Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.


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Searching for the perfect place

Penny has been spoiled and so have her mom and dad. When we’ve needed her to be somewhere besides our house during the last almost two years, we’ve been able to deposit her back with her breeder for a few days or even a week.

She loves her Mama S, and is always excited to be there, and we’re thrilled that she’s safe and in a happy place. But we can’t assume that Mama S. will always be available when we need to be somewhere else.

We need a backup plan.

So for the past week I’ve been searching for the right kennel, somewhere that will treat her well, and keep her safe, even if she won’t be entirely happy to be there. I started with the vet, asking them to give us names and numbers of kennels they recommend.

I got three options.

Let me stop right here and tell you that you can’t believe everything you read or see on the internet. I looked for websites for each of the three, writing notes about hours, services, reviews. Then I got in the car and began visiting, intending to just show up without warning and see what was what.

The first place, my pick based on location and information on the web, looked like a very nice residence, with no evidence of it being a kennel. That made me hesitant to just go ring the doorbell, so I sat in my car down the street and called them. Turns out they were retired and no longer taking pets.

Well darn.

The second place looked OK from the very busy street, a lot of pole barn type buildings, a big parking lot, signs and hours posted. Inside was the owner and we talked a long time. I liked her philosophy about not letting dogs meet each other, but was worried that outdoor play time cost an additional $3.00 a time.

I kind of wonder if those walks really happen.

I asked her if I could see the place my girl would be, and the owner walked me into the back area, which was dark (lights off because the air wasn’t working she said) and had maybe 30 runs each separated from the next a by chain link fence. There was no outdoor space and no natural light.

Though I think she’d be safe, I couldn’t imagine my girl being happy in this dark, warm, noisy place.

So I moved on to the third option. The website made it seem acceptable, lots of pictures of dogs, nothing specific, nothing about paying extra for anything. But I couldn’t find the building. I drove up and down the short road past very expensive houses, and didn’t see anything that looked like a kennel. There was an old stone building with a fence and a gate and barbed wire, but the gate was closed.

So I drove down the street and called. Sure enough, that old stone building was the kennel. I drove back and the woman working there had opened the gate. There was a piece of notebook paper taped to one of the doors that said “Office.”

I hesitently opened the door. Inside was a desk, a phone, and some crates stacked up against the back wall. The ceiling tiles were all warped and stained with water damage. The floor tile, of asbestos vintage, was chipped and broken. No one was there.

The smell was horrific.

As I was contemplating backing out of the building, the employee walked into the office from the back, the dogs barking behind her. Wearing a tank top and sweating because there was no air, she told me she lets all the dogs out into the yard “3 or 4 times a day,” using the space in front where I was currently parked, which is why the gate was closed. She told me she would give the dogs any meds they needed, feed them up to three times a day if required. “Anything they need, I’ll do,” she said.

Just for giggles I asked if I could see where my girl would be. In the back room were several dogs in crates not much bigger than they were, and the smell was worse. I smiled thinly and said “thank you,” and got the heck out of dodge while she was still talking to me.

In my car, while driving away I said, out loud, that it would be a cold day in…well you know…before I’d board so much as a pet lizard there, much less my girl.

So I started from scratch. I researched three more kennels, a couple of them located near me, and the one we took Bonnie and Katie to years ago which is about 30 minutes away. One of the close by kennels never had an employee in their office during the hours their website says they are available. So after two attempts to talk to someone they’re now off my list. The other one that’s close by gave me an appointment time to stop by next week. It’s a very small kennel with good reviews. We’ll see.

And lastly I drove out to the kennel I’ve trusted for years, realizing (now that I’d seen the innards of kennels) that I had never had a tour and I had no idea what it was really like. I was greeted with a smile and given a gracious tour on the spot. Big individual kennels, with cement walls between them. Each dog gets two “rooms” so they can potty in one if they want to, but they’re taken outside individually 3 times a day to fenced and grassy play yards where they’re allowed to wander around for 15-20 minutes each time. There are heated floors in the winter, and music playing all the time. There’s an emergency vet on the property.

It’s still a kennel and I’m sure my girl would rather be with her Mama S. That will always be our first choice, but I feel good that I have a plan B. I’m going to schedule Penny for a one night evaluation (a requirement of that last kennel) soon, so we’ll know how she does.

Searching for the perfect kennel reminds me very much of when we were looking for long term care housing for Bruce’s aunt. You pretty much know when you walk in the door whether you want your family member to stay there. Don’t trust reviews, go see for yourself before you make such an important decision. Most of them, kennels or nursing homes, are nowhere near good enough for our family members, furbabies or not.

My girl deserves a safe and happy place always.


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Finally!

Hey everybody, it’s me, Penny!

Mom thought this mossy part of the woods was pretty. I think I made it prettier.

Guess what? Mom finally took me to my park! She’s always saying we’re going to go to a park, or have an adventure and then stuff happens and I end up lolling around the house all day.

Mom thought the light was pretty too. I thought better about climbing up there to be included in the image.

Why the closest thing to an adventure around here is sleeping out back in her tent. Which I’m not at all sure I like yet.

This is gonna be fun….right?

Mom says to give it time, but geeze, Dad’s sleeping in air conditioning, on a bed. I don’t know why I have to be out there in the steaming warm night, sleeping on the ground with scary sounds just outside my window with Mom, just because she’s crazy.

Awwww, gee. Here we are again.

Anyway.

Mom’s been working on this photo challenge, which has something to do with four seasons and she takes me along when she’s doing that.

This is a pretty spot, Mom, will it work for your project?

I like going to the woods now. In the beginning when I was just a baby I was sort of scared of the big trees, especially if the wind was blowing and there were all sorts of noises and leaves blowing around and stuff.

Come on, mom, let’s get going!

But now I’m a big girl, and I’ve figured out there are really cool smells out there in the woods! So today when Mom said we were going to go to my park (yes I have a park now that is named after me!), I got all excited.

Mom said this was pretty too.

It’s not very far away and we got there early in the morning when it would still be relatively cool. Mom unloaded me and off we went, my nose to the ground and Mom trailing along behind.

The very first picture mom stopped to take this morning.

But before we got to the top of the first hill Mom pulled me up and said we had to go home and look for something called bug spray. Mom said she was an idiot for not thinking of that sooner and no way was she going any further swatting at clouds of mosquitoes.

Mom! It’s really buggy here! Hurry up and take your picture!

I was a bit upset, but back in the car I went and we drove home where mom sprayed herself liberally and then used a doggie bug spray on my back and tummy, and put some in her hand and rubbed it on my face and ears.

Come on mom, you’re slowing me down!

Then off to the park (again!) we went! I was a little confused, but trotted right off, nose to the ground. We went up and down hills and through meadows and past wildflowers and ripening berries.

Mom asked me if I wanted a berry but I said no thanks. I’ll stick with treats.

Mom stopped for a lot of pictures that were not me and I was OK with that, as long as I got my fair share of photographic attention.

This is just the best walk ever, Mom!

Because those come with treats, you know.

Mom was bending over to give me a treat after I posed for her, and her camera took a bunch of pictures of me all on it’s own as I was rushing in to get my reward. It made Mom laugh.

Anyway by the time we headed back to the car mom was sweating through her cloths and I was pretty warm too. It was only 73 F, (22.7C) but it felt a lot hotter!

Slow and steady up the hills, that’s the way Mom and I do it.

Mom made sure I got lots of drinks. All I had to do was look at her and she pulled my water right out of her pack. She carries more stuff for me than for her when we go on adventures! That’s cause I tip well.

Mom brings treats AND water for me !

Mom said I did really good this morning following directions while she got her summer shots for her challenge. She says she’s not showing those to you yet..she still has to get fall, and then she’ll tell you all about it.

Mom thinks this is her favorite image from this adventure.

Mom and I are an artistic team, and I’m an excellent model. I personally think she should set me up with a 401K and vacation days. It seems only fair as I’m doing all the work.

I stop at this stump and sniff it every time we go down this hill. It’s where all the boys leave me pee-mail. I never stop at it on the way back up the hill, cause that would be redundant.

What do you think? You can leave me your opinions and suggestions in the comments. And just for the record, I get more comments on my posts than any that mom writes. Just more evidence of my value as an employee. Maybe I should negotiate for health insurance too.


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Youngster has a lot to learn

Oh…you thought this would be about Penny? Well…it is true she has a lot to learn. But so does her mom.

The view from my chair. Is that a very large hummingbird?

But no, this isn’t about her. This time anyway.

“Maybe there’s something good under here.”

No it’s about birds, which I guess is my second most frequent type of post.

“I can’t fit my beak in that hole!”

But the young birds are visiting now and some of them missed the memo about which feeder is meant for them.

“Maybe up here.”

On the other hand, it’s possible this young male was just making a point that we shouldn’t be segregationists, even with our bird feeders.

“I think there was a tasty ant right here yesterday.”

Regardless of what he was thinking, or not thinking more likely, I hope he got something sweet to eat!

“Hey lady. I’d like to return this to the chef and order a little suet, please?”


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Abundance

It’s that time of year again, when everything seems to be blooming all at once.

Though May is my favorite month, full of promise and hope of a bountiful summer, July runs a close second just because it’s the middle of summer.

I took a wander around the yard today and realized just how much stuff in my gardens was blooming.

On a warm sunny day with big white puffy clouds everything looks perfect.

And I realize I love being retired so that I can take a leisurely walk around the yard and discover blooms hiding among the foliage.

Stuff, that in the old days of working long hours far from home, I would have missed, only noticing spent blossoms way too late.

So today I savor my freedom and the beauty of a warm summer day. And I’m sharing it all with you.

I hope you’ve enjoyed the mini tour of my gardens. Have a wonderful day in your part of the world!


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Father/daughter lunch

Walking through the living room this week I noticed two hairy woodpeckers on the feeder. That’s unusual. We don’t get hairy woodpecers often, and when we do it’s always a single bird chowing down.

Adult male hairy woodpeckers (similar but bigger than downy woodpeckers) have a red spot on the back of their heads.

I stopped to watch, from across the room so as not to startle the. Sure enough, one of them was a youngster, eating away happily while dad was on the other side of the feeder…

The young one enjoys a succulant oiler as dad eats on the other side of the feeder.

…but happily accepting a special morsal from dad when he offeres it.

This time of year seeing parents cater to their teenage, soon to be adult, children is pretty common. They don’t seem to notice that their kids are eating just fine and on their own when they’re not being waited on.

Can you see the love in dad’s eyes as he feeds his youngster?

I’m glad I happened to wander past their special time together when I did.

That was a good seed, wasn’t it!

Note: I’m not sure if the kid is a boy or a girl. There’s no red spot on the back of it’s head which leads me to think it’s a girl…but there IS a spot just above the beak and I don’t know what that means. If you know, please comment below!


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Another boyfriend?

Hi everybody! It’s me, Penny!

You know there are three boy dogs in my neighborhood that walk by my driveway almost every day. Personally I think they do that just to catch a glimpse of beautiful me.

These are a couple of my neighborhood boyfriends.

And I have had a couple playdates with Lance, a very handsome sheltie-boy who is about six months older than me. I think he likes me too.

I’m kinda sweet on my boyfriend, Lance, too.

And just this week mom arranged for me to meet Levi, a four year old sheltie who lives about an hour away from me.

This is my boyfriend Levi! Isn’t he a handsome boy?

Levi and I met at a fenced in dog playground in his neighborhood. The moms picked the coolest day of the week because, as you know, shelties are always wearing a heavy coat.

It’s so much fun to run free!

At first Levi and I weren’t sure about each other. He wasn’t sure he wanted me in his territory, and I wasn’t sure I wanted to be there either. He’s a lot bigger than me!

He can’t catch me! Well, he wasn’t really trying to catch me…

In fact mom said this is the first time I looked small!

Something smells good under here. Plus there’s shade.

But eventually, when mom broke out the frissbee we started to have some fun. Levi just loved my frissbee and I chased him while he chased it.

Levi has a beautiful coat!

After a little bit of running around we settled in a corner where there was some shade. Even at 68 degrees it was pretty hot. While the moms were talking I’d sort of peek around from behind mom’s legs and get Levi’s attention.

Time for some shade and a drink!

Then I’d race off and hide behind the slide and just dare him to chase me. Yep, I pretended I didn’t want to play and then I’d egg him on. I’m very skilled at being a tease.

Ha ha, got you to run Levi!

We didn’t run around too much, because of the heat, but we’re going to get together again when it’s cooler outside.

Running is just the best fun!

When we meet again we’ll be more comfortable, cause we’ll already know each other. Levi’s mom says he went home and took a nap. I went home and bugged my parents for the rest of the day.

Catch me if you can, Levi!

I guess I got a little wound up.

Thanks, Levi, for inviting me to play at your park!

Talk later, your most alluring sheltie-girl, ruler of all boy dogs…

Penny.