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Camping objectives

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Sometimes I go camping just to have a few days away from everyday responsibilities. Time to nap and read and snack and daydream.

Just one exit up the road from home.

Sometimes I go camping with a specific goal in mind. I’m hoping to get that perfect Milky Way image, or find a new bird to photograph, or see a part of the state I haven’t seen before.

My favorite site at this campground.

Last week, at the last minute, I got to reserve 3 nights in my favorite campsite at the local state park. It’s a spot where Katie and I camped many times. This trip I hoped to introduce Penny to campground noises.

“Did I hear something over there, mom?”

She’d been there for a couple visits last year, but it was all overwhelming to her, and even with her dad and me right there she was pretty nervous about all the people and cars and noisy trucks with trailers driving by.

“Hey! What’s my tent doing out here in the woods, mom?”

This year she’s older and wiser and a little bit calmer. Though she still looked when noisy things including people with their dogs walked by, she didn’t automatically come undone.

“I’ll just stay real close, OK mom?”

She was only visiting me for a few hours each day, and while she was there we took plenty of walks around the campground, letting her sniff the vacant spots…

“I approve of this one, mom.”

…and moving swiftly past those occupied.

“Nothing to see here, just protecting my bikes.”

She even got to walk past a couple of pitbulls and their flustered dad. She was a rockstar.

See them coming around the corner up there? Penny’s tail was already up in alarm and I didn’t notice them until they were much closer. She knew right away. She never barked, she just heeled with me right by them.

We spent about an hour on her second visit inside the tent as evening fell. I think she would have been fine spending the night in the tent if I had insisted. But she was a little restless after an hour and if I’m honest, I wasn’t looking forward to packing up in the morning with her on site.

“I guess this is OK mom. But daddy has air conditioning and a bed. Just sayin.”

It takes me an hour to pack up without the distraction of a curious dog. But next time, if she’s willing I think we’ll spend the night in the tent. Maybe she’ll begin to understand it’s all an adventure and mom’s got her back.

“Umm, excuse me mother, let me be clear. I’m not taking a shower.”

The other reason I jumped at a chance to camp at this site is the opportunity to photograph birds. Every time I’ve been at site 16 there have been birds flitting around. Their images are hard to capture, they’re not like Kensington birds, posing for treats.

A really poor image of a cardinal that swooped in and then out.

These birds are never happy when they stop by and you’re at their site. I sat for hours, still in my chair, camera ready, and didn’t catch a good look at one bird, though I heard redstarts and vireos and wrens all around me.

Mostly I got bird imposters like these brown leaves.

Then this guy bounced out of the underbrush.

A gorgeous brown thrush.

After looking at me he hopped up on a vine with his back to me. In a moment, though, he turned his head to make sure I got the shot, and then he took off.

“Did you get my good side, lady?”

I smiled, at least I got one decent image of a bird!

And then I noticed this little red squirrel looking a bit worse for wear. She skittered around the campsite and then disappeared.

A skinny little red squirrel.

While I’m looking for her, tossing a few blueberries in the direction she ran, a opportunistic chipmunk showed up, very happy with the blueberry offering.

“Hey lady! You got anything to spare?”

Meanwhile Ms. red squirrel, apparently a tired mom, was up in a tree at the edge of the campsite, happily chowing down on a nut.

Nom, nom, nom…

She was happy until she noticed the chipmunk was feasting on blueberries.

A special treat!

That seemed to make her very unhappy. She watched the chipmunk more carefully. I tossed a few more blueberries. She was conflicted.

“Wait! Those blueberries were for ME!”

And then she ran as fast as she could down that tree and back out into the site where she scored a blueberry of her own.

“That chipmunk got one, but he’s not going to get the rest!”

It all made me smile.

Camping generally makes me smile, even when it rains, which it inevitably does at least one day on every camping adventure. At least this time it was overnight. And in the morning the sun rose again.

Another beautiful morning.

Time to get packing and head home. A little fuzzy girl was waiting for me to provide her next adventure. She’s kind of demanding that way. I don’t mind.

Another adventure in the books.

Till next time, site 16. Thanks for the new memories.

Camping art.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

36 thoughts on “Camping objectives

  1. Penny – is BEAUFIFUL!

    I hope she had a great time! (you too!)

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  2. Funny, Dawn…..My favorite site at Allegheny National Forest is #16.

    I love reading your blog.

    A little news: I had to put my beloved Acacia to sleep. He was just turning 14. I still love memories of when you guys visited my neck of the woods, and we had that crazy time at the wildlife refuge. Cache had an outsized role in that, as I recall! I miss him terribly.

    But your blog is always fun or thought-provoking, or tear-inducing.

    Say hi to Bruce and Penny

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    • Awwww, Michelle, I’m so sorry about Acacia. That’s heartbreaking, he sure was a great dog. We enjoyed our visit with you and him and Sundew. I’m glad we got to spend that time together. Sending big hugs, I’m sure its lonely without him.

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  3. Baby steps for Penny getting her acclimated to camping – soon she will be a pro, especially if you bribe her with cheese. I like that Brown Thrush – very pretty and nice that it posed two ways for you too. 🙂 I like your Chippie and Mom Squirrel too and after interacting with squirrels for so many years myself, I can almost hear that red squirrel’s brain gears clicking – of course she wants some blueberries too! Very sweet post Dawn.

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    • I think Penny will eventually be a camping dog. But she might always prefer air conditioning and her dad. We’ll see. I love the hearts on the thrush’s front…so beautiful! I was shooting blindly in his direction because I was trying to hurry. He was very helpful sticking around a few seconds. And oh yea, that red squirrel’s brain was working overtime!

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      • Well time will tell I guess and as Penny’s coat grows thicker, she may appreciate the A/C with her dad even more. I notice when you have pics of Katie in your posts, she had a lot of fur, so that might not be a factor at all. I was not following you when you had Katie. That Thrush was beautiful and the squirrels are so darn analytical sometimes – I smiled when I saw she dropped the nut for the blueberries.

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  4. Wow, that was cool, made me smile! And it made me learn something … about the difference between a Red Squirrel and a Douglass Squirrel. I love to learn. Penny is cool too, by the way. 🙂

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    • I’ll have to look up Douglass Squirrels. I wonder if we have them here. Penny is such a teenager right now! Stubborn and excitable and noisy all at the same time, in between naps of course.

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      • Mostly, Red Squirrels have a bright white ring around their eyes, otherwise, they can be difficult to differentiate from Douglass Squirrels, with whom they are closely related. Most of the USA has one of these two species as original species. Here in the PacificNW we have mostly Douglass. Both are small, both are aggressive, and both are fast!! Even the non-original gray squirrels run from them. I like that. 🙂

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  5. Beautiful pictures of the brown thrasher, and the chipmunk and squirrel with their blueberries were adorable. I hope Penny keeps getting more comfortable with the idea of camping with you! When I was a girl we used to take our sheltie, Skipper, camping with us in New England. He would even go in the canoe with my parents. Looking at your pictures of Penny bring back some very happy memories for me.

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    • Awww, I’m glad these pictures remind you of your dog Skipper! I’ve never tried to take any of my dogs in the canoe or kayak. I’ve thought about it, I’ve seen plenty of dogs riding along when I’m at the lake house. But I have never had a dog that liked water, and I think I’d want her to wear a dog life jacket just in case. I have taken Katie-girl on a ski boat ride, she thought that was pretty cool. I’m not at all sure Pen would appreciate the thrill.

      The birds and squirrel and chipmunk kept me entertained an entire afternoon!

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  6. I love your camping objectives. I’ve never camped alone, although I can see the idea being tempting. I could grab a tent and go by myself during the week in summer, but I think I’d prefer companionship, since during my summer days off from work I’m alone so much. Your statement about it inevitably raining at least one day while camping is so very true. I can’t remember the last time I had a 100% dry camping trip. The dog “protecting his bikes” cracked me up.

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    • Camping alone CAN be kind of lonely. My best trips are those I get to camp alone but people come to visit me, or I’m near friends that I can visit for some of my time. If I’m in a really beautiful spot alone I’m sometimes sad that I can’t share it with someone, but I end up sharing it with all of you, so that works out. I loved the dog on the picnic table too. Apparently that was a normal spot for him (or her) to guard stuff. I don’t think Pen even saw him.

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      • I may experiment next summer with sort-of solo camping. We may try setting up the camper in a local state park on a pretty pond. Since I don’t work in summer I could have some quiet weekdays, then friends could visit.

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  7. Hi Dawn, it looks like you made good strides with Penny and had an opportunity for a few great bird shots. She will be your best camping buddy in no time. The last squirrel photo is my favorite. I like the solitary blueberry that remained in focus in the foreground.

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    • I think she will eventually become a camping dog too. Her sister, Katie-girl LOVED camping. She’d be so excited to sleep in her tent. She’d ask to go to bed long before I was ready. Once I made the evening fire she’d go to the tent and paw at the door. That was my sign to get up and let her into the tent where she’d settle on her big pillow, sigh, and go to sleep. I’d sit out by the fire reading. It worked for us.

      I like that squirrel photo too, with the blueberry in focus, and the background kind of dark.

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  8. That Big Boy guarding his bicycles and the pitbulls on leashes would’ve unnerved the Monk, I’m afraid. I suppose it’s a good thing I’m not into camping, for he’d be miserable watching me leave … and more miserable having to endure it with me! Penny is a rock star, and I’ll bet she’ll be your camping buddy in no time. Love how she watches you — Monk does that, too — and the picture of her in front of that shower is a hoot!

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    • She’s not sure she wants to be a camper, but she is sure she wants to be with her people, wherever they are. However, she thinks Daddy with his nice comfy sofa is a good alternative to mom and sleeping on the ground. I don’t think she saw the dog guarding the bikes, and thankfully the dog didn’t make a big production out of us walking by.

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  9. How nice to read that Penny is adapting to camping. Looking forward to reading about her overnight adventures.

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  10. After a few more trips Penny may be a camping queen!

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    • She just might. She hasn’t proven that she’s an adventure girl yet…but she’s young…there’s time. So far she’s a “I like to stay at home on my sofa” kind of girl.

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  11. Because I am sooo behind on blog reading, I am thinking that on this trip it WAS super hot and I don’t blame Penny one bit for saying this ““I guess this is OK mom. But daddy has air conditioning and a bed. Just sayin.”

    Levi would feel the same!

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  12. Such a special spot. I’m glad Penny felt more comfortable this time. Love how you are setting her up for success by doing it gradually, and also allows you to enjoy your alone time (with the chipmunks) there as well. Win win!

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    • Definitely a win/win. I’m camping in GA with my sister now, and we’re both wishing I’d have brought Pen. But she’s enjoying time with her dad and her routines which are important to her. Maybe a shorter trip would work best.

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  13. Penny is adorable, if a little unsure of her surroundings. You are brave to go camping by yourself, Dawn. I imagine it does get lonely. I have a friend in Prescott who goes camping with a group of women who love to came on a regular basis. Our little girl would be a barking maniac if she saw those dogs, and my husband would be more nervous than she is. So have fun, and I’ll enjoy looking at your squirrels and chipmunks.

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