Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.

We can’t stop now

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Long time readers know that my dad was killed by a tired trucker almost twenty years ago and I and members of my family volunteer with the Truck Safety Coalition, working to make our roads safer.

My dad and me many years ago.

TSC is based in Washington DC, but has families of volunteers all across the country. Of course it does, because truck crashes aren’t restricted to ‘somewhere else’ like we all want to believe.

Truck crashes happen anywhere and to anyone.

Flags at half mast for Senator Feinstein.

It takes money to keep our organization going, to pay our small staff, to help families come to DC for conferences or important meetings, to pay for grief counseling for those that want that help, to run the website that provides information to new families, and where we post our stories about the loved ones we lost and about the lives changed forever for those injured in crashes with trucks.

It takes money.

And it’s not so easy to raise money for our cause. Organizations that might have sympathy for our families, like truck part manufacturers, can’t be seen associating with us, because many of the truck companies they sell parts to are so often on the other side of our arguments. Trailer manufacturers sell to truck companies too and steer clear of us, as do some road safety equipment manufacturers and many others.

It’s hard to explain that we aren’t anti truck, we support safe trucking. It’s important to remember that truck drivers die in crashes too, and that driving a truck is one of the most dangerous jobs in our country.

The halls of Congress where we look for support for safety.

A lot of our funding comes from individuals who have had family or friends injured or killed as well as survivors of truck crashes. The people that have already paid the price for unsafe policies and regulations continue to pay in an effort to make things better.

Every single family will tell you they continue to tell their stories, continue to come to meetings, continue to donate because they don’t want another family to experience a truck crash. Every single family comes to TSC with the same wish in their hearts.

To make it stop.

The Washington Monument during a walk after our event.

The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration says that over 5,700 people died in truck related crashes in 2021, the latest year from which we have data. That’s a 71% increase since 2009. Truck crashes are trending the wrong way. More people are being killed every year. And injuries are going up too, over 155,000 are injured every year.

Think about that. Every single year 155,000 people are injured in truck crashes. Ford Field, home of the Detroit Lions, has 65,000 seats. Every year 2.3 football stadiums of people are injured in truck crashes. And the numbers keep climbing.

So this past weekend my husband and I traveled, on our own dime, to DC where we attended an evening of celebration of those that have contributed to TSC. Donors, safety advocates, board members, friends and supporters gathered together to recognize some very special people who, during this past year, have gone above and beyond to move our mission to make our roads safer going forward.

All waiting for something. Just like us.

It was a good evening and we raised some money. We felt warm and happy with our effort, but don’t think I won’t be asking you for support this November during Giving Tuesday. Because 5,700+ people died in 2021, and it will likely be a larger number for 2022 and 2023. Whole football stadiums of people are being injured. We can’t stop now.

Congresswoman Eleanor Holmes Norton graciously speaks to our group.

Thank you in advance for supporting me, for the dollars you donate whenever I ask, for your emotional support when I’m having a meltdown, or when I’m just missing my dad. Thank you for letting me get on my soapbox once in awhile, and for not turning away when I tell you about really sad things that make me (and many of you) really angry.

The Capitol at the end of another busy day.

Last weekend was a time of celebration, but now it’s time to get back to work. We’re trying to get the speed limiter past the finish line at the DOT, and we’re working on getting Automatic Emergency Brakes in all trucks sooner rather than later. And don’t get me started on the minimum liability insurance issue. Or those companies that want longer trailers, and the ability to haul heavier loads. There are already triple trailers on some of our nation’s roads and we’re keeping watch so they don’t get permission to move onto more.

Passing a triple trailer truck on the Pennsylvania turnpike.

We need to keep holding our fingers in the truck safety dike. And we need money to do that.

Flowers from our event, simple yet beautiful.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

12 thoughts on “We can’t stop now

  1. Keep telling the tale, Dawn. I imagine you’ll have days of feeling like you’re banging your head against a concrete wall, but some worthwhile causes like truck safety are going to take time to resolve. In the meantime, did you hear about the crash (https://khqa.com/news/local/effingham-county-coroner-provides-information-on-chemical-leak-fatalities-in-teutopolis) near my part of the state? Such a sad, sad story.

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    • Thank you for the link. Yes, we knew about this crash, and have called all the victims for whom we have found family names. This article says the truck driver died, we had thought he was one of the people in ICU. The truck company is small, the owner seems to be on the school board. I’m sure he is reeling too, especially if the truck driver died, as that was his son. The whole thing is very sad.

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  2. Years ago, years ago, southbound on Interstate 5 here in Washington State, just north of Marysville, WA, I watched a semi-truck in front of me wander, wander, wander, lane to lane to lane, and then pull off into an exit lane and then run over, at full speed, a car in front of the semi truck. I stopped, immediately. Pulled over onto the edge of the freeway, and walked up to … sigh, I still have trouble with this … walked up to “the accident”. The parents and two kids in the car were killed, smashed by the semi. When I got there, less than two minutes after it happened, that truck driver was bent over by the side of the off-ramp crying and screaming and vomiting. I held him for awhile until other people joined and offered to hold him, so I moved on. And I stayed to report to the police. And then I walked back down to the freeway edge and got in my car and drove on, with tears the whole way home … for that family, and their family, but also for that truck driver and his family. His heart and his life was torn to shreds. Later, the driver of the semi admitted he had fallen asleep. I send money, Dawn, bet your bottom dollar. I really truly appreciate your posting about this on your blog.

    I love the last photo of yours on this blog post.
    Peace.

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    • What a horrible experience for you, Ann. We know one set of truck drivers (husband and wife) who are emotionally damaged because they saw something similar. They were stopped in traffic in their semi behind a car when they were hit from behind by another semi so hard they were pushed up and over that car. Everyone in the car died. Truck drivers are also victims of a system that forces them to drive longer and faster just to earn a living. On the other hand we have some truck companies that have the numbers to prove that safety can be profitable. If we can just get that message out to everyone. Anyway. Thank you for all your support. It means a lot to me.

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  3. Oh, Dawn, you did a great job putting together what must have been a painful post to write. By all means, count on us in November! The work your group does is important for everyone!

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  4. It’s easy to donate money. It’s you and the other families who are doing the hard stuff. I’m grateful for all of you.

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    • I think those who are doing the absolutely hardest stuff are the parents who have kids that were killed or injured in a semi crash. There are so many layers of grief there, especially if they were driving, or were in the car with their child and survived. Spouses are pretty hard to grasp too…actually you’re right. It’s all hard.

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