Katie and I went on an early morning walk around the yard today. It was already hot, the kind of hot that reminds me of summers growing up. Some of you remember those days, oppressive heat pressing down on you even early in the morning. Sweaty sleepless nights with a rattling box fan ineffectively moving the stifling air.
As kids all four of us got to spend a week at grandma’s house on the farm each summer. No air conditioning there either, but I don’t remember being so insufferably hot in the big old farmhouse. We each got to choose the week, though I remember in later years my uncle requesting my brothers during certain harvest weeks.
I usually tried to be there when the wild black raspberries were in season. They grew behind my grandpa’s work shed and every morning I’d go out and pick a small bowl of them, and grandma and I would put them on our breakfast cereal. So good.
And I remember the summers when I was much younger and my folks bought a lake lot with the intention of building a cabin someday. I remember the orange lilies blooming in the ditches on the road to the lake.
They always represented summer to me. Now when I see them I am instantly transported back to that lake lot and the summer days spent swimming off the dock and rowing the big green rowboat.
This morning while Katie was busy sniffing I was noticing so many reminders of summers past, right in my own back yard. Lots of evidence, too, that summer is progressing regardless of the craziness happening in the world.
Even as we stay home, curtailing plans, missing family, time is moving and mother nature is pushing forward. A lesson, I guess, for all of us not to give up hope either. For more than sixty years I’ve watched summer unfold, leaf by leaf, petal by petal.
I guess I should stop worrying about what tomorrow will bring and just let it be.
July 6, 2020 at 8:28 pm
Lovely reflections.
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July 7, 2020 at 11:10 am
Thanks Martha! Hope you and yours are doing OK during all of this!
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July 6, 2020 at 9:22 pm
The Queen Anne’s Lace looks so pretty. I remember picking bouquets of that and thistle in a field across the street from my home in NJ. Funny the little things that bring back big memories.
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July 7, 2020 at 11:11 am
Now that you say that I do remember picking it too…and also putting Queen Anne’s in a glass of colored water and watching the flower turn to that color. Did you ever do that?
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July 7, 2020 at 12:00 pm
No! I never even heard of that! What kind of a childhood did I have, right?!
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July 7, 2020 at 12:33 pm
Now I’m thinking, once they bloom, we’re both going to do it. RIght?
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July 6, 2020 at 11:01 pm
Wonderful to read about your childhood memories of summer. That photo of the lily is lovely.
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July 7, 2020 at 11:12 am
Thank you Laurie. Did you do similar things growing up? Did you grow up in Maine? When we were there in 2014 I kept saying how much it reminded me of Michigan (minus the salt in your ocean!)
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July 7, 2020 at 11:14 am
Yes, very similar. Especially when we moved to the country. Because I grew up in central Maine, about fifty miles from the coast, my childhood did not include very much salt water. Or tourists.
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July 7, 2020 at 11:19 am
We were in central Maine, driving through the woods and I told my husband “we traveled how many miles to drive through woods that look just like home?”
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July 7, 2020 at 12:47 pm
Nice!
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July 7, 2020 at 1:51 am
Hi, Dawn (and Katie) – I’m not sure why I no longer have received emails about your posts. I’ve missed your reflections. I’m off to re-signup! 😀
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July 7, 2020 at 11:13 am
Huh. I wonder what happened? It’s happened to me a few times too, on other blogs, I suddenly realize that I’m not getting anything and I go check and it’s not that they stopped posting! I hope you are able to get back on!
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July 7, 2020 at 4:00 am
You weren’t kidding, we did capture similar images on our walks. Your lily image reminds me I will miss capturing the blossoms around the house. I guess I’ll need to go exploring to find me a few. I really like the simplicity of the “Looking for something to cling to” image.
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July 7, 2020 at 11:13 am
Now I”m going to have to go back over to your blog and recheck! 🙂
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July 7, 2020 at 11:14 am
PS: That grapevine image is my favorite of the bunch too.
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July 7, 2020 at 4:50 am
Summertime and all those sweet memories that go along with it!
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July 7, 2020 at 11:14 am
I know. But I can’t help but wish it would move along faster, first year EVER that I’ve hoped that. The combination of Covid and politics makes me want to skip ahead to sometime in 2021 when I hope things are calmer.
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July 7, 2020 at 7:25 pm
I am right there with you! I Never wished time away before as well…!!
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July 7, 2020 at 10:17 am
Summertime memories for my sister and I was spent in North Louisiana with our grandparents. We would start out we were going to stay a week beg for 2 and sometimes stay a month. Those times were special very special to us both.
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July 7, 2020 at 11:15 am
Those are great memories! Weren’t we both lucky that we got to do stuff like that growing up? Were they in a town or out in the country?
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July 7, 2020 at 2:32 pm
They lived in a small town. We would take our bikes with us and ride down the hill to the corner washateria to get a coke and candy lol. My grandfather had friends who grew watermelons so when we got there in the summer there were around 40 watermelons under the carport waiting to be cut and eaten.
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July 7, 2020 at 1:37 pm
Love hearing your summer memories! We’ve had that oppressive heat here, too, for days on end. Sadly, some years, it takes a hurricane in the Gulf for this stuff to break. We can only hope a nice cold front blows in from the northwest instead!
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July 8, 2020 at 11:06 am
We could sure use some rain here. The grass is crunchy and brown already and it’s not even August yet. I don’t hope for a hurricane, but something has to change!
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July 7, 2020 at 2:13 pm
I think this post reflects what a lot of people, including me, are doing and that’s learning to go with the flow. Almost everything about the world situation is out of our control, except for basic common sense, that the best thing we can do, and the one probably best for our mental health, is to observe and reflect and take it one day at a time.
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July 8, 2020 at 11:07 am
I agree. There’s no fighting with the craziness going around now. I’m pretty much staying home and being mindful of how very good I have it, here in my house in my yard in my neighborhood.
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July 7, 2020 at 6:47 pm
Glad you’re dealing with the heat! I’ve been out camping a bit with the SE Iowa humidity.
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July 8, 2020 at 11:08 am
We’ve been camping in the backyard…but last night it was so hot and humid we caved and slept inside. Probably will tonight too. The last night we slept outside Katie got me up at 1:30 and asked to go back in the house. Hard to be a sheltie and camp in this weather!
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July 8, 2020 at 5:40 am
It is so wonderful to have such lasting childhood summer memories. It reminded me of the summers spent at my grandparents home. Certain smells always take me back, the flowers, I loved this post Dawn.
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July 8, 2020 at 11:08 am
I’m glad. We’re both lucky to have some great memories of our childhoods!
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July 8, 2020 at 8:57 am
What lovely memories, Dawn. Did your grandma’s farmhouse have fans? That’s what I couldn’t live without during these hot days without air conditioning. As for not worrying about what tomorrow will bring…am working on that one. Good luck to all of us!
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July 8, 2020 at 11:09 am
No, no fans, but very high ceilings, and there were huge oak (I think oak) trees around the house for shade, and narrow tall windows. It was sort of dark inside and I don’t remember it being hot, though I’m sure it was. We weren’t in the house a lot during the day, preferring to run all over the farm and play with the barn cats outside.
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July 9, 2020 at 8:30 am
Beautiful memories and post, Dawn. I remember the pre-air conditioning days well. Mother Nature and the seasons move on, no matter what us humans are doing.
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July 9, 2020 at 4:51 pm
Sometimes I think Mother Nature just laughs at humans.
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