I was on the way to the grocery store this morning having forgotten a few things during my major grocery shopping expedition yesterday. We have company coming for Sunday dinner this afternoon and those small items missed (even though they were on the list) were crucial. I was stressed, driving along the freeway, not noticing how nice it was to drive without rush hour traffic. Not noticing how the clouds were scudding across the early morning blue sky. Half listening to the radio. Reciting my short list in my head.
And then it hit me. I was stressing over having company…and the company wouldn’t care if there was organic soy milk creamer for the coffee or what type of sweet potatoes I served. Or even if there was whipped cream for the pumpkin pie I made last night. And the radio, full of ads for heartburn and fast food was just annoying.
So I turned off the radio, noticed the rising sun hit the tip of the trees and took a deep breath. It’s Sunday. It’s a day of rest. Enjoy. Sometimes you just have to turn it all off.
I hope you’re enjoying your day too.
September 21, 2014 at 12:06 pm
it is the one thing we can learn from our furbabies – ‘live in the moment’ enjoy every second….and live like the song says “Live like you were dying”
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September 22, 2014 at 7:12 pm
Dogs have it right, that’s for sure.
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September 21, 2014 at 2:26 pm
We call it listening to the quiet and it’s so nice. My grandmother use to say that she didn’t have a friend who couldn’t afford to eat a meal out, when she entertained she did the best she could and hoped people showed up for the company.
Sunday dinner and good company is the whip cream on top! Have fun.
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September 22, 2014 at 7:13 pm
Listening to the quiet. What a great idea! Your grandmother was pretty smart too.
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September 21, 2014 at 2:42 pm
I know what you mean–it’s so easy to stress over company. Yet they usually don’t care. I love that you realized the preciousness amidst the stress…
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September 22, 2014 at 7:14 pm
I’m glad too…made the rest of the day so much easier. Still I was pretty exhausted when I made it to bed last night. So I think the stress didn’t go entirely away.
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September 21, 2014 at 2:48 pm
Good for you! I fret too much when I invite people for dinner, and you’re right, I shouldn’t. Sometimes turning it off is the only way to preserve sanity.
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September 22, 2014 at 7:14 pm
Life is crazy like that. Sometimes you can turn it off…sometimes not so much. I got lucky this weekend.
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September 21, 2014 at 3:22 pm
Ahhha little bit of mindfulness and quiet goes a long way!
Enjoy your company.
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September 22, 2014 at 7:14 pm
We did! So did Katie.
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September 21, 2014 at 3:31 pm
Thank you, Dawn, for this reminder. I have company coming this week, four dear friends who probably don’t give a hoot what I serve or don’t serve for breakfast, lunch, or dinner. I’ve been stressing out over getting the house clean, doing the shopping, etc.
Enjoying the moments and the company are the important things. 🙂
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September 22, 2014 at 7:15 pm
Enjoy your company! It’s hard not to stress, but try…OK?
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September 22, 2014 at 11:42 am
Yes, yes, yes! Sigh! Smile!
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September 22, 2014 at 7:15 pm
I know…
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September 22, 2014 at 5:40 pm
Just stopped by to say thank you for the surprise that arrived in the mail today. Thank you!! It made me feel all celebratory about my favorite season. 🙂
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September 22, 2014 at 7:12 pm
Wow that was fast! Only one day from here to there! Enjoy your favorite season!! (And your company too!)
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September 23, 2014 at 8:18 am
Did you say pie? Yum!
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September 23, 2014 at 11:48 am
I forgot to mail you guys a piece of pie!
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September 30, 2014 at 9:50 pm
Absolutely! Sometimes I get so caught up in making things perfect for company that I run myself ragged. This last time, I cleaned much less, and no one even noticed that I didn’t scrub the tiny corners 😉
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