Funny how I used to get a happy little skip in my heart when I cleared the last set of hills while driving down to Alabama to visit my parents. And funny how today, as I cleared that last set of hills I felt a melancholy skip instead.

I guess that’s normal.
It’s hard now, to come visit with the house empty but waiting patiently. It’s equally hard to leave after being here a few days. The memories smooth out and it just feels good to be here.

But that first walk into the empty house….well…that’s hard. Every time.
July 31, 2026 at 10:29 pm
Hugs.
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August 1, 2026 at 9:31 am
Thanks, Carol. You’ve been here with me since before all the big events. I am grateful for your support.
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August 1, 2026 at 12:00 pm
I’ve been waiting for you to go back to Alabama – it feels to me like it’s your ‘safe haven’, a place for respite and good memories – with the good ones outweighing the sad ones.
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August 1, 2026 at 9:16 pm
It’s been hard to find the time to get here this year. But we made it somewhat of a priority as long as things at home were reasonably OK.
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July 31, 2026 at 10:29 pm
Sending you a hug, Dawn. 💕
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August 1, 2026 at 9:31 am
Thank you Denise. It’s better this morning. It always is, once I settle in to being here.
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August 1, 2026 at 7:30 am
Welcome back, Dawn. I’m looking forward to meeting you.
Kathy Edmondson
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August 1, 2026 at 9:32 am
Thank you. I look forward to meeting you too.
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August 1, 2026 at 11:09 am
I’m sorry, Dawn. I know that must be a hard trip. Big hugs.
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August 1, 2026 at 9:11 pm
Thank you. It gets better with time.
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August 1, 2026 at 12:25 pm
Yes, a melancholy feeling when loved ones are no longer there. Glad to read in the comments you are feeling better this morning.
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August 1, 2026 at 9:12 pm
I am. Though it rained all morning. Had time for a quick kayak trip this evening and now its thundering again.
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August 1, 2026 at 12:55 pm
There’s a lot of comfort in sunshine and smiles. Wishing you both!
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August 1, 2026 at 9:12 pm
Thank you! I have family on the way for the rest of the week. That will keep me busy.
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August 1, 2026 at 5:55 pm
Hopefully, the light of day made the sad memories blur into happy memories.
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August 1, 2026 at 9:14 pm
it always gets better when I’m here for awhile.. or when I have the dogvor family around.
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August 1, 2026 at 9:28 pm
I can see how that would perk up your spirits, rather than facing the empty house alone.
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August 1, 2026 at 6:29 pm
hugs. hopefully the light of day will help
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August 1, 2026 at 9:14 pm
yes, it definitely does.
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August 1, 2026 at 9:30 pm
❤️🩹😢🙏🏼
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August 2, 2026 at 1:20 am
Thank you
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August 2, 2026 at 5:28 am
I hope looking at the water helped you feel better. I’m glad you are still able to go to a place your parents really loved.
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August 2, 2026 at 9:15 am
water always fixes me up.
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August 2, 2026 at 1:55 pm
People connect us to our past. When the people are gone, the places still connect us but the memories are sometimes bittersweet. After my dad passed, we often drove by our old house when we went to visit our Mum. Couldn’t even go in but there still was that connection.
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August 3, 2026 at 10:27 am
Very bittersweet. I hope you have now transitioned since writing this to the place of happy memories.
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