Change Is Hard

…but change is certain.


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Christmas Katie

Katie here.  Mama’s been so busy blogging and going to that place she calls ‘job’ that she’s been neglecting me.  Again.  Lucky thing I have Daddy to take care of me during the day.  Cause I don’t think my Mama really cares about me any more.

But you know what?  I have a boyfriend!  Well, I’ve had him for a lot of years, I think maybe my whole life, but I can’t remember back that far.  He (or maybe his Mom) sent me a Christmas present!  It took my forever to get my Mama to open it for me!

Open it already Mama!

Open it already Mama!

Then my Mama said because it is Christmas and all I had to pose with my present in the pretty lights.  GEEZE Mama!  Reilly sent me cookies, I don’t want to pose with them!  I want to eat them!

Come ON Mama!

Come ON Mama!

Sometimes the Mama is clueless.  So I helped myself.

Smells wonderful!

Smells wonderful!

In all the excitement I forgot to tell you about the beautiful cards Reiley’s Mom sent my Mama!  Actually…well…I am more interested in the cookies!

Cards?  What cards?

Cards? What cards?

And then we almost missed the big beautiful card in the package, and inside the big card was another gift from my boyfriend Reilly!

From my guy.

From my guy.

Thanks Reilly, for the wonderful collar bling.  You guys can’t read what it says…but I bet you can guess!  It says “Princess” on it!  And it’s in the shape of a heart!  Does this mean we’re engaged Reilly?  If I’d known we were getting engaged I’d have had my hair done!

You and your Mom are so nice Reilly!  I loved my presents!  It’s wonderful to know there’s a doggy out there that cares so much about me.  Wish we lived closer, I’d give you a smooch…and trust me, I am conservative in my smooch allowance for anyone, but you’re extra special.

Kisses to you Reilly, and to your Mom too!

From your gal Katie.

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Family time

I hope all of you in the States had an opportunity to spend some of Thanksgiving day with family or friends.  We traveled down to the farm where my Mom grew up  and spent some time with family over a wonderful meal.

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Lots of talking, lots of laughing, lots of eating.

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Perfect.

While there we took my brother, who hasn’t been back on the farm in many years, on a quick tour of the barns where we all used to play.

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It was very cold.  Especially for my brother’s girlfriend who is from El Salvador.

We noticed little things while exploring the barns, like what my uncle used to call a patented barn door handle…

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…and a clamp in my Grandfather’s shop…

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…with a view of the old farmhouse through the shop window.

While we were wandering among the barns huge flocks of sand hill cranes flew screeching overhead.  There were at least 3 groups of them, each as large or larger than this group:

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This is not a great shot, I took it blindly up into the sky without being able to see what I caught, then cropped the heck out of it so that you could see something of what we saw.  It was so cool.

Barns, birds, family…

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…you can’t get much better than that.

And to top it off there was pie.   Happy sigh.

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It was a gift

Saturday night in Ann Arbor….for me that means the Ann Arbor Symphony.  And though weather threatened snow we made the trip down for an evening of music.  It was worth the drive.

They started out with Fratres for Strings and Percussion by Arevo Part, a contemporary composer.  This work was written in 1977 and showcases his minimalistic style with six bars of music repeated, slightly differently, throughout the piece.  It begins in the violins so softly you can barely hear and crescendos as cellos and finally the basses are added near the middle of the piece, then fades away again until you aren’t sure where it ended.  The sound is contemplative, meditative, soothing.

The symphony’s Concertmaster violinist Aaron Berofsky was the featured soloist and masterfully played Tchaikovsky’s  Concerto for Violin in D Major, Op. 35.  He has a beautiful sound, extraordinary technique and it was a joy to hear this melodic and technically challenging piece.  Mr. Berofsky spoke at the lecture before the concert and said he first began working on this piece when he was 15 and it has continued to teach him throughout his lifetime.  The audience was so moved that it burst into extended applause between the first and second movement.

After intermission we were delighted by Tchaikovsky’s Symphony No. 1 in G minor, Op.13 “Winter Dreams.”  Though I enjoyed the full and lush orchestration (usually my favorite parts of any symphony) of the first, third and fourth movements,  I was caught off guard and extraordinarily moved by the second.  (It begins at 11:42 on the link I provided.)  Only a few minutes into it I realized my eyes were filled with tears and by the time the oboe and flute began their work together the tears were sliding down my face.  I wiped them away surreptitiously thinking surely no one else was so moved.  This piece is not played frequently and I told my Aunt after the performance that I could listen to it again right then.  She grinned and responded “Wasn’t that second movement wonderful?  I felt like I was floating.”

Symphony No. 1  has everything, the huge symphonic sound, the gentle tug on emotions, outstanding music for string, woodwinds, stunning horn work.  If you’ve never heard a symphony please take the time to listen to this one.  It’s worth every bit of the 44 minutes,  I promise you.   At least listen to the first two movements — I’ll bet you’ll be hooked and will stay for the rest.

Symphony No. 1 was composed in 1866, when Tchaikovsky was 25.  As we drove home I tried to remember what I was doing when I was 25.  I know I wasn’t creating something so beautiful that hundreds of people would sit mesmerized 147 years later.  The combination of Tschaikovsky and the Ann Arbor Symphony is amazing; so wonderful so powerful, so relaxing.  So beautiful that it defies description.

Last night the music was bigger than the hall.  Surely it could not be contained in one room.  Surely the music must have blown through the walls, burst through the ceiling and floated above the city of Ann Arbor.  Surely it must have seeped into the spirit of all who live there, been expelled on the breath of everyone walking by, mingled in the hearts of all within miles, given up to the heavens and received by God.

As we walked out into the night we were greeted with snow.  The holidays are upon us and the Ann Arbor Symphony had just presented us with our very first gift.

All I can say is thank you.

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Thanksgiving – the real deal

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What are your strongest and best memories of Thanksgiving?  Did your family gather, members driving across country, did they sit around big tables telling stories and laughing?  Did the food get eaten, leftovers put away, then pulled back out again later in the day?  Did your family wrap up what was left, send it home in plastic containers to be warmed up again later in the weekend?

Mine did.

Maybe you remember spending the afternoon watching football games with your family, cheering on favorites, groaning when plays didn’t go your way, munching on turkey sandwiches or stealing another piece of pie.  Maybe your favorite memories are of distant cousins, elderly aunts, grandparents, people you didn’t see all the time.  Maybe your family called far away relatives later in the afternoon for long conversations, catching up with months of news.

Mine did – and I bet a lot of your memories are similar.  The point is that many memories of a best Thanksgiving are filled with family.

Now consider what it would be like if you had to work on Thanksgiving — and not because you were vital to the safety of your community, not because you were needed to fight fire or save lives in a hospital — but because people wanted to shop.  They wanted to shop for stuff that would not change the world, would not further humanity, would not even make others particularly happy.  Just ordinary stuff.

Imagine that you have to work because retailers are looking for a bigger profit.  Profit over family, not a unique concept, but imagine you don’t have a choice, that it’s not even your profit; you’re just a pawn on their balance sheets.

Think about it.  The only way retailers can exploit their workers, force them to work on a day that should be all about family, is if we all rush out to patronize their stores on Thanksgiving day.  We don’t have to do that.  What in the world do we need that is so important that we have to buy it on Thanksgiving?

Really?

Nothing.

So here’s a thought.  Join the movement, check out the facebook page.  And how about we don’t go out to shop on Thanksgiving.  How about we don’t let ourselves be manipulated for the retailers good.  How about we don’t let ourselves get caught up in the commercialism of the holiday.  How about instead we look around and see the family members that we love so much, how about we slow down and realize what is important.  How about we sit down to a family dinner.  How about we spend the day in conversation with each other.  How about we value family.

And how about we let everyone do that, even retail workers for one day.  One day filled with family, conversations, laughter, stories, football and pie.

Now that would be the real deal.


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Giants

Sunday’s adventures revolved around big things.  Really big trees, located in the Sequoia National Forest and really big mountains in Kings Canyon.  And on our way out to the parks we stopped in Visalia, a small town known for it’s giant murals.

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We couldn’t find a map that told us where they all were so we wandered the town and found a few of them.

Imported Photos 00300 (Small)Then we headed up into the mountains to find the trees for ourselves.  It was a beautiful trip through farmland filled with orange groves and grapefruit trees and miles and miles of grapes.

But I digress.  I’m sure what you really want to see are the trees – yes?  You won’t be disappointed.

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAAren’t they magnificent?  There were lots of them, each beautiful.  I wish I could live in a small house out in the middle of these trees.   I loved them all.

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAI also wish I could show them all to you, but there were so many.  You just have to add this park to your list of places to visit.  After we toured the giant trees we headed over to the park right next door called Kings Canyon.  The mountains were awe inspiring.  Everywhere you looked was something stunningly beautiful.

Imported Photos 00367 (Small)We were lucky too that the parks were open for free this weekend in honor of Veteran’s Day.  Can you believe it?  All this splendor and no entrance fee!

Imported Photos 00372 (Small)I told my husband this was better than visiting Disney World.  I could have stayed taking photos all day.

Imported Photos 00383 (Small)The good news is we stayed at a lodge right in the park Sunday night, so Monday we’ll get to explore some more.  It’s all just amazing.  I can’t wait to show you!

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Random summer sounds

Come see my flowers!

Come see my flowers!

It’s the 4th of July, early evening, and Katie and I are sitting on the back deck enjoying the yard.  I’ve just filled the bird feeders and Mr. Cardinal (from the previous post …I’m sure it’s him, he’s just so vibrant and talkative) is chatting at me while selecting the perfect seed from the new pile.  Katie is on the lookout for chipmunks.  Or that squirrel that’s been hanging around.

I spent my day off napping and weeding and sorting community band music to file away .  Tomorrow I go back to work.  Odd.  I keep thinking today is Saturday and that I’ll have tomorrow off.

Lots of things in our garden are pretty this week.  So I thought I’d share a few with you as I sit and listen to the sounds of mid-summer here in  Southeastern Michigan.

I hear the green heron squawking over at the pond.  He’s so illusive I’ve never been able to get a picture.   Most of the time I hear him and then just see the tail end of him fly overhead and back to the woods where he spends the nights.  I think there are a pair of them but I’m not sure.  Last year there were three by the end of the summer.

Sounds from the county fair, set high up on a hill a few miles away drift overhead.  Today is  opening day, and apparently it’s monster truck night.  That’s not nearly as annoying as the big boom firecrackers going off on occasion somewhere nearby.  Katie barks back.  She’s not scared.  She wants to take care of it !  Michigan used to outlaw the private use of these kind of fireworks, but everyone went to Ohio to get them, and our governor felt we needed the revenue.  So now they’re everywhere and the nights are long.  I personally feel someone is going to get hurt and there will be a big hullabaloo and they’ll be outlawed again.  Katie is all for that.  Me too.

Just opening

Just opening

The other annoying sound is the neighbor’s weed whacker.  Really.  It’s a nice night, turn the thing off.  Please.  Oh wait.  He just did.  Happy sigh.  Now I can hear the monster trucks better.  They’re drowning out the bullfrogs that are beginning to sing.  And there’s a red winged blackbird overhead that does not like me sitting here.  He wants to raid the feeder.  I swear, they can empty out a 10 pound feeder in a single day.  I’ve been rationing the oilers.  Some summers I just stop putting those out till the blackbirds leave in the fall.

Ah…the sounds of summer here in Michigan.  The finches are chirping in the trees overhead, discussing whether it’s safe to drop in and visit the feeders while that dog is sitting here.  Or maybe it’s me they don’t like.  The trees are full of them chattering.  I filled the thistle feeder just for them, and they know it too.   I expect some of them will get brave soon and swoop down.  Usually there are so many they form a line waiting their turn.  Sometimes they bully each other on and off the feeder.  Noisy pretty little birds.  Two are splashing in the bird bath now, and chasing each other around.

The chickadee was the first brave bird of those waiting in the trees to go for the seed.  Then the goldfinches and the house finches followed.  Katie stays still and watches.  She’s a good dog.  She supervised some of the weeding today.  She likes to make sure everything is done right.  She has her standards.

Almost finished

Almost finished

The wren is on the bluebird house singing her heart out.  She does this all day.  Maybe it’s the male.  I should learn these things.  They do this every year.  We haven’t had blue birds in our houses in awhile, but the tree swallows and the wrens are fine with that.  I guess I am too.  Oops…the wren has moved to a tree next to the deck.  She’s chattering angrily at us.  Sorry sweetie but I’m staying here.

I did see a bluebird today, early this morning as I was walking Katie by the pond.  He was in the road pecking at something, then he saw us and flew up on a speed limit sign, then onto a mail box, keeping ahead of us.  I told Katie to wait and we just watched him.  He went back down to the road, picked something up and then flew  away.  Pretty.

Pretty garden

Pretty garden

A titmouse arrives at the feeder, making it’s harsh call as it circles around poking it’s head in every opening.  It selects a seed and joyfully flies to a branch overhead, screeching all the way.  It’s not afraid of anything either, not dog or person on the deck watching.  Soon it’s back announcing it’s happiness at fresh seed.  The sound of it’s wings as it flies back and forth is so fun.

They remind me that I haven’t seen my hummingbirds today.  I imagine they’re waiting for things to settle down a bit.  My hummers aren’t that happy with all the activity of the other birds.  I put fresh food out for them this evening too.  They’ll be by in the morning.

Waiting for a butterfly

Waiting for a butterfly

It’s such a lovely evening here.  As light fades the bird noise and traffic to the feeders grows, the tree frogs are beginning to join in the chorus and the wren has moved off and is again singing. Nature is overshadowing the monster trucks’ roar.  I hope you all had a wonderful and safe holiday and that you are settling into evening as peacefully as we are here.

Happy Birthday America.  You don’t look a day over 200.

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