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Music and trucks

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Last night I attended a benefit concert in Ann Arbor.  It was a fund raiser to help defray costs incurred by the families of two young people severely injured when their car was rear ended by a semi last week.  (You can read about the crash here.)  Andrew and Alicia are engaged and plan to be married next June.  They are both gifted musicians, and the concert, put together by some of their friends and groups they have played with over the years, was a show of pure love.

They played in a tiny venue that would comfortably hold about 50 people.  I couldn’t count the people there, but the crowd was huge.  Most people stood, packed together, for the entire hour and a half concert.  The windows wouldn’t open and it was hot but no one cared.  Sweat mixed with tears on the faces of the musicians as well as the families.  Lots of us listened with tears in our eyes too.  From the Schubert piano piece, through the cello, the viola, the Argentine guitar, to the Irish band that Andrew preformed with and the folk/jazz group that played songs he had written – it was all beautiful.

I wrote down the chorus of one of Andrew’s songs  because it seemed so relevant at the moment.  The song is a plea to Jesus to answer a young man’s request for a fancy car and a girl:

“I’ve been there for you

When you wanted me to

Please return this one

Jesus don’t run.”

It’s a plea I echo…because if love and music could cure them, these two would be up and dancing in the aisle.  But it’s going to take so much more.  Both have brain injuries, both are mostly unresponsive, both are still in a coma.  We need a pair of miracles here.

The last piece of music played was written by Andrew and is called Lady Lake Michigan.  It talks about missing Lady Lake Michigan’s embrace, the feel of the sand and the water.  The last line, repeated over and over…

“Let me come home.  Let me come home.”

Please God; if you heard the music last night, please let them both come home.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

6 thoughts on “Music and trucks

  1. What a horrific day on I94. The irony of Andrew’s song is chilling. I hope, someday, he is able to write and play again, with Alicia by his side.

    Dawn, it must have been a very difficult night for you.

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  2. No, it was actually very beautiful. And if I hadn’t had to go back to work early today to face another day of tears and sorrow over our own loss I would have stayed longer last night after it was over. The love in that room was overwhelming.

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  3. Just awful. Really. I hope they can come home soon.

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  4. Will be sending prayers and positive vibes in the hope they can both recover. Sadly hope and miracles is really the only thing we can hope for. Hugs to you too Dawn.

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  5. What a lovely response to tragedy, not only raising money but touching hearts and lifting spirits at the same time!

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  6. What a challenging emotional week you’ve had. This concert is a ray of hope…I have a good friend who was brain injured in a car accident years ago. Her life is a miracle, even though it is still a challenged life. She is up and walking and living life to its fullest. I wish that miracle for both these young people.

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