I wasn’t ready to go home after I visited the Veterans’ Cemetery, so I headed over to a park I don’t get to very often.

I thought maybe I’d wander the trails a bit and see what was there. But when I arrived I was drawn, as usual, to the pier that runs out into the small lake.

It was a cold day, still grey, but I was having fun using the wide angle lens, and that kept me from noticing the cold for awhile.

I took several wide shots of the scenery, but noticed a lot of smaller stuff I thought was interesting, so once I got the big picture out of the way I went back to the car to warm up and change the lens.

Mostly I was interested in the weed and grass reflections in the still, frozen water alongside the pier.

I particularly liked this clump of grass.

And these curves had me too.

I spent a long time out there on the pier, so I didn’t get to the trails. That’s my excuse anyway.

You see, Katie and I used to come here once in awhile and walk the trails…and as I looked toward the woods where we had explored I knew I wasn’t ready to go back without her.

She would have loved the cold, and would fit right in with all the reddish browns I saw that day.

Sure do miss my girl.
January 14, 2023 at 1:21 pm
Looks like another beautiful day at Rose Oaks. There are no dull days there
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January 14, 2023 at 1:38 pm
I know. Should go back out today while there is SUN!!!
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January 14, 2023 at 1:26 pm
I love reflections, and it’s interesting what you can see when you really study things as simple as grasses. Great photos!
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January 14, 2023 at 1:43 pm
The curving grass was so pretty reflected in the water and ice.
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January 14, 2023 at 1:37 pm
The grasses and their reflections are beautiful, and I know what you mean about familiar places without a former beloved companion. Hugs! Glad you got out with your camera, though.
I was just finishing up this comment when I received an e-mail with a comment from you for my blog! It isn’t easy, this grief thing, but we just keep going, one foot in front of the other, day by day.
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January 14, 2023 at 1:44 pm
It’s the best we can do. And a tribute to them that we move through it slowly and with intention.
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January 14, 2023 at 2:22 pm
Doggone it, now my eyes are leaking! I miss Katie, too, and can perfectly understand why tackling the trails isn’t going to come easy. You’ll get there! One day, you’ll be drawn in and the memories will wash over you … and you’ll smile. I know it feels hard now, but grief takes take. Another warm, fuzzy pup will help … but don’t rush that either. In the meantime, you’ve got some great shots (and I, too, would’ve been drawn to the pier!)
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January 14, 2023 at 4:28 pm
Some days are better than others, but every day I miss her.
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January 14, 2023 at 7:34 pm
Of course you do! I still miss Dallas … every single day … and he’s been gone nearly 3 years now.
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January 15, 2023 at 9:58 am
😦
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January 14, 2023 at 3:28 pm
You got some great weedy reflections! Katie is still with you just differently:)
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January 14, 2023 at 4:29 pm
I know she’s here, but I could sure use a sloppy kiss or two.
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January 14, 2023 at 3:31 pm
I’m smiling just picturing the little Princess reminding us of how pretty she looks and, of course, the ‘one picture one treat’ clause in her contract. Katie had all of us so well-trained. Your photography is outstanding, Dawn. Katie would have noticed that, too. Especially the pictures with her in them. 💕
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January 14, 2023 at 4:30 pm
Yes, she always like posing in the fall and winter, because everything matched her. She liked things to be all about her. I didn’t mind humoring her.
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January 14, 2023 at 3:42 pm
Absolutely beautiful photos and reflections!
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January 14, 2023 at 4:30 pm
Thank you!
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January 14, 2023 at 5:50 pm
Oh yes, those colors would be a perfect backdrop for Katie~girl.
These grey days can seem so bleak and depressing, but you always seem to be able to find some beauty.
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January 14, 2023 at 6:07 pm
We got sunshine today! Sure it was really cold…but it was sunny!!
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January 14, 2023 at 6:18 pm
Aren’t there 50 shades of grey?
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January 14, 2023 at 6:25 pm
So they say.
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January 14, 2023 at 6:19 pm
I’m sorry to read that Katie isn’t here. Sending hugs and prayers for comfort knowing she loved you too.
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January 14, 2023 at 6:26 pm
She crossed the Rainbow Bridge June 7 of last year. She fought kidney disease for a year, but in the end was so unhappy we had to set her free. I miss her every single day.
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January 14, 2023 at 7:14 pm
Shelties love brisk weather. I like how the colors reminded you of Katie.
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January 14, 2023 at 9:03 pm
That’s true, the colors remind me of her no matter where I look in the fall and winter. That’s sort of a good thing, I know.
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January 14, 2023 at 11:40 pm
I like photo #5 best. Well, except maybe for that last photo. Except I like Katie photos best.
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January 15, 2023 at 9:59 am
Me too.
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January 15, 2023 at 6:13 am
Sometimes the gray day will allow us to see things and notice things we wouldn’t on a sunny day. I love these images. Beauty in nature
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January 15, 2023 at 10:00 am
It was fun to be out there doing nature stuff photography again.
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January 15, 2023 at 11:37 am
Aww, Dawn, I miss seeing your Katie-girl too. She seemed to enjoy her walks to the very end. My Aero couldn’t handle my past paced walks in his last year, so I put him in the stroller for longer walks, which he loved, or I would take him for a short walk down our street and then hand him back to his dad.
Your images of gray are beautiful–gray is a great backdrop for art as you say. The image of the marsh with the gray backdrop and white ice is stunning in its simplicity. I added this post to my Sunday Stills white and gray color challenge if you don’t mind!
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January 15, 2023 at 8:37 pm
I thought about a stroller for her but husband bought a wagon. We didn’t get her trained to sit in it, she was able to do shorter walks up till the day she left me.
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January 15, 2023 at 12:12 pm
Dawn, your images are magical. I love the marsh!
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January 15, 2023 at 1:17 pm
The park offered many macro opportunities. I liked the clump of grass, too. Thank you for sharing Dawn.
I understand the hurt of loss being too raw to walk in the woods without Katie. I miss seeing her here, too.
It is with great sadness that I share this news. On Dec 29, I lost Gracie. She had been her happy, hoppy, smiling , rambunctious, puppy self that morning. When she was overcome with happiness should would jump straight up on all fours. Gracie had breathing issues late morning. I thought she was having a panic/anxiety attack as we had gone to the groomer that morning. Gracie was panting and trembling – nothing I could do would calm her. I took her to the vet. They diagnosed congestive heart failure. We had just been there for her annual the week before along with 3 other visits since Sep. seeing multiple vets in the practice. Her heart condition was undiagnosed.
I could have taken her the ER vet hosp…my vet made sure that we could be seen by a cardiologist. However, Gracie‘s situation was so dire that they did not think that she would make thru the night. The ER would have given her oxygen and IV fluids. My vet said that that even that would not make much of a difference and I would have a $4K bill. We decided that I would take Gracie home with meds – maybe against odd things would turn around. Sadly, Gracie was gone by the time we got home. My heart is broken.
Gracie turned 13 in August and had no ongoing health issues. I am still in shock that things happened so fast. She was fine in the morning…gone that evening. Like Chloe, my first Westie, who passed away at 13 1/2, Gracie left on her own terms, saving me from having to make a decision for her.
I talk to Gracie as if she was still physically here. She was my little shadow – always by my side or nearby to keep a watchful eye on me. I was so blessed to have her in my life. I know she is here with me – I can feel her presence. Eventually my heart will heal and be ready for a little girl Westie pup.
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January 15, 2023 at 8:40 pm
I am SO sorry to read this about your Gracie. How traumatic. Katie had been doing well till the last few months when she’d have good and bad days, so we knew. Making the decision was gut wrenching. But at least I had a few days to memorize her and say goodbye. I’m so sorry. Sending you hugs.
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January 16, 2023 at 7:30 am
Thank you so much, Dawn.
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January 15, 2023 at 3:40 pm
Your post is poignant, especially for those of us who have lost pets recently. I’m so sorry for your loss. Your pictures are hauntingly familiar. They seem so similar to a place in CA that we visited this spring – only cold and gray. I hope you feel better as you keep active as you heal.
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January 16, 2023 at 9:49 am
I’d love to see the California version! Especially if it’s not cold and grey! 🙂 I do try to stay active, though sometimes that’s hard because I end up at places she and I loved, and I see her everywhere. She will always be my girl. Grinning and spinning and leaping to catch snowballs, or walking through leaves that got stuck in her fur, or running with the wind blowing her fur, or cocking her head at me if I forgot to bring her treats. We were a team, but she got to be team leader. Always a princess.
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January 17, 2023 at 12:28 pm
Sweet! My girl is everywhere on my blog, Her name is Kalev. She’s the one with the ears. My others were cats. In CA we had a million of them because we lived in the country. Now we keep our cat inside where she is safe and secure on the back of the couch, bed or in her cat tree by the window. Your fur baby sounds like the perfect teammate-always ready to go!
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January 17, 2023 at 5:23 pm
Yes she was. I’ll go check out your blog.
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January 17, 2023 at 5:36 pm
What a cute pup!!
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January 17, 2023 at 7:49 pm
Thanks!
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January 20, 2023 at 8:19 pm
What beautiful choices and photos….I think they’d fit well with this coming Sundays theme of silence.
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January 22, 2023 at 3:01 pm
Thank you. It WAS pretty quiet out there that day.
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