Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

Reflections

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I’m headed home now from a week at my parents’ house on the lake. I hadn’t been there in a few years.

First covid happened and then we had other priorities for a couple years. It was hard to find the time to go South.

While I was there I had a few days without any agenda where I mostly sat on the deck and watched the water in the lake change over the course of the day.

Years ago my mom used to try to convince me that folks in Alabama enjoyed fall color, though I’d always argued certainly not the color we have in Michigan.

I was down there, this year, at the perfect fall time, with yellow, green and red popping under warm southern sun.

The leaves across the way reflected in the lake as I sat on the dock, memories of years past flitting through my mind.

I wished my parents were with me at the lake house. I wished my mom was making potato salad. I wished my dad was telling stories.

I spent the week surrounded by memories of times when we were all together. It was both a sad and a happy week.

Mostly a nostalgic week.

Which, I suppose, was the purpose of my trip.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

26 thoughts on “Reflections

  1. Sometimes those memories make us sad because changes have happened – but isn’t it wonderful that we’ve had the chance to make those memories?

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  2. Precious memories can be bittersweet. So sweet & happy to remember them and then sad that we no longer have the person with us. I understand. I hope happiness outweighed sadness during your visit. 💕

    I love photo of the bird with the mohawk! 😊

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  3. Dawn, this looks like a peaceful place to just ponder life and relive memories from good times spent with loved ones. I love the red garage doors and look at the vibrant leaves! Your Kingfisher added a touch of whimsy to this wistful post.

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  4. I’ve been enjoying your photos of this trip on Facebook. I didn’t know it belonged to your parents. Is it now a family property for you and yours to enjoy when you have the time?

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  5. Your photos are beautiful, such a pretty place to visit and to have fond memories of. Your parents may be gone but their memory lives in this place for you to experience when you can.

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  6. I’m so happy for you that you made time to go to Alabama! It sounds very much like a healing trip, probably long overdue. And while I’m sure you missed your parents, something tells me they were right there with you … sitting on that dock and watching the water and the Fall color. What a pretty place that is — you’re fortunate to have such a spot to go to when winter’s chill overtakes Michigan. Bet Penny would love it, too!

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  7. You had a nice get away…steeped in memories:)

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  8. What a great post and such beautiful photos to accompany it. 😊

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  9. I’m sure your Mom and Dad were both surrounding you as you sat on the dock. I bet your Mom made him potato salad in Heaven. What a beautiful lake house that is and it is the perfect place to sit and reflect. You are truly blessed to have it!

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  10. While I never met your parents, I feel love for them. I’m glad you embraced those memories, despite it being difficult sometimes.

    Such a beautiful place to reflect on the important things in life.

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