Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

Cherishing our children

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Last week’s tragic loss of so many children has caused me to pay more attention to the children around me.  I don’t have kids, and have never paid much attention to them.  But I saw the anguish of the parents, and I have experienced anguish somewhat like their pain.  So I get it.  These families will live with this loss forever.

Driving back and forth to work I pass the small local cemetery.  I’ve noticed a little cherub on one gravestone close to the road and just lately have noticed red flowers there as well.  This past weekend I went to investigate.

Such a short life.

Such a short life.

This is the marker for what must have been twins, Amy Louise and Ann Leola Cranston, born and died on Feb 12, 1939.  Someone has left red silk roses for them.  Think about it.  Someone has been missing these two for seventy-three years.  They lived one day and have been missed and not forgotten for almost three quarters of a century.  Just think how long the children we lost on Friday will be remembered.

Forever.

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Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

6 thoughts on “Cherishing our children

  1. I’m can’t bear to watch the news this week. Tiny coffins will be too much for me to handle.

    My nephew had a twin sister, who only lived 4 weeks. We think about her all the time. You never forget them, and you never stop thinking about what could’ve been.

    My heart breaks for their families.

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    • I’m so sorry Sara. Your family has suffered a lot of loss. She would have been a princess with two brothers, I’m sure. Or a tomboy. Or better yet…a princess tomboy! 🙂

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  2. So sad and senseless.

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  3. They might be an unknown statistic to most – but there is ALWAYS someone who remembers them and keeps their memory safe and alive.

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  4. The memory will always exist – the pain will diminish, ever so slowly, but the memory will remain.

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  5. A beautiful photo and a post that left me feeling rather than thinking.

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