I’m resting after more than a week at the lake house. A week filled with lots of water activities, lots of family, lots of sun, good food, laughter and quiet conversations.
Last night I randomly read blog entries from years past, blogs about hanging out at the lake. I came across this one written in 2010 that talked about being afraid to try water skiing after years of skiing only occasionally during summer visits.
It seemed appropriate because in the past couple days I’ve water skied twice. Neither time was for a very long distance, though I got up on the first try each time.
But it was still scary.
You think about how hard it’s going to be to get your heavier person up on that ski. How the boat will pull. Lots of water rushing over your head. Falling. You think maybe it’s best to retire from skiing. After all you’re older then you used to be. You’re no athlete. You might get hurt.
Then you think about your mom who was older than you are right now and still skied once a year just to prove she could. And you think about the fact the lake is absolutely still, the boat is running well, the sun is shining. There’s no one out there but your boat filed with your family.
It will never be any better than this.
So you put on the life jacket and whine a bit about being scared. You slide into the water and put on the ski which feels unfamiliar and clunky.
You feel clunky and awkward and the ski rope is moving as the boat slowly moves away from you and you can’t remember which side of your ski it’s supposed to be on and you can’t remember if you normally put your back foot into the boot or trail it as you get up. And you’re wobbling back and forth in the water and the rope is tight and everyone is waiting for you to say “HIT IT!” and so you do.
And the boat surges ahead and the water rushes over you and you remind yourself to just hang on. HANG ON and it will all work out. Balance over that ski and hang on. Let the boat do the work. And soon you’re popping up out of the water. Not gracefully. But you can breath.
You’re no expert skier, not throwing big rooster tail spray, not preforming tricks. You’re just out there, but oh the water is glass, the clouds are reflected beneath you, the sun is shining, the lake is beautiful and soft.
And you are smiling, because you are skiing through the clouds, and because you didn’t give up on yourself.
Lesson learned. Again.
September 3, 2015 at 10:04 am
that is something I have never tried but it sure sounds like fun 🙂
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September 3, 2015 at 4:54 pm
It’s a lot of fun. Especially if you do it more than once every 2 or 3 years. I have lots more confidence now..but my vacation is over. Hopefully I can keep this feeling until next summer when the boat is back in the water.
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September 3, 2015 at 10:10 am
Good for you! It’s not something I’d attempt.
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September 3, 2015 at 4:55 pm
Maybe if we’d met in our younger years you might have tried it. We were once upon a time very good at getting beginner skiers up. Still. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea so there’s no pressure!
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September 3, 2015 at 10:50 am
I tried water skiing once. I was never able to get up, but trying felt good.
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September 3, 2015 at 4:56 pm
Back in the days…when we had a little 35 horse power outboard and big huge wooden skies we never had a failure..everyone got up, usually after a couple of tries. Nowadays the boats are so big and the skis so slick it’s not a given anymore that everyone gets up. But I”m glad you had fun trying!
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September 3, 2015 at 11:09 am
Good for you!!!
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September 3, 2015 at 4:57 pm
It was fun. And not all that scary once I was up. Thinking about it was way worse than doing it.
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September 3, 2015 at 12:46 pm
Oh boy! Good for you! You must have had a blast
Snorts,
Lily & Edward
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September 3, 2015 at 4:57 pm
I did have a blast. I wish summer went on forever!
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September 3, 2015 at 1:40 pm
You *almost* make me want to try this, Dawn! Of course, I appreciate even more the message, Don’t give up on yourself. What a lovely spot — bet your mom was smiling down on you!
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September 3, 2015 at 4:58 pm
Everyone has something they are unsure of being able to do. It’s good to try. Or so my folks used to say anyway. “How do you know until you try?”
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September 3, 2015 at 4:44 pm
Sounds wonderful. I’d love to try someday.
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September 3, 2015 at 4:58 pm
Next summer. You/me…at the lake.
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September 3, 2015 at 7:40 pm
You make it sound so wonderful!! I tried it once. I fell and water rushed into places where water does not belong. lol! I was never able to try again. After reading this, I’m thinking that maybe, if the opportunity should ever present itself, I should. 🙂
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September 3, 2015 at 11:09 pm
Yes, if you get a chance give it a try! Really good if the chance comes with someone that is good at teaching and is patient.
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September 3, 2015 at 9:50 pm
Yea Dawn! 🙂 Love the way you describe it.
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September 3, 2015 at 11:10 pm
Thanks Beth! You skied this summer too as I recall. Fun, right?
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September 4, 2015 at 4:09 am
Fantastic Dawn! Well done, looks like you had a great time.
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September 4, 2015 at 8:22 am
We had a perfect time.
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September 5, 2015 at 1:44 pm
What a beautiful post Dawn! I haven’t been water-skiing since I was a teenager, but I sure want to get out in the water now!
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