Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

From my window seat

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Last week we got our first significant snow of the season. We’d been enjoying unseasonably warm weather for most of December and January, while at the back of our minds we worried about our landscaping that needs a blanket of snow to survive until next spring.

Mr and Mrs Cardinal dine together at our windy, snowy, deck railing.

A definite benefit of being retired is that we don’t have to worry about commuting to work in a blizzard. If we don’t want to go out we don’t go out. It’s just one great perk of getting older.

A little chickadee tries to warm up with some suet.

Sometimes we forget there are benefits to aging.

Two female European starlings unsuccessfully try to share what’s left of the suet.

Anyway, I digress. 

After days of warning from the pessimistic weather folks the storm hit us very early on Friday. First there was rain, then ice, then snow. 

A male downy woodpecker impatiently waits his turn.

Early Friday, while taking the dog out for her morning ritual and stepping carefully down the icy driveway in the dark, we noticed a neighbor mincing his way down the street with his dog. 

Mrs Cardinal desperately tries to figure out how to get to the suet.

Of course we went out to road to talk. Penny got to kiss Oliver, (the dog) who is somewhat besotted with her. The neighbor said there were some trees down up the road. I said I hadn’t looked out back yet.

A blue jay uses his tail for balance in the wind.

As the morning filled with light I saw that we, too, had some bending trees, some limbs down, the typical damage we usually sustain in an ice storm. I sighed. Little by little our birch trees are coming to the end of their lives.

A chickadee launches after his meal.

We’ve lived here over 30 years, I guess it’s expected. Nothing lives forever, right?

A disgruntled goldfinch.

Throughout the weekend the snow came down, blowing sideways from the northeast. We made very limited trips outside, only for doggie necessities. 

Mrs.Redbelly shows off her pink tummy.

Mostly I sat in my chair with a view of a couple of our birdfeeders, watching the frenzy. And eventually, over the weekend, I got a few shots of the birds frantically eating, puffed up, trying to stay warm.

You can see the purple and green in her feathers.

I had to fill all the feeders, the thistle, the oiler, the peanut, the suet, at least twice a day. I even spread extra oilers on the deck railing, and under our rocking chairs that are turned upside down for the winter.  

The colors on the back of the blue jay are beautiful too.

Little birds, and bigger birds too, were everywhere. As the food ran out they waited anxiously in the trees, coming down to wait closer as soon as I’d step out the backdoor. My birds know I’ve got their backs.

Even the dark eyed junco, who usually likes to eat on the ground, was hungry enough to try the twirling suet feeder.

And I know you’ve all seen photos of my birds at the feeders before. So in this post I tried to show you more unusual shots, a little attitude, a bit of wing. 

It was a busy, windy, weekend!

I feel very lucky to be able to sit in my chair by the window and watch the entertainment happening just on the other side of the glass. 

I hope you all enjoyed it too!

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

49 thoughts on “From my window seat

  1. Hi Dawn! I love the these bird images. I tried photographing birds at my feeder a long time ago and eventually realized I’m not good at it. You had me interested from the first pic with the cardinals.

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  2. Happy Winter, right?! I’m with you in being thankful not to have to leave home as a work-from-home gal. Someday, I’ll be that retired person who doesn’t have to leave home when it snows too. Your suet feeder is quite close to your deck? Or do you use a zoom lens? I use a zoom lens, but our birds are so alert they’re always looking out for those darn scoundrel Starlings. Your selection of photos is splendid as always!! 🥰💖 Stay warm and cozy and enjoy seeing the winter wonderland from your viewing spot. I feel for Penny who has to go out, good she’s young and doesn’t fuss as much as I would if I had to visit the yard to do business. 😆

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    • Work from home was only just beginning when I retired the second time. I was never thrilled to work from home because I didn’t have a comfortable work space here, and doggie never knows that “mama is working, go lay down.” I have a chair that I sit in regularly, and it’s about10 feet from one of the windows in our living room. The suet feeder is hanging from a hook about 8 inches away from that window. So I sit here and the birds get used to me being here. I have my camera with it’s 70-200 lens on it sitting next to me. Eventually I can slowly pick it up and grab a few shots. The shot of all the birds at the longer oiler feeder is across the room at a weird angle, so that’s harder. If I sit in the chair that is right next to the window the birds won’t come to the suet feeder, that’s too close for their comfort. Unless I don’t move at all, and just watch. In past years I’ve put up the tripod near the window and set the camera up with the long lens, then used a remote shutter while I sat over on the sofa a long ways away. I do that for orioles in the summer because they’re so skittish. They don’t like the camera there near the window, but after a day or so with it not moving they decide it’s no threat and they come in to eat.

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  3. Always, always, always do! Great shots, and thanks for the “bit of wing.” Stay warm!

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    • You are welcome! It’s getting warmer here, 19 degrees now, which is a heat wave compared. It’s snowing again though. I guess that’s to be expected in January. I was looking for something in my blog, and ran across my March and April 2018 posts when Katie and I were in Alabama for an extended stay. Man that was fun. And warm. And so pretty. I need to do that again.

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  4. Thank you for sharing your yard and bird photos, Dawn. Your birds have it made – they know that you will provide food and water, no matter what the weather brings. So sorry to hear about your birch trees. It is always sad when we lose a mature tree. It has provided beauty – gorgeous bark, shade, and shelter & nesting areas for the birds and squirrels. Stay warm and be careful when you do venture out. 😊

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    • Yes, my birds are slightly spoiled, and they are also very needy. Yesterday they cleaned out the feeders in a couple hours and I had to fill them up 3 times. This morning it looks like they’re working on the same plan.

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  5. Thank you for the wonderful start to my day! 😊

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  6. Wonderful pictures of the birds! I so enjoyed seeing them. It’s hard for them during stormy weather. Our feeders have been very busy,
    too. Sorry about those birch trees. We had one taken down last year.

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    • Yes I worry about them when the weather is bad. We try to keep the bird baths full all year. They are heated in the winter so they don’t turn to ice. But that also means they evaporate and I have to keep a watch. A couple days ago there was a mourning dove sleeping in one of them that had gone dry. It was warm and the bird was enjoying a nap. I didn’t wake it, and it only stayed for a little bit of time, other birds were dropping in for a drink and it moved on. Then I went out and filled it with water again.

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  7. You are a good bird mama to keep the feeders filled. We have more squirrels here than birds so your wonderful photos are definitely a treat!

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    • We have plenty of squirrels too, but not so many active in the coldest days. There’s a black one I see out in the mornings. I don’t mind leaving a bit more for him or her. I don’t see any later in the day.

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  8. What wonderful views you have from your window, Dawn. (My Sunday Stills theme this week is windows). You really capture some great close-ups and bird shenanigans from your windows! We’re still traveling in the Southwest and are now in San Diego–I miss seeing the winter birds in our backyard! Thanks for the show 🙂

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  9. I very much enjoyed seeing so many birds I do not see here, although we have had an Oregon Junco on the patio (our back yard) the past few days. And surprise – today is more snow, after sleet and freezing rain yesterday and last night. Sigh.

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  10. Love your birds, Dawn! We’ve still got snow on the ground, but I ventured outside to shovel the walks, patio, and driveway. The sun was shining, and there’s something satisfying about starting the cleanup process. Monk, of course, is happy to play in the snow, and I’m happy to have frozen water rather than mud, at last!

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    • Sun and no wind, with white snow and blue skies are some of my favorite winter days! Penny would have been thrilled! I told her I’d take her out to play today and I didn’t do it, so currently she’s biting my toes to get revenge.

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  11. Such wonderful captures Dawn! Especially in flight or getting ready for flight! The wind here was insane last week- 30mph and higher. So scary to hear it for hours on end through the night. Stay warm- and I agree about the benefit of getting older is not having to go out if you don’t want to!

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    • Yes the wind can be the worst. We had high wind on Friday. Penny was totally freaked by the wind, and it was scary taking her out, as she can get out of her collar if she makes specific moves, and she was so scared she was trying to run. But we try to be vigilant and keep her leash short when she’s scared. I actually picked her up once to calm her down. I sure don’t want to lose her in a blizzard!

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  12. I really enjoyed this post Dawn! A plethora of birds at my feeders is another thing that I am missing in the place I now live. I’ve been trying to entice them, but they seem hesitant to stay at my feeders – I think there is not enough plant life for coverage in my current location. You have some really nice shots here! Thanks for sharing.

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    • Sometimes at the beginning the birds aren’t sure and won’t stick around up close until they know it’s safe and there’s a reliable food source. We’ve been feeding the birds here for over 30 years. They’re pretty comfortable with us. I hope you get some birds eventually! Are you in a condo or apartment building now? That would make it harder to plant some bushes and trees.

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      • I am in an apartment – it is in a 4 family house, and my landlady is wonderful about planting. There’s a butterfly bush near where I put my feeder. Perhaps when it gets bigger it will provide more cover for the birds. I was just trying to get them to come to where I could see them from a living room window.

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  13. Wow, Dawn! These are all so fabulous. I admit I was surprised to see a junco up there (I actually know all of your birds, which surprised the hell out of me 😉 ) Every time you share the activity at the feeder, I think, I really do have to get into doing that, too.

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  14. Zounds! Gorgeous photos and gorgeous weather. Not a drop of snow here in the Pacific Northwest so far, tho there usually would have been by now. And yet we’ve had WAY cold, sub-freezing weather WAY below normal … but without the snow. Wonderful photos, Dawn … thank you. 🙂

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    • You are so welcome, Ann. And you are welcome to some of our snow too. It’s still coming down, big fat fluffy flakes today and it’s 19, which is a lot warmer than last weekend! Not so bad, actually, a nice January day. Now ask me in February if I still think the snow is pretty….

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  15. I love that blue jay. His balance is wonderful as is his coloring. Your photos are delightful. You’ve found yourself a good spot to watch and wait.

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  16. You have such a nice collection of bird photos here Dawn – they really are enjoying the suet feeder aren’t they, plus the other feeders you mention. The Dark-eyed Juncos are really beautiful. We just started getting them the last few years and with their coloring, all you see is their top half in the snow. Winter has been a pain for one week now. I am grateful for not having to go anywhere as I work from home (and have since 2011). I took the bus to Downtown Detroit for three decades. The snow is bad enough but this brutal wind chill makes it worse.

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    • Working from home has got to be better than commuting downtown all that time! I commuted to Troy, that was bad enough! Of course working from home means the work is always, every single minute, right there. I’m voting for full retirement. 🙂

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      • I just today told him I would stay longer … if we were not moving to a different office, it would have been much simpler and I’d have been done on 12/31/23 as planned as I gave him my notice in late June. We moved there 20 years ago, on February 1, 2003. The landlord who owned the office building/apartments/parking garage that comprise Stroh River Place was John Stroh, a friend of Robb’s. So he sold it to Dan Gilbert about three years ago and Dan Gilbert would not renew our lease. I had gotten laid off, then my mom was sick, then I got hired back in 2011 but only for half-days, so I said I’d take a cut in pay to work from home, so that’s what I’ve done every since. I will be working just four days a week and then three (maybe next year for that) You have my sympathies on the commute to Troy Dawn. My neighbor used to have that daily commute to Troy. He said the traffic was busy no matter the time of day he traveled.

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        • I hope it all works out for you and you get to retire your way! Yes the trip to Troy sucked. Though for a few years I got up at 4 a.m. and went to the gym near the office and worked out, then showered and dressed there and still got to work way before any of my staff did. The commute was really good at 4 a.m.

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        • I think the commute is rough in Troy, so that was a good idea – coming home might have been a long trip for you. I listen to WWJ AM-950 and one of the morning anchors, Jackie Paige is big on going to the gym in the early morning. She starts at 7:00 a.m., so gets up the same schedule as you did. She had her stomach stapled a few years ago, so works hard to keep the weight off and runs in marathons, etc. When I was younger, I used to come home from work and after dinner, I’d ride my exercise bike 20 miles and not think anything of it. Ah youth.

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  17. OH, I love these photos. I had to stop feeding the birds, because the local bear refuses to hibernate and he likes to make the rounds right around the same time I let Chewy out to pee before bed.

    I miss my birds so much.

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    • Awwww man! I’d stop feeding them too! Too bad you aren’t closer to us (but then again the bear would be closer to us) you could go to the park where the birds eat out of your hand for your bird fix and not feed them at home. Is the bear out there year round now?!

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      • Usually he/she seems to hibernate from Nov- mid march, but I think the mild (until this past week) winter has confused our bear?

        I still have my heated bird bath, but I don’t see nearly as many birds as I used to.

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  19. Hi Dawn, I’m glad you linked this post–I missed it while traveling! Wow, really amazing images of the poor birdies vying for food in the windy, snowy conditions! Bless you for keeping the feeders stocked! That one shot of the bird (Mrs. Redbelly) swinging from the suet feeder looks like a Flicker! They all put on a show for you. And I love the expression on the disgruntled goldfinch. We don’t even see these birds until warmer weather.

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  20. I can’t wait for the day that I don’t have to stress about whether or not I can go to work in the snow. That little woodpecker is a cutie. I love all of these. The purple and green feathered bird is so pretty.

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    • I will say that it’s a wonderful, peaceful feeling to watch the snow come down on a Sunday evening and not worry about how I’m going to get to work Monday morning! Also Monday has become my favorite day now, because I can revel in not having to go to work! :) Snarky of me, I know.

      Yes the European starling is very very beautiful, though somewhat of a bully. If you get her in the sunlight those colors really shine. I only see her in the winter, she loves the suet!

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