Change Is Hard

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Penny says

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Hi everybody! It’s me, your best girl Penny!

Mom gave me permission to write on her blog this time. She says she wasn’t even going to bring this up. And she doesn’t want to talk about it. So now it’s up to me.

You see mom and I have been working really, really hard on obedience. At first I tried my darndest to get her to be more obedient, but that wasn’t working, so I decided maybe I could get more treats if I tried to be more obedient myself.

A girl can grow intellectually even when she’s already full grown physically.

So anyway, mom and I have been practicing in my basement training room and out at a friend’s training barn. I like training a lot. When mom starts chopping up cheese I get all excited and run to the top of the basement stairs, ready to run down to my cheese training room as soon as mom turns the lights on down there.

Then mom and I went to a ‘fun’ run on Sunday, to see if what I am learning would translate to an obedience trial setting. Mom was pretty sure we’d do OK, maybe not perfect, but definitely OK.

Mom was wrong.

I didn’t like the noisy place with all the other dogs and when it was my turn I wanted to run somewhere safe, and I forgot how to heel and I certainly didn’t remember I was supposed to sit when mom stopped. Mom, for her part couldn’t read the signs right and was flustered with my inattention and tripped over her own feet.

And when it came to my recall, when I get to run to mom (I love running to mom) I decided it was safer if I just made myself as small as possible and sat very still. Very very still. On my behind. Not moving.

Even when mom moved closer and offered me cheese.

Mom says she was very discouraged and also worried about me because I was so scared and she felt bad for putting me into a scary situation.

But then!

The next day she took me to the groomer! What was she thinking. After that I got really mad at her and barked at her all the way home.

And then!

We went to my Rally class in my regular building last night and in between running rally courses mom took me to a back room and we heeled enthusiastically and I sat when she stopped and I did three different recalls almost perfectly.

So mom thinks I’m OK and not scared anymore. Which is good because the real obedience trial is this coming Saturday.

Mom says it’s very possible we will still NQ (Not qualify) but she says that’s OK as long as I’m not scared and get used to working in different places. She says this is not a sprint. She says it’s a marathon. I don’t even know what that means.

I’d like to remind mom that I’m still a puppy. (I’m going to milk that concept as long as possible!) And that I love her and daddy and I want to be a good girl. Sometimes I just need more time.

SO… please think about mom and me on Saturday afternoon!

PS: Pictures are stuff mom took of not me in my yard. Silly mom. I’m still the prettiest thing around.

Author: dawnkinster

I'm a long time banker having worked in banks since the age of 17. I took a break when I turned 50 and went back to school. I graduated right when the economy took a turn for the worst and after a year of library work found myself unemployed. I was lucky that my previous bank employer wanted me back. So here I am again, a long time banker. Change is hard.

39 thoughts on “Penny says

  1. Good luck, Penny! Those visitors in your yard, though not as cute as you (of course) are pretty cute. I am sure if Ledecky saw them she would try to get those big spotty “puppies” to play with her…

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  2. Good morning, Miss Penny! Sorry to hear that you got scared. With so much going on that is understandable. Good luck this weekend. Just remember….if your mom is with you all is ok. Sending a loving pat and a kiss on the nose for you and a hug for your mom. 😊

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  3. Penny, I am so sorry you and your mom had such a rough time. Some days are just like that.

    And just between you and me, that last photo in this post is the best one. You look so pretty.

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  4. Sending you heaps of luck for Saturday and, as you know, practice, practice, practice is the only way to get better.

    You sure like to keep you mom on her toes, don’t you?

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  5. best of luck on Saturday. and remember to run fast back to mom.

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  6. Penny, everything takes time…. and you’ll be ready Saturday. You will. In the meantime, enjoy the cheese and do your best.

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  7. Are those your zinnias in the last photo?? Wow, they’re gorgeous (and I almost missed them for the pretty pup posed in front of them!)

    Hang in there, Penny. I know what it’s like to have a fraidy-pup. Poor Monk hides behind me on our walks, even though most of the people and pups we come into contact with are friendly. I don’t think he’d cotton to Rally or Obedience.

    Best of luck for your trial this weekend. Relax and enjoy — you’ll do fine. Just remember, it’s all about the cheese!!

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    • Yep those are zinnias, planted out beside the driveway at the road. When she was a puppy she wasn’t afraid of anything and now everything makes her nervous until she decides it doesn’t. You can’t have treats in the ring during trial…so I have to make her think she’ll get some and hope that lasts long enough to get it all done, then jackpot her after.

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  8. So Penny, when you get to do the blogging, do you choose the photos or does mom? 😉 I enjoyed the choices, whoever made them. I hope the next time you do this it isn’t so scary and that you get lots of cheese! Cheese is the best food group as far as I’m concerned!

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  9. Deer, er … dear Penny – of course you are the prettiest thing around! Was this photo before or after your grooming appointment? You do have to admit that the deer and her fawns and the bird in a smoky sky are also pretty. There are different levels of pretty … ask Mom to explain that to you. Good luck on Saturday. Mom, buy more cheese please!

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    • We’re practicing every day, using cheese. I’m hoping she thinks I have cheese in the ring too. No treats allowed during our run, in the ring. So I need to keep her motivated going in there and throughout, and get it all done before she figures out she’s not getting anything, then jackpot her after we’re out of the ring. It’s tricky. If it doesn’t work that’s ok, there’s always another trial.

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  10. What fun. Makes me wonder about all of us humans and how we sometimes drove our parents crazy with our behavior! Sometimes I think the deer are smarter than we are. Love you Penny … you and your mom will figure it out soon enough. 🙂

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    • This mama deer is definitely smart. Didn’t see her today though. Yes, Penny knows exactly what she’s supposed to do for each of the 5 exercises we have to do to earn a leg in her Beginner Novice title. Whether she feels like doing any of them, we shall see.

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  11. Oh it is a process Miss Penny! I hope for mom’s sake you catch on soon! 🙂 My friend’s dog is going for “smell training” maybe you would like that more.

    Those deer have made your yard their new home it seems!

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    • I plan on letting her try the nosework someday. I kind of want to get through this obedience thing before I add more stuff. I’m not sure how she’ll do at nosework. We’ve noticed she’s not at good at finding stuff on the floor as Katie was. But Katie LOVED that game, Penny might too.

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  12. Penny, you are absolutely the prettiest thing around. Best of luck on Sunday!

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  13. Good luck Penny!! (loved the nature photos!) Tell Mom as long as you are having fun it’s all good……..as soon as it ISN’T fun……tell Mom to just let you be. Love, Levi

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    • I’m hoping she won’t be as scared as she was last Sunday. I think I’ll get her out of her crate more often and let her sniff around and watch the other dogs. She only has to do one run each day, so it’s not like it’s really physically taxing. It’s definitely mentally taxing though.

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  14. Your photos are beautiful! And you girls are very courageous roll models for the rest of us! 💞

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  15. Oh Penny, sounds like you were a bit overwhelmed. I hope that next time is easier for you.

    I know whenever I bring Chewy to a new place, he wants to stand like a statue and just observe for what feels like hours before he will even take a few steps (and then observe again, repeat).

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    • Awwww Chewy. I didn’t realize he was a shy boy. I guess it’s partly the breed. She likes to study stuff too, always has been a student of her world. The trial is tomorrow and Sunday. I am nervous. She is napping. Typical.

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