I’m headed home now from a week at my parents’ house on the lake. I hadn’t been there in a few years.

First covid happened and then we had other priorities for a couple years. It was hard to find the time to go South.

While I was there I had a few days without any agenda where I mostly sat on the deck and watched the water in the lake change over the course of the day.

Years ago my mom used to try to convince me that folks in Alabama enjoyed fall color, though I’d always argued certainly not the color we have in Michigan.

I was down there, this year, at the perfect fall time, with yellow, green and red popping under warm southern sun.

The leaves across the way reflected in the lake as I sat on the dock, memories of years past flitting through my mind.

I wished my parents were with me at the lake house. I wished my mom was making potato salad. I wished my dad was telling stories.

I spent the week surrounded by memories of times when we were all together. It was both a sad and a happy week.

Mostly a nostalgic week.

Which, I suppose, was the purpose of my trip.

November 9, 2024 at 7:41 pm
Sometimes those memories make us sad because changes have happened – but isn’t it wonderful that we’ve had the chance to make those memories?
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November 11, 2024 at 1:09 pm
Yes, I was very lucky growing up, and as an adult with the parents I got. I sure miss them though.
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November 11, 2024 at 1:48 pm
Good people who are loved are sure to be missed. Hugs.
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November 9, 2024 at 8:42 pm
Precious memories can be bittersweet. So sweet & happy to remember them and then sad that we no longer have the person with us. I understand. I hope happiness outweighed sadness during your visit. 💕
I love photo of the bird with the mohawk! 😊
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November 11, 2024 at 1:12 pm
That’s a kingfisher sitting on the pole that holds the martin houses. They’re so skittish I’m lucky I got some shots. I liked this one the most, with the beak open and the mohawk!
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November 9, 2024 at 9:25 pm
Dawn, this looks like a peaceful place to just ponder life and relive memories from good times spent with loved ones. I love the red garage doors and look at the vibrant leaves! Your Kingfisher added a touch of whimsy to this wistful post.
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November 11, 2024 at 1:13 pm
It IS a very nice place to sit and ponder the world. More fun in the summer when the lake is warmer and you can jump in or take the boat out. But nice in the winter too. We were walking around in shirts and shorts. Now that I’m back in Michigan it’s COLD!
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November 11, 2024 at 5:59 pm
It looked very serene. It was shirts and shorts weather in Michigan last week and we still haven’t had a hard freeze, so no Indian Summer yet.
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November 10, 2024 at 7:34 am
I’ve been enjoying your photos of this trip on Facebook. I didn’t know it belonged to your parents. Is it now a family property for you and yours to enjoy when you have the time?
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November 10, 2024 at 7:41 am
yes, the 4 “kids” own it now and in theory we use it for family gatherings but the reality is it’s hard to get us all there at any one time.
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November 10, 2024 at 8:51 am
Your photos are beautiful, such a pretty place to visit and to have fond memories of. Your parents may be gone but their memory lives in this place for you to experience when you can.
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November 11, 2024 at 1:14 pm
Yes, they’re everywhere here. I can’t turn around without seeing them. Lots of memories, that’s for sure.
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November 10, 2024 at 3:23 pm
I’m so happy for you that you made time to go to Alabama! It sounds very much like a healing trip, probably long overdue. And while I’m sure you missed your parents, something tells me they were right there with you … sitting on that dock and watching the water and the Fall color. What a pretty place that is — you’re fortunate to have such a spot to go to when winter’s chill overtakes Michigan. Bet Penny would love it, too!
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November 11, 2024 at 1:14 pm
Yes they are definitely there. Just everywhere there.
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November 11, 2024 at 10:19 pm
You had a nice get away…steeped in memories:)
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November 16, 2024 at 10:22 pm
Yes it was lovely.
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November 12, 2024 at 9:22 am
What a great post and such beautiful photos to accompany it. 😊
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November 16, 2024 at 10:22 pm
Thank you. It’s a pretty place and I’m lucky to get to visit it once in awhile.
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November 12, 2024 at 1:37 pm
I’m sure your Mom and Dad were both surrounding you as you sat on the dock. I bet your Mom made him potato salad in Heaven. What a beautiful lake house that is and it is the perfect place to sit and reflect. You are truly blessed to have it!
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November 16, 2024 at 10:23 pm
Yes I am very lucky to be able to go there once in awhile!
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November 14, 2024 at 10:06 pm
So perfect.
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November 16, 2024 at 10:23 pm
It is.
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November 15, 2024 at 6:17 am
While I never met your parents, I feel love for them. I’m glad you embraced those memories, despite it being difficult sometimes.
Such a beautiful place to reflect on the important things in life.
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November 16, 2024 at 10:24 pm
Thank you Sara. I think you’ve been reading my blog since almost if not the beginning, so you’ve read a lot about them. In the early years I blogged about them a lot.
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November 16, 2024 at 5:36 am
Beautiful
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November 16, 2024 at 10:24 pm
Thank you Mike.
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