Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

Just do it

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You know how sometimes you sign up to do something and when the day and time comes around you sort of wish you hadn’t because staying home and doing nothing in particular seems so much easier than getting up and out?

Yea.

Saturday morning I was signed up to go on a guided hike at one of Katie’s parks. I have been on a couple of these walks, and I always enjoy them, usually learn something, and am always glad I went.

Still.

Saturday morning it seemed to take a gargantuan effort to get myself up and fed and showered and out the door in order to meet over at the park by 10 a.m. Seriously, 10 a.m. seemed early to me. Even though for 30+ years I was at work every weekday and often weekends, by 8.

This is what retirement has done to me. It has turned me into a sloth.

Anyway.

By 10:00 a.m. Saturday morning a group of about a dozen people had gathered in the designated parking lot. We all set off up a hill to our first stop on the hike, the Davis Lake overlook. Our guide, the manager of parklands in our township, explained how the lake was formed and the importance of the hills and wetlands to the formation of the Shiawasee River which begins in our township.

At this park we have something called a ‘fen’ which is somewhat unusual. That’s a wet prairie-like landscape which is host to any number of rare insects, plants and even fish.

The park manager talked about all the partnerships our township has with researchers at universities around the world, adding that the research grants helps to pay for managing the land.

We went further into the forest where we stopped and looked at the tree canopy and the understory and the ground cover. He talked about different plants that grow in the forest when they have enough light and space to thrive.

He said a healthy forest would have a variety of trees, and within a variety, several different ages. He’s working to make sure we have young trees coming up to replace the older ones that have been around for over 100 years.

Then we moved out onto the fen, where we took a quick right, off the path, to see a wildflower, the gentian, a small, blue, fringed flower that blooms in the fall. I’ve seen other blue gentian flowers, growing on rocks along the Great Lakes, but I had no idea we had them in my very own neighborhood!

For me that little blue flower was the highlight of the walk, but we saw lots of other plants too. Our guide showed us the dying plants, the seed pods, and those hanging on with a bit of color. He described what they would look like next spring, and urged us to come along on the spring hike next year.

I, of course, have visited this park often, with Katie and now with Penny. It’s a beautiful place to wander through woods and meadows, around glacial lakes and up and over hills. The part I hiked Saturday, with the group, is unofficially named after Katie around our house. Penny has her own part of the same park, just a bit north of where we were. I took her there Saturday afternoon and we had a great time. But I’ll let her tell you about that when she’s ready.

Saturday morning our group had a beautiful day, with a bright blue sky, warm temperatures and a little breeze. It was such a wonderful walk, fun to be out with other like minded people. We all learned a little something and had fun doing it.

It was a reminder to me that when you sign up for something, during an optimistic moment, you should follow through and get yourself to the event. Even if you have grown into a sloth.

Because if you do, you’re going to be sooooo happy that you did.

I guarantee it.

(Now. You might think this would be a great Walktober. And it would be, but it’s not. I don’t think anyway. We’ll see. I hope you are all thinking about where you’d like to take us on YOUR Walktober coming to a blog near you sometime between October 17 and the end of the month!)

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

32 thoughts on “Just do it

  1. My older sister calls it the dread it’s! Haha, we say we will show up or sign up for something, or it could even be a dinner date with friends and when the time comes to attend, or wake up to get ready, we just dread it!! Hahaha 🤣 I have it happen to me all the time and I’m not retired (yet!).

    We always enjoy it when we arrive. 🤗 I’ve learned so much from your walk! I think it’s so cool that universities study the area and how important the floral, insects and the like are so important to the forests! Thank you for sharing! I’m thinking about Walktober (my favorite month!) but we don’t get much foliage change here. I’ll try and get creative! 🤩♥️

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  2. I can relate to the sign up in advance, dread the day it comes! So worth it to go in this case, what a beautiful day. I am fighting the sloth of retirement, though setting the alarm for 6 instead of 5am has been a change.

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  3. A good lesson, indeed! I particularly liked seeing the gentian, a lovely flower I have never seen in person.

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  4. This is probably why I am so reluctant to sign up for something ahead of time. What if something comes up–like I don’t feel like going? 🙄 I can so relate, Dawn.

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  5. I can relate Dawn. I am not retired yet, but when I have an early morning commitment on the weekend it is sometimes hard to get motivated to get up & out. Thank you for sharing a different area of the girls park. Have a great week! 😊

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  6. I find that the more reluctant I am to go, the more I end up enjoying that which I almost talked myself out of going!

    And those flowers are so pretty. Glad you ended up having a lovely time and learning stuff!

    I am IN for Walktober!

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  7. You know, I think that’s the problem with retirement — folks just kind of quit. And that’s probably the worst thing anybody can do! I’m glad you talked yourself into going on this guided walk. Such gorgeous scenery, such a lovely day — far too pretty to miss out. The sofa can wait!

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    • I’ve seen two kinds of retirees. Those that are so excited to get the freedom to do all the stuff they’ve been wanting to do…and the other kind who dread retirement and sit down in front of the TV once work is over.

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  8. You are soooo right, Dawn. “Just do it” is such a great motto. It is easy, especially in retirement, to give ourselves excuses not to. But as you described, when we do get up and go, the rewards are often numerous!

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  9. Dawn, I hear you about the motivation since retirement. Even though all Summer I am up earlier to get out the door before it gets too hot and humid, now, with the later arrival of daylight, I finally realized “hey – why are you getting up so early when you don’t leave early?” I reset the alarm clocks. I took the bus to Downtown Detroit for years and caught it almost at the end of my street. I had my routine down pat to be out the door timely and in the Summer, I even hand watered the flowers first! Ahh – youth. I’ve taken a few of the Metroparks interpretive walks when I got my first Metroparks pass, plus I took a few boat trips and an art “sketch and walk class” and enjoyed them all. We don’t have any local park walks that I know of … there was another coyote at Council Point Park across the Ecorse Creek the other day to gawk at however.

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    • I remember having a routine. I’m so glad I don’t have to do that particular routine any more. Yesterday husband had an early doctor’s appointment that was located quite near one of the buildings I once worked in. We had to drive in morning traffic. It made me doubly thankful I don’t have to do that every day any more.

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  10. Yep, I do that too, and like you, I’m always SO happy that I stuck with and did whatever it was. AND I love the second photo down from the top where one leaf is trying to eat the other leaf … lol!

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  11. I know exactly what you mean about signing up and then reluctantly going! It’s almost always worth the extra effort when I feel that way. The Gentian is beautiful. I don’t think I’ve ever seen one. I wonder if they grow in the fen we have here? I’m going to look into it.

    I am not getting your posts via email. Looks like WP knocked me off. I’ll sign up again. I miss you!

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    • I’ve been retired for just over 5 years now, you’d think I wouldn’t hoard my time alone so much! I don’t like signing up for stuff, I always think “What if I want to do something ELSE that day!” Or probably more accurately….”What if I want to do NOTHING AT ALL that day!” 🙂 🙂 🙂

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  12. Katie’s park is so pretty. Looks especially beautiful in the fall when that sunshine feels so good.

    Have you read the book Year of Yes? I just listened to the audio version. Your post reminds me of the book. I’m trying to say yes more, but it’s a struggle. I keep thinking, “when I retire”, but I have a feeling my inner sloth will get even worse! 😅

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    • Your work is so stressful that when you retire I bet you’re overly protective of your free time, just like I am. I haven’t read the book yet, I probably should. I DID have a whole list of stuff I’d been wanting to do that I’d waited to retirement to do. We did some of it, and then we fell into the covid induced sloth-pit. It’s hard to get out of.

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  14. Dawn, Just do it is a good motto for walks. I’m glad you had a beautiful day and a fun walk.

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