Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

Creativity where you can find it

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For the past few weeks our little family has been struggling with some health issues that resulted in 10 days in the hospital for my spouse. He’s back home now and the specific issue he went in for has been resolved, at least for now.

Our view

But ten days away from home is a lot. Ten days sleeping in a lumpy hospital bed, being woke every few hours by staff to check how he was doing, choosing meals from the same limited menu. Being stuck in one room. It was a lot.

The view at the end of the hall.

Ten days of tests and pokes and jabs and the endless, repetitive questions from a steady stream of doctors and residents and students and nurses and aids and social workers and nutritionists and physical therapists.

Sunset over a parking lot was the prettiest thing I saw in more than a week.

It was a lot for him and a lot for me too, sitting on the room’s plastic sofa that turns into a narrow bed if you decide to sleep over. I didn’t though maybe I should have a night or two.

A storm brewed just north of us.

My view out his window was of another wing of the hospital, the original parts of a building that was originally built in the 1920s. It’s been added on and added on and added on. Finding anything within it’s winding halls is a crap shoot.

Checking the roof after a big rain.

But the windows in the part we were in were big and I could watch the sky. Some days were particularly interesting as the Michigan spring changed by the hour.

A beautiful day for sky watching.

Other days the sky was a basic boring blue.

After a wet spring it’s hard to be mad at a blue sky.

I told him I should have studied weather in school, I am so fascinated, and always have been, in watching the sky as it and the light changed.

Different textures

Hours of waiting between tests take a toll on everyone. And by the end of the stay I was seeing ducks where there were none.

Shy duck hides under the bed.

It was all a lesson, I suppose, in finding something interesting to photograph no matter where you are. And even if you only have a cell phone camera.

But as photogenic as the experience turned out to be, we’d rather not visit this destination again.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

5 thoughts on “Creativity where you can find it

  1. I hope the results make up for the tedium! xxxooo

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  2. I’m sorry you both had to go through this (and I trust Penny didn’t protest too much about being boarded/neglected). Hospitals are no fun, whether you’re the patient or the person who loves the patient. I’m glad you were able to occupy your thoughts so you didn’t make yourself sick with worry. Here’s hoping for a speedy recovery and back to full health!

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  3. I think you did very well! Hope you don’t have to repeat the experience. Best to yourself husband. And to you.

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  4. Ugh, 10 days is a LONG time. Leo Buscaghlia once claimed that ‘hospitals are no place to get well!’ I must agree, poor sleep and unpalatable food make healing a challenge. I hope the issues are totally resolved and won’t return. 🤞🏼

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