Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.


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There’s hope

Have I complained here about our local grocery store’s lack of customer service? I know I’ve complained about it plenty on Facebook.

When we first moved to this little rural town back in 1992 we had to drive over 6 miles to a grocery store. I know that doesn’t seem like much, but one of the routes took you over the same railroad tracks 3 times, and back then there were no crossing gates which made me nervous.

I used to think about whether I really needed whatever I was out of before I’d make the trip.

Then a few years after we moved here a big brand new grocery store was built only 2 miles away. And I didn’t have to cross the railroad! I was thrilled! The new employees seemed thrilled! 

Life was good.

But over the years the employees have become unhappy, complaining bitterly about their hours, their breaks, who’s working where, who got what shift, when they get to leave, who’s on break…it’s never ending. I really don’t want to hear it while I’m getting my groceries scanned and bagged. 

And since Covid there’s no employees to bag the groceries, so I end up doing that myself. I’m a really bad bagger.

And most of the time there’s no cashiers either, the store forcing everybody to go through the self scanners, even with full carts. They even installed a couple of the self scanners with long chutes down to the bags so you have room to do big orders. Of course that doesn’t work well because after you scan it all you still have to go down there to bag and by the time you do that the next person is sending their groceries down the chute. 

Routinely only one set of self scanners is open, they don’t have enough employees to man both sets. So that means there are a total of 3 self scanners, plus two with long shoots for big orders and most of the time no human cashier. 

It’s a big store, lots of people shop there. I have no idea why.

The lines are long to use the self checking stations, often half way down the aisles. If there’s a checkout person working the lines there are even longer. I’ve tried different times of the day, tried evening shopping, tried middle of the day, middle of the week. It doesn’t matter. There’s never adequate staffing at this store, and those that are there are the most unhappy people I’ve ever met.

The last time I stood in a line with more than 10 people ahead of me, just to self scan a few items, I decided enough was enough. When I got home I logged into their silly survey and told them I’d no longer be shopping there, and don’t bother calling me to explain the shortage of people.

Then I moved my business to the grocery store in town. Same company, worse parking lot, longer drive, more traffic, but the employees are nice! They’re friendly, they’re happy, and they always have at least two cashiers working, and all 12 self scan stations open too. I haven’t been in a line there yet.

And they always thank me for shopping there.

The store is set up differently and it takes me longer to do the shopping, but I’m slowly figuring out where stuff is. Today when I emerged from the aisles a cashier was waiting in front of her empty station. She caught my eye, asked me if I was ready, and when I nodded yes she said “Good! I’ve been waiting for you!” 

We chatted as she rang up my groceries. There still wasn’t a bagger available, so I did that while we talked and she scanned. She asked what I used dried cranberries for, and said the salmon looked good. 

We laughed about something.

I told her I was driving out of my way to come to her store because the people were so friendly and happy. In fact, I said, look at the back of the shirt on the cashier in the next lane! It said “Fresh, Fun, Friendly!” ”Oh she said, that’s our motto!”

Well, that’s the reason I drive all the way here, I told her. She stopped bagging my groceries and looked me in the eye. ”Did you used to shop at the Davisburg Kroger?” 

She nailed it. 

“Yep,” I said. She nodded and said “We get a lot of their customers here.”

Give that woman a raise. Customer service is not dead, and I have hope.

I will drive further, park in a small cramped lot, endure wicked traffic, and smile while bagging my own groceries if someone smiles at me while ringing up my order.

Lesson for Kroger: It doesn’t take a lot to increase your bottom line. All you have to do is keep your employees happy. Management matters.

No doubt about it.


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I miss people

I went to my local lab to have blood drawn for my annual physical today. I arrived a couple minutes before my 9 am. appointment.

The lobby was empty. What used to be the window where an employee sat greeting clients was covered up. There was no sound of human life anywhere. 

I received a text this morning with a link to use to check in when I arrived for my appoint. I dug my phone out of my purse and clicked on the link. 

Nothing happened. I tried again. Nothing.

I looked around the lime green and beige room trying to figure out what to do next and notice the kiosk across the room. The sign on the wall said to check in there. 

Nobody’s here but me.

OK…touch to start. That went well. Then I was supposed to scan my driver’s license face up. An arrow on the screen pointed to the left. There didn’t seem to be any way to scan over there, but I moved my ID around that part of the screen, hoping. Eventually the screen changed and asked me to scan the front of the license.

I did the same nonsensical movements with the license.

Eventually, frustrated I backed up and gave the whole area my attention. Turns out there’s a little shelf under the right corner of the kiosk with a red light. A red light that scans little cards that are placed on the little shelf.

Huh.

Proof of success.

I felt like I was in some sort of futuristic room waiting for an alien to begin testing on me. A few minutes later a Phlebotomist emerged and directed me into the back. She was very good at drawing blood, and friendly too. 

I was secretly relieved she didn’t have an alien head, red eyes or extra long fingers.


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Another year flies by

Somehow we’re headed toward the new year already. Day after tomorrow will be the first day of 2024, and nothing I can do will stop it.

Time is moving so quickly, it’s all a blur.

It hasn’t been easy, 2023, and part of me is happy enough to see it go. But it’s all moving so fast I wonder, if in a week or so, I’ll be welcoming 2025. 

We all need to spend more time sitting still and listening.

It seems I blink and whole months have evaporated. I’m almost afraid to blink again.

Here’s hoping 2024, an election year in the US, encourages us to work together rather than against each other, helps us find new ways to connect with each other, and highlights the good inside so many of us.

Santa has headed back to the North Pole, now it’s on each of us to find our own joy.

I am hoping. But maybe I should just blink us into 2025.

We can hope.

Happy New Year everyone. I’ll see you in 2024. 


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I’ve been busy!

Hi there, it’s me, Penny!

Boy I bet you’ve been wondering where I’ve been! I know I’m probably the most important concern on your minds all the time, and in the interest of getting you to relax, I’ll bring you up to date on my adventures.

Me in my chariot.

There have been plenty.

Since it’s the holiday season I guess I should start out with my walk a week or so ago. I got to go to a park with my friend Whisky and his mom. (And my mom came too.) There were Christmas lights everywhere!

My friend Whisky-Roo and his mom.

There were lots of people and their dogs walking around and I was a pretty good girl about not barking at stuff. Even when people came out of the dark and startled me.

Sometimes I get worried that Mom isn’t paying attention to all the people walking by when she’s taking pictures.

Mom said it was pretty hard to get pictures of me looking at her cause there was so much other stuff for me to look at!

We spend way too much time sitting in front of stuff when we should be walking, Mom!

Then this week mom took me to Davis Lake Overlook Park, which is near my house. I’ve only been there one time before, and that time we walked in a different part of the park.

I think we should go down the yellow trail, Mom.

So on this walk everything was new to me. Boy I had fun sniffing. I’d go from one side of the trail to the other, nose always to the ground.

I feel like I’m wearing camouflage, Mom!I blend right in!

Mom said I did very good not being scared of being in the woods. When I was a little girl the big trees kinda scared me, but I’m a big girl now, and a lot braver.

Mom asks me to sit in front of stuff all the time.I think she needs to have an intervention.

Then guess what? My Uncle P. came to visit us! It was his first visit since I moved in. He’s so much fun! I liked him right away. A couple days ago he and Mom took me back to Davis Lake Overlook and we walked on a completely different trail there. 

My Uncle Paul.

Part of it even Mom had never been on before! Mom says she might rename this park Penny’s Park. I think that’s an excellent idea.

I stay very focused on mom. When she says “OK!” I’m going in for my treat, yes sirree!

Mom says she’s still thinking about it. She says change is hard.

I think this is an excellent park and should definitely be named for me.

Anyway, we had a great walk even though it was foggy and cold. I didn’t mind that a bit of course. 

I gave her my best pose down by this little pond.It’s my Christmas present to her.

I loved walking with Mom and Uncle P. They thought they’d be wearing me out so I’d be calmer when we got home. But the joke was on them - I wanted to play, play, PLAY when we got back. 

They, on the other hand, needed a nap.

Never underestimate a Penny.

Silly people. They should know by now you can’t wear an Unstoppable Pretty Penny out!

Hee, hee.

Well, I might have taken a LITTLE nap.

Talk later, it’s time for me to go open my Christmas present, your Unstoppable Girl, Penny.


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Remembering

Nineteen years ago today my family suffered an unimaginable loss when our dad was killed by a sleepy semi driver while driving to the airport.

It seems like yesterday. It seems like a hundred years ago.

Today we remember and grieve, like we have every day, every year, since December 23, 2004.


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Holiday music is everywhere

My mom used to say she wished the radio stations continued to play Christmas music after Christmas day. Back then you had to be in the same room as the radio in order to hear and she didn’t have time to listen before Christmas morning. She had four kids to shop and wrap for and a big holiday dinner to prepare. 

She didn’t have time to enjoy the season until it was over.

The Clarkston Community Band, pictures from the audience perspective taken by my husband.

I wish she could have attended the concert our Clarkston Community Band played last Friday evening. Pretty lights and lush music shaped our theme of “Let there be Peace.” 

“Bugler’s’Holiday by Leroy Anderson

I don’t think there’s a better way to get in the spirit of the season than to go to a live concert, right in your own community, performed by your friends and neighbors. The musicians might not be professionals (though sometimes they are) and the performance might not be perfect (though sometimes it is) but the spirit is real and the motivation is pure.

Friday night songs like “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year, “White Christmas” and “I’ll be Home for Christmas” got us all into the right mood. When the audience sang along on a medley of Christmas carols I had to stop playing for a moment and just listen to all those voices joined together. 

Pure magic.

Santa waits in the wings

Yep, Friday night we filled that auditorium with love. Toward the end of the show lots of children came up on stage to ring jingle bells as we played “Here Comes Santa Claus” in the hope they could convince Santa to stop in for a visit.  These kids were very convincing, and Santa showed up right on cue. Their faces, when they realized he was standing right behind them, were priceless. 

More magic.

Excitement builds as they hope for the big guy to arrive.

And then Santa conducted our last piece of music, “Sleigh Ride,” because it’ can’t be a holiday concert without a ride through the snow behind prancing horses, even if it’s all only in our imaginations. 

A perfect ending to a perfect evening.

Friday night we all came together for a moment of celebration and peace, even knowing the world is filled with unrest. We all left that night smiling and you can too. This season, check your local high school’s web page. There’s likely a holiday concert or two near you this very week. Please take time from your preparations to support those musicians. They’d love to see a full house and you’ll be glad you went.

I guarantee there will be magic bouncing off those walls.

Happy Holidays to you all.

Penny and I wish you all a peaceful holiday!


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Happy 1st birthday to…..ME!

Hey everybody! It’s me, your birthday girl, Penny! I bet you’ve been wondering where I’ve been, huh?

Keeping track of my birds and squirrels this morning.

Well, mom has been hogging the laptop so I haven’t been able to get on here since my Walktober, and here it is already December! AND it’s my very first birthday!!

Visiting Katie’s park yesterday.

I woke mom up early this morning because I was pretty excited. I’m not exactly sure what I’m supposed to be excited about, but I’m excited. OK. So maybe excited is my normal every single day frame of mind. But still, it’s my birthday!!

“Mom! Is it time to start my birthday yet??”

And look! Mom and Dad got me presents! Dad got me the really cool snake and boy do I like to pounce on it. I pounced on Dad a few times too, just to say thank you. I think he appreciates it almost more than me eating his ankles when he walks by.

I got birthday presents!

Mom got me the pretty purple game! She borrowed one like it from a friend and I loved it, so she bought me one of my very own.

“Stand back, mom, I’ve got this!”

And look! It appears someone stole my likeness to put on the box! Don’t you think that looks like me on there? I think I should get royalties! Or snacks. Maybe just snacks, snacks are good, I don’t even know what royalties are.

“Doesn’t that look just like me?”

Yesterday, to celebrate my upcoming birthday, Mom took me for a walk at my angle sister Katie’s park. The sun was going down and it was cold! Perfect!

“I sit for treats, Mom!”

I give Mom credit, she only said hurry up about a dozen times. I was pretty busy sniffing stuff you know, and she didn’t bring gloves. I told her that was not my problem. But I did sit pretty for her. Many of the pictures in this post are from our walk yesterday.

“You’re gonna need to speed this up, mom, the sun is going down!”

Anyway, today I am 1 year old! Man, what a year, right? From arriving at my forever home in February to going to school and earning my Canine Good Citizen title, to going to the park yesterday, it’s all been marvelous!

Mom and Dad are very proud of me. As they should be.

And it’s so special that I get to see my Mama S, my breeder ,regularly too. I just love Mama S. Why last time I was at her house I learned a new trick! I can now turn off her DVD player! She says I am a little stinker, but I know she’s proud of how smart I am.

“Mama S took this picture of me a couple weeks ago. Mom says I look entitled. Mama S says I AM entitled.

Well, I’ve sure been glad to talk to all of you, but it’s time for my birthday nap now. I hope you all have a wonderful week, and I’ll try to get on more often when Mom’s not looking!

A nap is in order for our birthday girl.

Bye for now,

Your 1 year old Unstoppable Pretty Penny.