at lunch or weekend mornings. Then the world seemed to get in the way. Horrible weather, crazy work days, lack of motivation seemed to overwhelm me. I missed one day, and committed to adding an additional day on the back of the 30 days. Then I missed another day. I tell myself there are no excuses.
Now I’m working on convincing myself that a day lost should not sink the entire program. Just like a diet, when you fall off the wagon the worst thing you can do is give up completely. So maybe I need to make that goal a bit smaller, so that I can achieve something and not beat myself up so much. I remind myself that in dog training we set tasks simple enough so that the dog can be rewarded. We try not to set the dog up to fail. That positive reinforcement works better than negative talking. What works for my dog should work for me, right?
So I need to figure out a way to get myself into the habit of daily exercise with smaller, baby step tasks, so that I gradually make exercise a priority in my sometimes hectic life. Any suggestions? I welcome all ideas!
Meanwhile, soggy Katie and I are going to make time for an adventure this Easter weekend. We hope all of you have time for adventures too!

April 23, 2011 at 7:08 am
Awww, Katie looks so cute with curly hair 🙂
I once listened to an inspirational speaker about exercise. Can’t remember his name. But, he advised everyone to get a pedometer, and leave it attached to your body all day. See how many steps you take in an average day. Then see if you can gradually increase that number, by parking further away, taking the steps instead of the elevator, etc…..Don’t count minutes/miles, use the steps instead. I think he said we should be taking 5000-6000 steps a day to maintain good health.
I thought it was a neat idea.
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April 23, 2011 at 7:33 am
We don’t have television any more, Dawn, but if you do, and if there’s a 30-minute program you usually watch, you could exercise to the program (even if it isn’t an exercise program). I have to admit that my only regular exercise is getting outdoors with Sarah, and some days we get more of a workout than others.
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April 23, 2011 at 8:48 am
The weather we’ve been having certainly makes outdoor exercise harder to enjoy! It has to get better soon, right?
I wonder if allowing yourself one or two days off per week would make the goal of 30 min. exercise per day more achievable. (You could take the days off when other things interfere.)
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April 23, 2011 at 9:31 am
Its easy to fall off on programs. I havent been doing my Susan Garrett Recallers program, that I paid money for! First the dog trial and then spring break. I hope I hop back on this week when I get back to my regular life. LOL Good luck!!
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April 23, 2011 at 9:46 am
For me…..and I sure do not have a total handle on following through, but I find I am most successful when I A) have a specific time built into my routinue, like when I used to finish work right in time to swing by the gym and do an aerobics class then take a shower before I went home and had dinner, and recently when I have to take my daughter to swimming so I could drop her off and go home but it is a cool really easy to follow through thing because I do not allow myself to go home, I would have nothing to do but sit-and I just do not allow myself to do that no matter how busy things get…so I could sit and wait if I did not do my work with my dogs-that would be boring so I am sort of forced to do it, and we do a lot of things lately that require me to run and keep moving…and B) what helps me is doing an activity that I really enjoy…I am done doing what might be the best exercise or thinking I have to make myself do something so for awhile when I was stressed I did a long walk every day, I enjoyed that so much because there was no prep and I went just after dark and it was like meditating, then for awhile I really enjoyed biking just because I was liking the rush of going fast, and now I really want to train my dogs so I find a lot of games where I end up having to run, and I have made a chase game part of my reward for my dogs, even for stationary behaviors, they love it and get excited and it makes me add more energy=more exercise, we break up all training a few min of training and then a few min or chase or a fast walk for a break -or even doing some agility around trees and then just a few min of the slower more thoughtful stuff-I just deceided that is what I want to do with my time, and I am tired of trying to force things So I needed to be creative about making what I want to spend my time doing work for what I needed to do.
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April 23, 2011 at 10:50 am
Love Katie’s curly hair!
I’m no help at all with exercising. I make myself promises to exercise or walk every or some such thing, but quickly miss a day, then find an excuse to miss another, and then decide it’s totally hopeless. I do wish you luck, however!
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April 23, 2011 at 12:35 pm
I really like Sara’s pedometer idea. 🙂
When it is time to step up your number of steps, reward yourself with a dance class that is on your 101 list. Dance will add even more to your pedometer. Especially with a good class where the student dances during most of the class, and the teacher talks little. With your background in music, I think you’ll like dance. Get your other half to go by taking what ever dance fits with his favorite music. If you’re not sure, ask a dance instructor. Oh I think this could be as wonderful for you as the tunnel may have been for Katie! 🙂
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April 23, 2011 at 5:30 pm
Katie sure does look cute with her curly hair. I know when I miss a day, it is hard to start back up again. But hopefully you can get back to it. Know, I’m cheering for you!
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April 23, 2011 at 6:27 pm
Katie is cute with curly hair – Ricky’s does that too.
Too bad you have to leave for work so early in the morning because to me that would be the best time to get in your walks. Good luck – you will figure out a way!
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April 23, 2011 at 6:45 pm
It’s interesting how all dogs–and people–respond differently to thunderstorms. It is especially interesting that Katie is so feisty in response to thunder. I am so proud of your letter-writing campaign. Way to go! (If you run out of people to write…I always love getting mail in the mailbox.) We had rain until 3 a.m. and then…well, I think you already know. White stuff. Again.
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April 23, 2011 at 7:16 pm
Love Katy’s curly look.
Just start again–that is the hardest part for me, anyway. If you can commit to a certain time of day-it might be easier.
Focus on what a great letter writer you are and how you and Katy are improving each week at dog school .
Happy Easter!
♥
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April 24, 2011 at 4:45 am
Katie is definitely a cutie!!!
It’s always hard to stick to a routine, especially when you’ve just started it!!
Happy Easter!
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April 24, 2011 at 9:45 pm
I wear a pedometer almost all the time, and it often motivates me to move more. I also think breaking the exercise into pieces could help; that worked for me when I was working in an office. Seemed so much easier to take a “coffee break” and instead walk around the block or the building for 10 minutes, once in the morning and once in the afternoon, that sort of thing. Also doing it at a regular time, blocking it out on the calendar, sometimes helps me. Adn I need to be doing all those things again, as I’ve slacked off in recent months, too.
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April 25, 2011 at 8:06 pm
Well first, I hope you had a wonderful Easter. Second, we are sorry we havent been commenting in a while, but we do love reading your posts, we just are so busy trying to read everyone, we don’t comment all that much, on anyone! Eekk! But, my Mom wanted to leave yous a comment so here she is:
Hi guys! Kylie was nice enough to let me leave you a comment. first, I wanted to say I love the idea of writing a letter a week. Is that the only rule? I might have to start it! Also as for the working out thing, I too struggle! I joined a gym back in August and started doing Zumba classes- I loved it, I was going to that class at least 2x a week and joined a Centergy (yoga/pilates) class too a couple times a week! I was on a roll, lost about 14 lbs by Nov. Then I lost my job. It got harder and harder to get to class. I kept making excuses how I didnt feel up to it and my life was upside down. Then winter hit and the holidays and still no job. Well, spring is here and I went to Centergy last Sunday. I forgot how much I love that class. It’s a work out, I couldnt sit without cringing for 3 days after, but I felt good. I felt refreshed and alive like I could take on anything- like finding a job! I made a deal with myself. If I started going to class each day (Zumba Mon, Wed, Thus Sat & Centergy Sun, Tues, Friday) I could go out and buy one new top to feel good about myself. Well, after that first Centergy class realizing how out of shape I was, i figured I better not push it. 😉 So i said, I had to do all the centergy classes, and I did!! And I still havent even had time to go get my new top. So now it’s week two and I’m so excited for class tomorrow! I know I need to add Zumba back in but I figure why push it and give myself an excuse to stop going. Lets keep the positive vibes going and build up that muscle (and muscle memory of ACTUALLY going to the gym!) Of course we are always taking Kylie and Jimmy for long walks too!! Anyways, thats a super long comment, but I’d love to have a “Gym Buddy” and we can keep each other on track! 🙂
-Ali
Oh and Kylie and Jimmy too!
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