Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

Just saying thanks

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Summer is flying by, and soon it will be September when the Truck Safety Coalition holds it annual fundraising dinner, and then it will be November when we ask our friends and family to donate through Giving Tuesday, and then it will be December when we make that last push to meet our funding goals.

Because I’m on TSC’s board I’m hyper aware of the need to fundraise, but before we get into this end of year cycle where I’m asking you for your support I just wanted to say thank you.

Thank you for the dollars you sent us at the end of 2024 when I was asking for support at our dinner. Thank you for going online when I was working the Giving Tuesday platform. Thank you for putting checks in the mail, directly to them or to me.

It feels just like yesterday that so many of you were actively engaged with my cause making it, at least for the moment, your cause too. It makes me feel less alone in the fight.

I don’t remember if I told you about our dinner last September. When I got up to speak I looked around at that crowded banquet room, at all the faces there. Crash survivors, victims’ families, TSC staff members, attorneys, other safety related non-profits, friends, Congressional staffers concerned about the issues, all these people were intermingled at the tables, and I thought….”We are not alone.”

And I said this out loud, I asked the victims’ families and survivors to look around. I told them our work is hard and sometimes it feels lonely, but look around at all these people here to support us. We are not alone. Our family members and our previous lives have not been forgotten.

And that’s how you make me feel too. So I wanted to say a simple thank you — without any ask attached.

A friend of mine made cards for me, using a photo of my parents and me taken a few decades ago. Who knew back then what I’d be working on now? I sent the cards to people I knew had donated last year, if I had an address. I would have sent them to all of you, but I know some of you wonderful people only online.

Think about how amazing that is.

You know me only online and still you support the cause that means so much to me…saving people’s lives, reducing truck crashes, supporting families, and spreading the word to be careful when you’re driving.

I know I’ll be back soon, asking for money to support our work. And once in awhile I’m sure I’ll be on my soapbox again. But for now, thank you all so much for listening and letting me ramble.

The deaths and injury numbers are going up, we can’t stop now.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

19 thoughts on “Just saying thanks

  1. Thank YOU, Dawn, for all you do for the Truck Safety Coalition! I know it’s a cause close to your heart, but I don’t know where you find the time to juggle so many things. Keep telling the story (and oh, that picture of you and your mom and dad makes my eyes leak!), and remind us again when we need to start making donations. This old world is flying along so fast, some of us might forget!

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  2. Thank you, Dawn, for the tireless work that you and your truck safety organization do to help make our roads safer. I am glad that you are seeing that all of your work is making a difference. I know your parents are watching over you and are so proud of you. 💕 The notecards that your friend made are so sweet! ❤️

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  3. Thank you for your commitment, dedication and leadership. You make a very positive difference.

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  4. Your work is both tireless and sad Dawn, not only because it touched you so deeply, but because you know that sadly, no matter how hard you try to make truck safety a priority, there will always be accidents, many senseless tragedies, like the story I shared last year with you about my Florida friend who was killed by a texting dump truck driver, who took his foot off the brake at a red light and rolled right over Kirk’s car. He died a few days later. There was a jackknifed semi overnight Thursday that closed the expressway due to an oil spill for hours.

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    • I miss both my folks every day. Sometimes I think Dad stays up front in my brain more because I’m working on the stuff that killed him. My mom was always the more quiet of the two. But she’s right here with me too, in my memories. I often hear her talking to me. That’s comforting.

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      • Yes, I know what you mean Dawn. I feel my mom’s presence in this house all the time too, in good ways and bad, the latter because she was a stickler for keeping the house immaculate. I do picture her looking down and shaking her head sometimes. 🙂

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  5. You’re the best … because your dad was who he was, and because your mom was who she was. I’m so grateful you’re here Dawn. I’m so sorry your dad died the way he did. And, because of him and her, you’re the best.

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  6. Thank you for being engaged in the process and being a voice of reason and safety. Remembering our parents and being their advocate is important. It’s not the loudest voice which is heard, but the persistent. Peace.

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    • I hope persistency pays off. Right now most of what we had near the finish line has been pulled back and likely scrapped. I figure another 20 years of work and we might be back to where we were prior to the last election. But I’ll be 90.

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  7. Dawn, your work is so important. Our local Turnpike, I 95 is packed with trucks and I avoid it at all costs and take the Garden State Parkway which doesn’t allow any trucks. Too many 18 wheeler accidents all the time. I love those cards

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  8. Oh Dawn, you are the one who deserves the thank you.

    I admire your heart work ( that was a typo, but when I went back to change it to “hard”, I realized it was actually perfect). 🥰❤

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    • It’s definitely heart work…pretty cool typo! You are one of my special people, but I couldn’t send you a snail mail thank you because I don’t have an address. I think of you often though and am sending you a HUGE THANK YOU!

      I think about your brother-in-law too, often, and your sister and her children and hope they are doing good.

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