Change Is Hard

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Treasures

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When someone has been gone a long time you begin to realize you won’t ever be able to take more pictures of them. 

Mom and Dad visiting his mom up in Charlevoix MI at Christmas, probably 1952 or 53.

So often when I write about my folks I wish I had something new to share with you. I think about how you must be tired of seeing the same images. But what I have is all I’ll ever have.

Right?

Well, mostly right. There was that time that I was thinking about my folks a lot and was so surprised when I received a letter from one of their friends that held a photo I’d never seen of them taken in the early 50s, before kids. That was a treasure, and I still smile when I see it.

Mom and Dad in 1952.

Months ago my cousin, going through his mother’s things, came across some photos I’d never seen before. He sent me copies via email and to be honest I didn’t look at all of them then.

Mom, Dad and me in 1956.

Time went by and I was cleaning up emails this week when I ran across his, and remembered there were pictures attached. I thought I’d seen them all but I was in for a treat as I clicked through them. 

I’m sure dad set this up on his tripod with a timer.The arm of the chair over on the bottom right is the rocker I have today.The picture on the wall is one they gave me years ago, I had no idea it was Grandma’s.

Look how young they were! Look how young I was!!

Treasures are so much more special when they come as a surprise.

My grandmother and my dad.I have only a couple pictures of her.And the rocker that sits in my living room today.

Thank you to my cousin for sending these treasures to me. They sure make me smile.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

28 thoughts on “Treasures

  1. Thanks for sharing this idea Anita

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  2. It’s sometimes an adventure to look through old family photos. I have one of my mother hugging a man named Clarence – I’d like to know who Clarence was, but there’s no one to answer that question for me now.

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  3. Thank you Dawn; what a treasure!

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  4. A couple of years ago, after my mom had died several years before that, I went through boxes of my mom’s stuff, to find a diary written by HER mother. I sit and read and know. I have only two photos of her, my grandmother, but I have her words. So special when we have these things from our families, treasures!
    Nice Christmas tree. 🙂

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  5. Wonderful treasure of images.

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  6. How wonderful! I love the image in front of the camper.

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    • Yes, that was a trailer in a trailer park where they lived the first few years of their marriage. They were building a house on the river in Midland when Dow layed a whole lot of people off, including my dad.

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  7. So lovely! Such a wonderful way to remember them. Our families are so dear to us.

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  8. This brings a tear to my eyes, Dawn, particularly your statement that “When someone has been gone a long time you begin to realize you won’t ever be able to take more pictures of them.” We live in a picture-obsessed society, where phone cameras are always right at hand. How wonderful, that those we love (human as well as animal) can be preserved for all time on a device as well as in our memories! Good for your cousin, sharing those photos with you!

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  9. That gave me the warm and fuzzies. What a wonderful gift you received! I love this. And love that you have discovered new things about your family in the process.

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    • Yes. I think my grandmother liked color. Notice the rocker was bright red and there’s a bright blue wing chair too. I mom always told me I’d have liked my dad’s mom. She was very creative. She made my sister and me life size dolls, dolls that were as big or slightly bigger than we were. I don’t know what happened to those dolls.

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  10. What a treasure trove of memories that were handed to you Dawn! I am lucky that since I had no siblings, that I was the keeper of the family albums, including old photos belonging to my mom and grandmother. My mom would have been 98 this Valentine’s Day and I have a photo of her being held by her parents and it is in good condition – you’d never guess it was nearly 100 years old. I like using family photos in my blog, mostly at the holidays or my mom’s birthday. It looks like you and I were both born in 1956?!

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  11. How very cool to get such a surprise! I’ve often wondered exactly where most of my old family photos have wound up due to changes in circumstances and moving and such. I’m lucky to still have my parents in my life – they were quite young when they had me. They are divorced and both remarried, living new lives, so that’s part of the reason I’m not sure where most of the photos from our young family life ended up. Happy for you to have this treasure to enjoy.

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    • I know there are reels and reels of slides that my dad took, but those started maybe when we were kids. Mom had a lot of photo albums, most of which were their travels. But I do have quite a few images of us growing up.

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  12. Hi, Dawn! Those photos truly are treasures. When my uncle passed, my cousin and his wife went thru the photos (uncle also had photos that were my grandparents) and sent me the pictures that we were in as kids. For my uncle’s funeral, they scanned a ton of photos, not in any particular order, for a wonderful slide show. So many wonderful memories!

    I hope Santa was good to Miss Penny. Today we had the first good snow. Henri’s first! He loves it! Stay warm and safe! 😊

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    • Little Miss Penny got 2 or 3 games to play. Some of which she hasn’t figured out yet. Hee hee! I love slide shows like that, except that they’re usually played at funerals which I am always sad at.

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  13. I did a lot of work on Ancestry where I was able to find a cousin and she mentioned she had no pictures of her father when he was young. I found dozens of him with my Dad an in family reunion pictures. Being I have no family for them to go to I sent her my pictures. It is sad seeing the family reunion pictures that had fifty to a hundred people attend at my grandmothers farm. After my folks divorced grandmother stopped having reunions. You mentioned my e-mail address I kept sweetwtscot but disconnected from the blog. Stay warm ~ I’m in the sub zero.
    Lee

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    • That’s neat you were able to find a cousin. I’m glad you sent the pictures to her, I bet she was thrilled to receive them. My own family is pretty small, and none of us had kids, so it sure isn’t going to get any bigger!

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  14. This is so wonderful Dawn! Seeing photos never seen before is just such a gift, even more so when the photos are of loved ones now gone. I love that photo from 1956 of you and your parents.

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