Whether you spent it with family and friends or by yourself, Thanksgiving is now just a memory augmented, if you’re lucky, by leftovers in the fridge. Black Friday has decended and though it isn’t the crazy get up in the middle of the night frenzy it once was, when combined with online shopping and a pandemic, for me it’s just a pause before the real world comes flooding back.
If I keep the television off I feel like I can enjoy a few days of peaceful quiet before it’s time to get back into the thick of things. December will be another run up to crazy and I’m not looking forward to any of it.
I’m not feeling blue exactly, but I’m not feeling cheerful either. I’m just feeling sort of…well…quiet. I think I’ll run with that feeling and see where it leads me.
I hope all of you had a peaceful Thanksgiving, or a peaceful Thursday, whichever you chose, and that we all get through these next few months as unscathed as possible.
Hugs to you all.
November 27, 2020 at 1:53 pm
I’m sorry your mood matches the weather.
Please know that you are loved by many far and wide.
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November 27, 2020 at 3:41 pm
Thank you, I know. And I don’t feel depressed or even sad. Just really really quiet.
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November 28, 2020 at 12:16 am
I’m sorry. I assumed “quiet” meant a negative thing, as in feeling overwhelmed and desperate for quiet. (Perhaps I’m projecting) vThanks for clarifying.
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November 28, 2020 at 3:02 pm
That’s OK, I can see how it could read the way you got it. I hope you are doing OK through all the holiday chaos. I imagine it’s a bigger deal when there are grandchildren!
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November 27, 2020 at 2:23 pm
Great way to put it — “the crazy” because it sure as hell is. I have found not having a tv in my place is one of the best decisions I EVER made. I no longer feel the urge to buy something just because I keep seeing it advertised. And on YouTube, I’m a big fan of the “skip ad” button. (As if I would want to watch them all the way through???) Happy late Thanksgiving to you. I hope you had a good day. I just had leftover stuffing. 🙂
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November 27, 2020 at 3:41 pm
I’ve been thinking quite seriously about going to the basement fridge to get the leftover stuffing. But I want to have that for supper tonight so I’m trying to not do that.
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November 27, 2020 at 2:56 pm
Hi dawn – we had a delightful holiday – quiet and quaint –
And I think I like it better when thanksgiving is earlier – like the 25th because now December feels so close
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November 27, 2020 at 3:42 pm
Yes, it does seem like we just get this over and wham we’re into the Christmas month!
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November 27, 2020 at 11:52 pm
😊
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November 28, 2020 at 12:13 am
Gee, I thought Christmas officially began as soon as Halloween is done.
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November 28, 2020 at 3:02 pm
Kinda seems to.
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November 27, 2020 at 3:28 pm
I think this year is culminating with built up emotions – much like how Wiley Coyote’s snout becomes accordion pleated when he runs into a Boulder. We’re all exhausted.
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November 27, 2020 at 3:42 pm
My brain definitely feels accordion pleated.
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November 27, 2020 at 4:02 pm
Yep, I get it.
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November 27, 2020 at 3:43 pm
Nonplussed. That’s how I feel. Knowing I should feel gratitude for everything in my life, but too dang tired at the moment to gush about it.
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November 27, 2020 at 3:45 pm
I agree. And you’ve had a lot this year that wasn’t all that fun. 2021 has got to be better.
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November 27, 2020 at 4:24 pm
The John Grisham book “Skipping Christmas” is what came to mind when I read this. I know what you mean, Dawn. My husband and I exchange presents (even though I tell him I don’t need/want anything) but this year I talked about skipping the whole ordeal. We are not mall shoppers. We don’t get into the crowds, so I don’t plan on going shopping. I don’t feel it this year. I just don’t.
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November 28, 2020 at 3:04 pm
I should read that book, I don’t think I have. We aren’t shoppers either. I have some things for my siblings, ordered online. I’ll mail those out shortly and I’ll be pretty much done other than sending out some Christmas cards. This year my Christmas card rule is when someone mails us a card, I’ll mail them back someting. Last year I mailed almost 100, like usual and we received so few it seemed sad.
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November 28, 2020 at 5:18 pm
Christmas has changed so much, but this year drastically so.
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November 27, 2020 at 6:33 pm
Thanks for sharing your quiet mood, that lull, the pause. May it sustain you through the weekend–along with any leftovers.
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November 28, 2020 at 3:04 pm
The leftovers are definitely almost gone, and it’s only Saturday!
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November 27, 2020 at 6:40 pm
I feel exactly the same way. Quiet.
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November 28, 2020 at 4:07 pm
Probably a reflection of finishing your book in combination to the election being over.
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November 28, 2020 at 7:17 am
Enjoy your quiet pause, Dawn. We all need that from time to time. ❤
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November 28, 2020 at 3:05 pm
Yes, I feel like there won’t be much opportunity for quiet between now and the end of the year. Don’t know why, we certainly don’t have kids and could control some of the craziness, but I feel like there’s a whole wall of crazy that is just waiting to overwhelm us.
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November 28, 2020 at 2:27 pm
Dawn, decorating the front of our house with Christmas lights certainly lightened my mood this week. We have made a family pact to omit the gift exchange this year and just do simple things together, like decorating the tree and baking cookies….I am looking forward to quiet simplicity.
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November 28, 2020 at 3:06 pm
Yes, I put up some lights last weekend, it was fun because it was warm and sunny out. That’s when I saw the bald eagles fly overhead. I probably won’t do any inside decorating…and maybe not much in the baking area either as we are both trying to lose some weight. But I will probably drive around looking at other people’s lights one evening. That would be fun.
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November 29, 2020 at 7:52 am
Dawn, we are expecting cooler weather next week, so I’m thinking a stroll around the neighborhood with a hot toddy might be nice. I’ve noticed that more people seem to be decorating this year.
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November 28, 2020 at 3:14 pm
Sometimes, quiet is a GOOD thing, Dawn. It allows us time and space to get in touch with our feelings, to center and ground who we are and what we need. Today was finally sunny and relatively pleasant, so Domer helped me put up the tree and outdoor lights. It helped take our mind off Dallas’s absence.
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November 28, 2020 at 4:08 pm
It’s fun to have help doing that sort of thing, especially while you’re missing Dallas.
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