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Janelle’s

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Janelle’s…a little slice of heaven.

A few years ago on the old blog I told you about Janelle’s Family Restaurant in Byron Michigan, about an hour west of us.  It’s owned by a husband and wife whose only child, Janelle, was killed when a semi hit their car while they were stopped in traffic.  Janelle was 15 when she died.  Her parents, a cousin and the family dog survived the crash.

Once things settled down Janelle’s dad who is a chef opened the restaurant and named it after his daughter.  The tag line is “a little slice of heaven.”  Most locals know the restaurant’s story.

Byron is a tiny town, with not much more than a block of retail stores.  Janelle’s is the only restaurant downtown.  I guess I should say was.  Because this morning it burned, along with a couple of other stores.  The whole block is damaged and will likely be torn down.

You can see photos and video here.  It’s hard to watch.  Especially if you know the restaurant’s story.

I don’t know how much one family can take.  I’m sure this feels like they’ve lost Janelle all over again.  My heart breaks for them even as it is glad that no one was injured.  Still many people are out of work in a tiny rural community.  And they’ve all be traumatized.  The good news is that it is a tight community and they will pull together.

And we’ll all be pulling for them too.  When they rebuild, or start again somewhere else we’ll be there.  And if they need help cleaning up the mess or digging through the rubble we’ll be there.  If they need a hug or a handshake or a smile…well…we’ll be there.  All they’ve asked for so far is a  tiny prayer for strength.  That one is easy, we can all provide that support.

Regardless of what happens next they can be certain that none of us will forget Janelle, whether there’s a new restaurant or not.  She touched our lives even though most of us never got to meet her.

So tonight or tomorrow, when you’re looking around and feeling frustrated or sad or stressed remember Janelle and especially  her parents who have lived through more adversity than most people could imagine.  Say that quick prayer for them and a bit of thanks for our own, simpler, lives.

I will.  For sure.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

9 thoughts on “Janelle’s

  1. How awful, and how heartbreaking for the family.

    My heart goes out to them. I’m sure the community will be giving them a big hug with their support in the clean up, and hopefully rebuilding!

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  2. Don’t know if I can watch the video, but I certainly feel for the family and for all the people of that small town. And you are so right, Dawn–whatever frustrations daily life holds, real tragedy is something very different and puts the small stuff into perspective. I’ll be thinking of Byron today from Northport–and will think of Janelle, too.

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  3. That is just terrible.

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  4. I feel so sorry for them! Hugs to Janelle’s family!

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  5. How very sad. I don’t guess we’ll ever know on Earth why some people are called upon to carry larger, heavier crosses than others. In our human eyes, that just seems unfair. Still, it’s not for us to know the reasons why — all we can do is support people like Janelle’s family with our love and care. And prayer — lots of prayer!

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  6. My family has lived near Byron since 1857–two of my children and my sister still live there–sister just recently moved back from New York to a family farm. All those stores hold so many memories for all of us who have called this little town our hometown. Where the restaurant was, used to be a general store and a drug store–many different owners over the years. With such a small town, to lose half a block of stores–the entire business district is gone. It is truly devastating. Janelle’s restaurant was a fairly new addition–you know how it is in a small town–if you haven’t lived there for 50 years, you are considered a new comer the rest of your days. But Janelle’s was welcomed and enjoyed by many–not just this community, but for miles and miles around. My high school gal pals had our Third Thursday of the Month reunion luncheon there each month. I don’t think they will rebuild and I know the hardware owner won’t rebuild. It is a hard blow to this community. Byron==”A little town, with a big heart.”

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  7. How very painful and sad. Sending up prayers for them.

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  8. That is so sad…..lots of thoughts heading their way, it will be hard to start over again

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