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Camping heat wave

We had some really hot weather up here in Michigan and it seemed to last forever. Of course it didn’t last forever, but for my two nights of camping at a local state park the heat hung heavily in the air even late into the night.

Even though it was hot I enjoyed a fire each evening.

I hadn’t camped at this park for a few years, not since Katie and I camped there and struggled with noisy kids partying all night just a few sites away.

This site is surrouned by woods.

This time it was much more quiet. I was in my favorite site at this campground, full shade, with lots of privacy. I went there specifically to watch the birds that hang out in the trees surrounding the site, many of which I don’t see at home around my feeders.

My app Merlin says this is a wood thrush. I don’t think we have wood thrushes in Michigan.

And I went to give Penny an opportunity to see a campground for the very first time. Her dad brought her over in the evenings and we sat around and talked.

“I’m a little anxious, mom. And it’s hot out here!”

She sat around and observed. Everything.

“What’s that over there, mom?”

I didn’t ask her to get into the tent for a number of reasons, one it was too hot inside the tent, and two she isn’t really happy in the tent yet.

“Mom, do you have any treats over there?”

But she did get to watch people and dogs and kids walk by and begin to realize she didn’t have to bark at everyone.

“You’re still here, right dad?”

It wasn’t easy for her. Watching dogs walk by, listening to noisy trucks as they hauled trailers past our site was hard.

“Dad? Those kids on bikes need to be herded!”

But little kids on bikes? Now that deserves a big bark, mom!

“So, this is your favorite site mom?”

We still have a lot of work to do, it was all new to her. But I can see potential.

“OK mom, that was interesting, I’m going back to my air conditioning now!”

There are, of course, a lot of memories at my favorite site, memories of camping with my Katie-girl. And I think she was there with me last week.

My girl used to use this leash to wander the site when we camped together so long ago.

I miss her so much, even while little Miss Penny is bouncing around distracting me. Penny says that’s OK and I appreciate her giving me some grace.

Hey Katie-girl, I know you were there.

On my last day at site 16, just before I started packing up and while I was feeling sad and missing Katie, a female cardinal arrived. She hopped around, up on the picnic table, underneath it, across the parking pad, always keeping an eye on me.

“Hey Lady! Don’t feel sad, she’s right there in your heart!”

I kind of think Katie sent her. She made me smile, just like Penny does, who, I’m sure, was also sent by Katie.

I don’t know what this bird is, but it’s pretty!

There’s lots of summer left. I hope I get to take Penny to another campground before the end of the season.

“Just remember lady, you’re never alone!”

And I figure by next summer she just might be ready for a real adventure, even if it’s camping in our own backyard.

See you later, site 16. Penny and I will be back!

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