Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.


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Mama failed miserably at adventure

Katie here.  Mama promised me an adventure this weekend.  She’s been so busy we haven’t done anything fun in forever!

So this morning she said we were going to the park.  I got so excited, running in circles, getting under her feet, running from door to door because I couldn’t figure out what door we were going to use that she forgot to bring my treats!  Failure #1 Mama!

Then we stopped at my favorite park and I was so excited I ran around in circles and got all tangled up and Mama kept saying something about having to pee and I figured she was talking about her so I kept running in circles, winding the leash all around her.  Then I figured out she meant she wanted me to pee, so I did, and then she hustled me back to the car!  What the heck?!  Failure #2 Mama!

So we drove for a long time and finally she parked and got me out of the car.  We were at her favorite park, high up on a hill and it was windy and cold.  Just my kind of weather!  I dragged her down the hill, she kept saying ‘easy….easy’  cause she was afraid of falling – it was really slippery.  When we got to the bottom of the hill I wanted to sniff everywhere, but there was lots of mud and Mama kept saying she was cold.  And she had that stupid camera too, so I didn’t get to sniff around too much.  Failure #3 Mama!  And on top of all of that, this is the only picture of me you’ll see from this” great” adventure.  See our car way up there?

She made me sit up here.  I didn't like it.

She made me sit up here. I didn’t like it.

So Mama bundled me right back in the car again!  I was disgusted.  She drove around some more and then we got out in a more sheltered place and walked for awhile on the bike path.  We saw lots of people out running and walking.  I even got to bark at a couple of cars, but then she yelled at me and made me go back to our car.  Geesh.  Failure #4 Mama!

So all in all this was not that great an adventure.  I think she owes me another one.

What do you think?

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Need a puppy fix.

I was enjoying Sara’s photos of 2 year old Chewy back when he was a puppy.  Aren’t sheltie puppies just the cutest!  I need to dig out some Katie puppy pictures.

It's Mr. Squeaky!

It’s Mr. Squeaky!

Of course most of her very early photos are in a photo album I call Katie’s first year.  Bet you did not know dogs can have baby books!  But there are a few in digital form for me to share.

Mr. Squeaky wore her out.

Mr. Squeaky wore her out.

I think everyone needs a puppy picture once in awhile.  And a puppy AND green grass?  Perfect!

Finding fun anywhere

Finding fun anywhere

Thanks for stopping by!

This is MINE!

This is MINE!

We’re off on our adventure now!

Spring.  Sigh.

Spring. Sigh.


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Saw a pilated woodpecker today!

It was so cool!  Have you ever seen one?  I did not have a camera with me which was a shame, because he was RIGHT THERE and it would have been a great shot.  Here, I’ll find you a picture of one from the web:

woodpeckerI’m sure my photo would have looked just like this.  Of course.

Anyway…isn’t he cool!  He’s quite large, and very distinctive.  You can learn more about him here.

This is the kind of thing I would have called and told my Mom about in the old days.  I’ve seen this bird only twice before; once at her lake house down in Alabama and once up in Northport along the ridge above Lake Michigan.

Since I can’t tell her about it I’m sharing with you.  I know many of you are bird people, so you’ll appreciate how excited I was.

It’s still making me smile.


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Bored

There's nothing to do.

There’s nothing to do.

Katie is bored.  Tomorrow we’re going to school; it’s been two weeks.  I’ve been too busy with music and work to play.  She’s all wound up.  School should be interesting.

Right now she’s barking at me.  She wants to DO SOMETHING!

Sigh...

Sigh…

We already played fetch for what seemed forever.  Till I accidentally threw both her balls at once.  She doesn’t like having to make a choice so that game was over.

Boring.

Boring.

Then her dad has been tossing her one of her stuffies.  That lasted till he threw it too close to the fireplace.  She doesn’t really like the fireplace (it wasn’t there BEFORE Mama!) so that game was over.

So now she’s decided to just stand and bark at us.  In case we can come up with something new and exciting.

Don't want to play with my toys .

Don’t want to play with my toys .

Unfortunately she is the dog of boring parents.

But this weekend I promised her we’d go on an adventure.   Guess I should figure out what that is exactly.  Because she’ll be waiting.

Oh yea.

Wanna play?

Wanna play?


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Looking for hints

Early morning snow.

Early morning snow.

Benjamin and Lassiter’s Mom looked at my Wordless Wednesday photo on the tiny screen of her phone and thought it was geese winging their way north, signifying spring.  Ah well.  Which got me to thinking.  Some of us in the northern reaches of the world wouldn’t mind a hint of spring about now.

This morning I woke to another couple inches of fresh sticky snow with more coming down.  It is pretty  but it is snow.  More snow.  And as much as I know the snow is good for us and our state crops and our lake levels I am beginning to wish for little green sprouts.  I know.  It’s way too early and if things were sprouting or bursting into flower here on the last day of February we’d be in the same predicament we were last year when everything woke too early and then was killed in the next so predictable freeze.

Still.  If you’re in a part of the country where spring is legitimately beginning maybe you could share a bit of it with us?  We like to think of it creeping toward us; town by town, county by county, state by state.  Anticipation is the best part and we will enjoy our own spring so much more if you share some of yours.

What’s happening down south?  Are you enjoying those first warm breezes that smell of new grass and mud?  Do you have peepers in your pond yet?  Have you heard the blackbird sing?

Let us know.  It will make shoveling that sidewalk – again- just a bit easier.

Sticky early morning snow.

Sticky early morning snow.


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Unwinding rant

The latest ‘late winter storm’ is beginning today.  Sleet stung the windows of my office this afternoon and then it turned to snow right at 5 p.m.  Apparently everyone (including me) stood up and left our office and all the surrounding offices at the same time.  It took me over 10 minutes to leave the parking lot, and another 15 to make it the two blocks to the freeway.

Once there it wasn’t much better.  We cruised along at 15 mph – when we were moving.  But I’m OK with that; as long as everyone is moving at the same slow speed we’re all relatively safe.  So now I’m home and I’m going to unwind by talking to you.

Long commute

Long commute

Here’s something I’ve been thinking about.  It seems like many people at work are no longer focused on work.  When I was a kid and had appendicitis (though to be fair they didn’t know it was that) in junior high they wouldn’t call my dad at work after my mom didn’t answer the home phone, because I guess, it would not have occurred to us to bother someone at work.  Especially the dad. But these days I hear phone conversations all around me, people controlling from work every tiny aspect of their family’s lives.  From the grandmother that gets calls from her grown daughters every single morning and often later in the day to discuss the grandchildren’s activities, health, tempers and homework, to the woman on the other side of the wall who has just moved and apparently needs to instruct her husband (I assume a grown man) how to order cable and change the utility bills into their name,who provides detailed instructions to call the paint contractors, the carpet cleaners, the dumpster guy.

Roads get worse

Roads get worse

Is it just the age of cell phones that causes this?  Or is my generation full of helicopter parents who have turned into helicopter grandparents and helicopter spouses?  Is being in constant contact with everyone a good thing?  Or would we live just as productive and fulfilled lives if everyone didn’t feel it imperative to update us all on every single thing that occurs during an entire workday?  Would grown children grow up if they had to make a decision or two on their own?  Would their children be better off if they observed their parents making decisions without going to Grandma?   Or is it a good thing the parents have support at all times of the day and, I assume, the night?  And what about that spouse who apparently can’t do anything without specific instructions from his wife?  Did he manage to become an adult without making those kinds of decisions?  Would he really be unable to get cable connected without the wife giving him the phone number and the speech he should recite?

Almost home

Almost home

Come on people!  How about we focus on our jobs when we’re at work?  How about we let our families handle whatever is going on in their lives and learn their own lessons?  How about we let the person on the other side of the cubicle wall do her job in relative peace without informing her (ok, probably not deliberately) of all details of your totally not interesting life.

Ok.  I’m done now.  Thanks for listening.

Home again

Home again


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When music fills the air

We made it through our back to back concerts, one Friday night for family and friends and one Saturday morning at a festival of community bands.   We had a lot of fun, but it sure took a lot out of me.  I napped most of Saturday afternoon and on into the evening.  But now I”m up and awake and I can tell you all about it!

Friday night we invited the Pontiac-Waterford Big Chief Barbershop Chorus to share the stage with us.  They did about 30 minutes of music, their harmony wonderful, their voices warm, they smiles big.  I’d say the average age of the men singing was late 60’s, maybe even early 70’s and their love of music was obvious.   Our love of their work was obvious as well, as we gave them a hearty round of applause at the end.

Then we were up.

We had only three pieces of music, but they were each long.  And mostly fast.  And difficult.  For me, the sound in the auditorium was different than it ever has been before, and I felt more exposed, though I was practically hidden by a grand piano that was being played during our last piece.  Some of the work felt mushy, a little less intense than I’d heard it in rehearsal.  But the audience seemed to enjoy it – we got spirited applause from the small crowd.  And we knew we would have another chance the next morning to make the music fly.

Saturday morning we needed to be an hour or more west by 9:00 a.m.  Given we’re in Michigan we worried about the weather  and most of us left early.  Turns out it was only snowing at our destination, so the ride over was uneventful.

Soon enough we were in the warmup room trying to get settled into our music.  Just before we went on stage the director asked us to do something she asks of her 6th graders before a concert.  She asked for 30 seconds of silence.  For the kids the goal was to get them to settle down.  We used those seconds to focus, to take a breath, to settle into ourselves, and if we were inclined, to ask for a little divine support.   I think it helped us stand taller and feel more centered and less rattled as we took the stage.

It worked.  The music flowed so much clearer on Saturday morning.  The sound moved across the band; from one side to the other we were one.  Even our troublesome second piece of music sounded like music rather than warm up exercises.  Of course we had hiccups.  One was probably obvious to the audience, certainly to the judges in the back, but most only we knew about and I’m not sharing.

I’m not saying we played as professionals.  Because we’re not.  We’re just a bunch of mostly older people who love to play and are grateful to have a venue.  Being invited to play at the community band festival is the highlight of our season and just about the most fun a middle aged band member can have.

Friday night I talked with one of the  Barbershop Chorus members. His grin was wide, his enthusiasm was contagious.  He was just back from his high school reunion where he was the only one left of his old singing group.  He said he couldn’t believe, at age 77, that he was still doing something he loved so much, how lucky he felt to still be involved with music.

Amen to that sir.  Amen to that.


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Don’t want to jinx it

Our community band plays a concert tomorrow night and then we’re on to the band festival Saturday morning.  We’ve had several weeks of solid rehearsals including this past Tuesday.  I don’t know when I’ve felt so prepared.

Which begs the question…good dress rehearsal…bad performance?  Of course not!  And really, Friday night IS rather like a dress rehearsal for Saturday’s event.  Still, I hope we play our hearts out tomorrow night for family and friends…and still keep some in reserve for the next morning too.

Wish us luck.  And if you’re around…7:00 Clarkston High School Friday night.  It’s free.

Resting and waiting for tomorrow.

Resting and waiting for tomorrow.