Change Is Hard

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Cab speak

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Halls of change.

I took a lot of cabs while I was in DC, and had a couple of interesting conversations with the drivers while dodging other cars and weaving up side streets.

The first cab ride from the airport to Capitol Hill was a none stop monologue from the driver that started as soon as I entered the cab and told him I needed to go to a Senate office building.  “You going to a meeting?”   Yes I told him.  “What do you do?”  I’m a banker.  “Oh…good job for a woman.”  I bit my tongue and told him sometimes it was a crazy stressful job.  “Everyone always want the job they do not have” he said.  “People need to be more optimistic.  People are always so negative.  Not the way to go, people need to be more optimistic.  People here, they don’t know how good they have it.  If they travel around the world like I do they see, when they come back, this is the best country in the world.  Rest of world have nothing like America.  Do you like Obama?  I’m scared that Romney win, this country go to war, lose everything.  I pray it not so.  How many kids you got?  None?  Why not?  You don’t want kids?  I guess OK no kids if you have lots of nieces and nephews? ”  And on and on it went.   As I slipped out of the cab at my destination he said “You have good meeting lady!”

The second conversation I had with a cab driver was more evenly divided between us.  He picked me up in front of a Senate office building and was driving me back to my hotel in Georgetown.  He asked me why I was in Washington and I told him I was working on some trucking fatigue issues.

“Like when they get sleepy and weave all over and then run off the road and kill people?”

“Yes exactly like that.”

“Why do they do that?  Fall asleep like that?”

“Because they get paid by the mile, and the more miles they drive the more money they make.”

“Well that’s stupid.  They should get paid by the hour like everyone else.”

“Yes they should.”

“So why you working on this?”

“Cause my dad was killed by a tired trucker.”

“Oh man, I’m sorry.  So how often do you come to Washington to do this?”

“Maybe once a year, sometimes twice if there’s something important going on in Congress.”

“How are you gonna stop them from driving too long?”

“Well, we got legislation passed last August that requires electronic monitoring of the miles they drive, so they can’t lie in their log books.”

“That’s good.  That’s very good.”

“Yes, it took a long time to get that”

“Everything slow in Washington.”

“And we’re working on a lot of other stuff too, to make the roads safer for everyone.”

“Truck drivers…. they agree with you?”

“Lots of them do.  They die too, you know, in truck crashes.  Everyone on the road is at risk.  Cab drivers too.”

We pull into the hotel parking lot.  As I’m paying the fare he turns around and looks me in the eye.

“I want to say thank you.”

My eyes tear up.

“I want to say thank you, and I wish your group well lady.”

“You’re welcome sir.  You’re very welcome.”

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

24 thoughts on “Cab speak

  1. Very interesting conversations!

    Sometimes I do think we can learn a lot from those cab drivers because of their job as they meet so many different kind of people everyday. They can read people well through their experience too.

    When you meet some good ones, it helps lighten up your journey and make it more interesting.

    I’m glad both of them sent you their blessings.

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  2. Wow – two very smart cab drivers. When you talk with people, you realize how we are really all the same.

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  3. Awesome. I always hear that cab drivers are so worldly wise.

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  4. I bet he went home and shared your conversations with his family, friends, community. . .and apart from legislation bringing awareness to others may be one of the most important things you do.
    You do good work!

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  5. Wow! What great stories.

    I wish that first cab driver could come to school with me on Monday, because I’ve declared Monday as “Positive Day”. I’m not going to let me students say anything negative. He’d be a perfect guest.

    Thank yous are hard to come by these days, and I’m glad the second driver took the time. We all thank you for your hard work.

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  6. Interesting different perspectives from two cab drivers. I liked how you told the stories, Dawn. You never know what you’re going to get when you step in a cab!

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  7. No you never do. All you can hope for is to get where you’re going safely. The rest is frosting on the cake.

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  8. Those are great conversaions. Its funny, Ive only had cab drivers that really couldnt speak English. And last guy drove us the airport out of NCY, it was the scarest ride Ive ever been on. I couldnt have talked if I wanted to. I was to busy praying we would make it to the airport with an accident.

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  9. Such different conversation styles. Humans are interesting!
    Your second conversation gave me goosebumps. Honest, unexpected support is moving. I, too, hope things go well.

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  10. I thank you too – cabby 2 was right on the button.

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  11. I guess it comes down to is your glass half full or half empty. We liked the second cabbie better though.

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  12. Mostly, people kind of nod and pretend to understand when I tell them about the truck safety work we are doing, but a couple of times I have gotten that profoundly sincere “thank you” that you described so well. Good job of recording the stories.

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