
…and after:



…and after:


My husband and I have a 94 year old aunt who is doing really well living alone but who is needing a bit more assistance with things as her eyes begin to fail. This winter is becoming increasingly long as she can no longer see enough to drive and even reading is difficult. So her life revolves around television, phone conversations and visits from family and friend.
Often when I visit I go downstairs with her to get her mail and I see the disappointment when all that emerges from her box are junk mail fliers and the inevitable bills for health insurance and her phone. Though rarely is there anything interesting in her mailbox, she continues to hope and this is where the Valentine Conspiracy comes in. I have contacted almost all her family members, by phone and email, suggesting that we all send her a valentine this year…independently and “spontaneously” spread over the entire week…even going into next week. It doesn’t matter if they arrive late; what matters is that they arrive.
So far the response has been wonderful. Everyone says they will send her one. This could amount to a dozen or more valentines arriving in her mailbox. When she wasn’t really expecting anything. I hope she smiles as she opens them, smiles as she reads them, and smiles later on when she sees them piled beside her chair. Such a simple thing, so easy to generate a smile, so important to take that bit of time to make it happen.
So of course my message is that everyone can take a moment and look around. Is there someone you know and love who might be having a difficult time with the long winter? Who is a bit lonley? Perhaps home bound? Who feels perhaps that there isn’t much to look forward too? Doesn’t matter how old or young they are; if you know someone that could use a lift, send a valentine this week.
It’s only Tuesday, there’s plenty of time.

One of the new doggie household rules is that Katie’s toys are not available to her unless we give her something to play with. She doesn’t get to chose out of a basket like she did before. This is supposed to help us be Masters of the House. As opposed to her. Katie doesn’t like the new rule at all.

Today I gave Katie the toy that Ludo sent her. Katie hadn’t seen it in a very long time; a couple of months anyway. So she was very excited, it was almost like it was brand new to her!

It’s very hard to photograph an exchited Sheltie and her toy. But here’s my attempt:








After so much play she was exhausted. And a bit disheveled.

And we put the toy away to wait for another day. Thanks Ludo!

We’ve been challenged by the Key West Collies Essex and Deacon (http://keywestcollies.blogspot.com/) to come up with ten things Katie loves. I think we’ll try to come up with ten things Katie loves about going to school.

1. Treats. Lots and lots and lots of treats. Fresh chicken. Roast beef. Cheese. Yum!
2. The car ride to school. With the windows down so she can get a breeze in her face.
3. The place all the doggies go pee. Such lovely fresh smells!
4. Doggie butts. Need I say more?
5. Ignoring her mama and vacuuming the floor for any spare treats anyone else dropped. Just in case.
6. Looking at herself in the mirror. Because she’s such a princess you know.
7. Making goo goo eyes at that little brown aussie named Charlie.
8. Jumping. Over any kind of jumps those silly humans can devise.
9. Tunnels. Oh tunnels are soooo much fun!
10. Getting told how pretty she is. In case she didn’t already know.
I’m supposed to ask ten of our closest dog friends to think about 10 things they love…but I don’t think I have ten dog friends that haven’t already been asked by Essex and Deacon…so if any of you want to jump at the chance to share your favorite things…well, Katie and I would enjoy reading about them!

The story is that my mom was very pregnant with my sister on dad’s birthday and she didn’t feel up to making a cake. So she made him meatloaf and “frosted” it with mashed potatoes. My sister was born the next day. I think my sister was actually Dad’s best birthday present ever. Even if she was one day late.
Happy birthday sweetie! I know you’re having a good day today substituting for a band director in middle school. How cool is that! Didn’t we always want to be the leader of the band? Well, today, on your birthday, you get to actually do it! That has just got to be something that was meant to be. Have fun!
And I want to hear all about it tonight!

We don’t get out that much but my husband and I went to see Avatar last night. It’s not my usual (romantic comedy) fare, but I thought we should see what all the buzz was about. And the chance to see something in 3D and on an IMAX big screen was too good to miss.
It’s a visually stunning film that just starts. None of the usual title scenes with the names of actors, no lion roaring at the beginning to tell you that the movie is about to begin. In fact I thought at first we were watching a trailer for some other movie. Because all the bits I’d seen on TV were of the blue Avatars and this was some sort of space craft with real actors. But eventually I figured out I was watching the feature film.
Many things in the movie reminded me (and my husband) of other events or movies. When the huge tree which had been their home came crashing down in flames after being attacked from the air, I saw horror in the Avatars’ eyes just like the horror in New Yorkers’ eyes when the twin towers fell. When they rode their horses into battle I saw just a bit of Brave Heart and when the old leader of the clan handed off his bow and arrow to his daughter as he lay dying I saw a piece of Lion King. My husband remarked after that some of it reminded him of the Custer’s last stand, when individual bands of Indians gathered together to fight.
It was a visually stunning film. But I knew I was going to be in trouble early on when the main characters ran and jumped and fell among the jungle and I felt the first twinges of motion sickness. I don’t know if it was the 3D or the IMAX experience, or maybe all that in combination with lots of flying off of cliffs and along waterfalls, but I was swallowing hard and staring at my feet, hand pressed against my mouth, silently counting how many laps I would have to climb over in a rush for the bathroom during most of the movie. And it’s a long movie.
In the end I listened to it with brief peeks from under my eyelashes. Nice music! I got the story, enjoyed what small pieces of it I got to see and would recommend anyone without a propensity to motion sickness to go see it.
And the rest of you? Maybe take a Dramamine first!

It’s sunny today and already 13 degrees out! Can’t waste a perfectly beautiful Saturday. So I asked …”Hey Katie…wanna play Frisbee?
Well, like any good young Sheltie she was immediately up for it. She hopped around so much it was hard to put her leash on. And once outside and off the leash…well…it was time for CRAZY DOG! She could hardly stand it until I threw the frisbee the first time. Then she ran as fast as she could, heading across the snow covered yard. With the sun in her eyes she didn’t catch the frisbee, which caused her to growl at it. But she brought it right back to me without her “victory lap” that she usually takes around me before she’ll hand it off. This time she wanted me to throw it right away. So I did.
Do you see her waaaaay out there?

Here she comes!

Throw it again Mom! Throw it again!

Silly girl.

It’s 7 degrees out this morning. But the sun is shining and in the front of the house there is little wind. And Katie was going nuts inside. So I got the board out and we started working on getting her to go UP the slope. I started with it flat on the driveway, butted up against the front porch’s two steps. No problem. She’ll run back and forth all happy, eager for her treat.
I slipped one end up on the first step which is really low. No problem, she runs back and forth, leaping up onto the porch and grinning.
I slipped the end up to the top step. She ran down it just like always, turned around and ran back up it before she realized it was higher. YEA!!! I gave her LOTS of treats. She ran back down. Got a treat. Turned around and balked. Silly girl. You just did this!
Finally got her to go up half the board, jumping on from the middle…then a bit later she accidently ran up all of it, eager for the treat. YEA!!!! I gave her LOTS of treats. Then she balked again.
Sigh.
After much tempting she sort of just said “oh what the heck” and ran up the board, turned around and basically said: “OK, is THAT WHAT YOU WANT MOM?!” She got LOTS of treats.
Then we went inside before she had a chance to balk again. And to warm up my fingers. We’ll try again later this afternoon. They expect we’ll get to a high of 17. Heat wave.






More than a week ago I was able to attend a collage concert in Ann Arbor; a concert that celebrated the entire Music and Theater departments at the University of Michigan. Bits and pieces of all the works done in the departments were presented one after another with no applause between. The lighting moved rapidly from place to place on the stage and always where the spotlight fell groups of artists or a single performer began to share their talents with us. A concert band, jazz ensembles, a single cello player, a saxophone quartet, the cast of Evita, modern dancers, Shakespearean actors, the university symphony, a chamber choir, a group of woodwind players dressed in big hats and giant bow ties, three marimba players. It went on and on yet it seemed to only last a moment. A minute of this, three minutes of that, classical followed immediately by popular. Talent flowing everywhere.
My favorites? The slim woman who made magic while playing Rachmaninov on a grand piano. The audience gave a collective sigh when she finished. And for sheer fun, the four euphonium players who did a piece in the pitch black of a stage without light. At first I, and probably everyone, thought the lighting people had made a mistake when music began and no light illuminated the players. I worried that they had the beginning memorized but would have to wind down as the seconds passed and still no light appeared. Eventually it became obvious this had been planned to be presented without light. Still I couldn’t relax, worried that somehow this was not right! But before it ended I realized what a gift it was to listen to music in the dark with no distractions from sight.
This past weekend I had the opportunity to go back to Ann Arbor and listen to the Ann Arbor Symphony play. It was the tenth anniversary of the symphony’s maestro and a celebration of Mozart. I learn something each time I attend an Ann Arbor Symphony performance. I learned this week that Mozart wrote music for smaller numbers of musicians, so on this evening the symphony was much smaller, more intimate. As usual they played wonderfully, from the first piece, Divertimento No. 1 for Strings in D Major, which was written when Mozart was sixteen to the third and last piece written, but not completed by Mozart because he died before it was finished, Requiem in D minor.
I have to say I enjoyed the first piece the most; it was light and airy and fun and I could envision a young Mozart throwing it together as a kid, proving his genius. I also enjoyed the second movement of the second piece, Horn Concerto No. 3 in E-flat Major, a piece Mozart wrote for a friend who played French Horn. The second movement is so melodic, and was done beautifully by the guest soloist Andrew Pelletier. I was not looking forward to the Requiem, it’s not my favorite piece. But I have to say I was overwhelmed by the beauty of the choir assembled for the performance. Three choirs, all from high schools sang together. I counted over 130 members and the sound just soared in the acoustically perfect Hill Auditorium. The kids were amazing and the packed 5,000 seat auditorium was transfixed.
Two events filled with talent. You have to have hope for the future when you are priviledged to listen to such beauty.