Two weeks into retirement and I find myself continually confused. In a good way.
I don’t wear a watch and since I’m not sitting at my desk with a computer monitor and phone, both declaring the time, I have no idea as the day progresses what time it is.
Turns out it doesn’t matter.
I go to bed when I’m sleepy and Katie-girl gets me up in the morning when she’s not, generally earlier than I’d wake on my own. But that’s no problem, we go about her business and then go back to bed. Or not.
It really doesn’t matter.
I don’t know what day it is either. I suppose that will become more of a problem when I schedule appointments or volunteer for something. Or set a deadline for a some project.
But at the moment it doesn’t matter.
Predictably, the good intentions I had for retirement — going out for a walk every morning, spending an hour a day weeding flower beds hasn’t materialized. It’s rained you know.
Excuses, excuses.
But the good news is that in retirement there’s always another morning. Nothing has to get done today, there’s time tomorrow. And the next tomorrow.
Which still surprises me. And leads to naps in the middle of the day.
The definition of retirement turns out to be time.
What a luxury.




June 13, 2015 at 10:49 am
My problem with the definition of retirement is that all that time seems to get by me with very little being accomplished too often. Oh well.
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June 13, 2015 at 10:55 am
Which is fine….because you’re retired! 🙂
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June 13, 2015 at 11:15 am
I think once the newness wears off, you might find yourself very busy in your retirement. It will still be hard to remember which day it is though.
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June 13, 2015 at 9:17 pm
Yes I think eventually I’ll fill my days with something. So far I’m doing adventures with the dog and enjoying the summer. After that we’ll see.
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June 13, 2015 at 11:21 am
Sounds luxurious! I have 5 more days, and then I can enter my “mini retirement” for the next ten weeks. It’s such a tease though. Still, I’m lucky to get the time and practice for when I really can retire.
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June 13, 2015 at 9:18 pm
It seems like your school year goes so deep into June! You deserve a wonderful summer break! But boy this year seemed to zoom by.
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June 13, 2015 at 12:15 pm
It sounds wonderful! Our government just put our retirement age up so I’ve got just under 40 years to go now. 😦 oh well.
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June 13, 2015 at 9:18 pm
Oh dear! That seems like a really long time!!!
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June 13, 2015 at 12:27 pm
Luxury! Precisely!
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June 13, 2015 at 9:18 pm
Does fee pretty luxurious!
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June 13, 2015 at 12:56 pm
It does takes some time to sink in and your body to relax. I haven’t retired but I do work for myself and found that to be true when I left corporate America for motherhood. Nothing beats being master of your own time. Glad you are enjoying. Pretty picture.
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June 13, 2015 at 9:19 pm
Thanks Katybeth! I plan on sinking in for quite awhile. Then we’ll see.
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June 13, 2015 at 1:43 pm
That’s the way I felt this past winter, Dawn. It wasn’t retirement for me, only a 3-month sabbatical, but I guess that may be the way I’ll have to take “retirement” — in bits here and there, rather than all at the end. But yes, TIME! What greater luxury can there be?
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June 13, 2015 at 9:20 pm
Time is the most precious of all wonders.
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June 13, 2015 at 3:24 pm
Happy retirement! Timeliness is good.
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June 14, 2015 at 6:01 am
Certainly is!
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June 13, 2015 at 3:39 pm
Well Im glad you are relaxing. It would bother me not knowing what day it is. And I always wear a watch even during summer break. I like knowing the time. Even though I may not have any plans, its nice to know how long I walked the dogs or if I took some motrin, what time I took it.
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June 13, 2015 at 9:20 pm
My husband says I need a watch. I guess I probably do. Maybe. Or not. We’ll see! LOL 🙂
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June 13, 2015 at 4:11 pm
sounds like retirement is going exactly how it should be 🙂
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June 13, 2015 at 9:21 pm
So far for sure!
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June 13, 2015 at 10:54 pm
I quit watches and alarm clocks when I retired. 🙂
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June 14, 2015 at 6:02 am
I think that’s excellent advice. I’m dragging my feet getting a watch, sort of like not knowing what time it is. Mostly anyway.
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June 14, 2015 at 9:17 am
You sound like me in the summer time! I lose track of the days and the time – truly is a luxury!
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June 16, 2015 at 8:27 am
I think I’ll think of the rest of my life as one giant summer vacation!
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June 14, 2015 at 2:45 pm
You’re one in a million. Truly and really, most people I’ve known who are recently retired are NOT grateful. Instead of taking this life changing event in strides and reevaluating their position, they become curmudgeons! Kudos to you for deciding to remain a happy person!
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June 16, 2015 at 8:27 am
I’ve been working toward and dreaming of retirement since my first full time job in 1979. No way am I not going to love this!
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June 16, 2015 at 7:54 am
My husband is retiring in 2 weeks. I will be envious of him and you. I shall chug along for another 5 years minimally, unless my alternate retirement savings plan materializes (winning the lotto). Naps! Bliss!
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June 16, 2015 at 8:28 am
I know 5 years seems like a long time. And it is. But I also know it will go by in a flash. Congratulations to your husband! Maybe he will do the house stuff now and then it will seem a little more like a vacation for you!
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June 16, 2015 at 3:40 pm
And time can be one of the best gifts of all. 🙂 Beautiful flowers and raindrops.
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June 16, 2015 at 11:21 pm
Enjoy – I know my day will come and when it does, I hope I am read with a plan. I get a rehearsal every summer with summer vacation, it’s only a tease because I have to go back to school. Take the time you need to breath, but keep making the days count. Always.
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June 17, 2015 at 2:01 pm
Good advice. I have wasted a couple of days, just the luxury of not having to be anywhere..but the gardens need weeding so I should stop napping!
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